RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
Okay. Today I had a refresher, because at my age, this hasn't been too much of as issue. But I am now seeing a much younger woman (25 years) and had to pull this out of my toolbox. This doesn't really apply to older women since they typically don't have 'friends' around them that they do not like. The older you get (man or woman) the less tolerant having people around you do not like. But younger dudes will fine value in this.
Okay let's get this started: If you meet a woman while out and you know you are meeting her friends, understand that women they DO NOT mention are those whose opinion they REALLY care about. When you show up, if you happen to run into women as a 'coincidence' there is a very strong possibility that this is NOT a coincidence. This was planned... she wants you to meet her friends and get their opinion of you. Do not stress over this... just be yourself and everything will work out the way it is supposed to.
Now, if you are meeting one of her friends that she says ANYTHING like "she's kind of difficult and I'm sure you will not get along" could be anything like this.... this, well you can consider this a test.
This is what you need to do to make a good impression. Any friends she NEVER mentions... you need to be super nice and fun... it's even okay if you flirt with her a little... just don't cross that line. This friend is the one you need to impress. Be nice, talk up the woman of interest... even ignore the woman of interest when you talk to this unexpected friend. This is the one whose opinion really matters to her.
Now the one she says is 'difficult'... pick a fight with her... be disagreeable, not intentionally, but if she says something you do not agree with, challenge her/him... and if she/he comes at you do not back down.... do not go out of your way to try and make them happy... do not back down... don't be a ****, but also do not be a pushover. Too many men think they need to be super nice to the 'difficult' friend, to prove they can get along with anyone... if later this friend comes back and tells her she does not like you, so the fvck what? This is a plus... she will likely think more of you if you do not get along the friend she says is difficult. Chances are that if she already said this 'friend' is difficult, she doesn't really like them anyway.
Okay let's get this started: If you meet a woman while out and you know you are meeting her friends, understand that women they DO NOT mention are those whose opinion they REALLY care about. When you show up, if you happen to run into women as a 'coincidence' there is a very strong possibility that this is NOT a coincidence. This was planned... she wants you to meet her friends and get their opinion of you. Do not stress over this... just be yourself and everything will work out the way it is supposed to.
Now, if you are meeting one of her friends that she says ANYTHING like "she's kind of difficult and I'm sure you will not get along" could be anything like this.... this, well you can consider this a test.
This is what you need to do to make a good impression. Any friends she NEVER mentions... you need to be super nice and fun... it's even okay if you flirt with her a little... just don't cross that line. This friend is the one you need to impress. Be nice, talk up the woman of interest... even ignore the woman of interest when you talk to this unexpected friend. This is the one whose opinion really matters to her.
Now the one she says is 'difficult'... pick a fight with her... be disagreeable, not intentionally, but if she says something you do not agree with, challenge her/him... and if she/he comes at you do not back down.... do not go out of your way to try and make them happy... do not back down... don't be a ****, but also do not be a pushover. Too many men think they need to be super nice to the 'difficult' friend, to prove they can get along with anyone... if later this friend comes back and tells her she does not like you, so the fvck what? This is a plus... she will likely think more of you if you do not get along the friend she says is difficult. Chances are that if she already said this 'friend' is difficult, she doesn't really like them anyway.
