Advice for College....

[DJ1234]

I need to know some good advice on transistioning from High School to Colllege. Anything that is definetly different from either? Should somethings be done differently in college than in high school? How is the experinece with women in the college life different from the high school life?

 

[KaJaMo]

Dude all I can say is get pumped. Freshman year is one of the most experiences in your life. It's all of what you make of it.

Make sure as soon as you get there you become social and be very outgoing.. make lots of new friends. That is the number one priority. Then slowly select yoru friends by hanging out with the more "popular" kids.. the ones who get girls pretty easily.. and you can tell who those guys are.

The campus size, and if your living in the dorm or are commuting is a big part of it too.

Living in the dorm is amazing and I can't even describe how much P*ssy you'll be getting.

Just rememeber, be social. Look good. Get involved, don't becoem a hermit in your room.. and go out on weekends.

I wish i coudl relive freshman year, i had so much sex my d*ck almost fell off. And second semester I got an amazing g/f and we shagged like rabbits 3 tiems a day. lol.


Have fun man!

 

[theunflushables]

College is a billion times better than HS. Best advice I can give you is: Forget who or what you were in HS. This is the perfect chance to start over completely fresh.

 

[rakishness]

Join a frat. Your social life/(sex life) will be amazing.

 

[IamMyownMan]

I read somewhere a few years back that the first three weeks(month) in college is the most promiscuous time of the American woman's life. Live it up. If you have a girlfriend break up with her before you go.

As unflushables said, it is also a very opportune time to start afresh with women and your life in general.

Your life/social life will be amazing if YOU make it that way. You definitely do not have to join a fraternity to have an incredible time in college.

Don't worry about making friends with dudes, that will happen by default. Try to meet as many women as possible from the moment you get there.

 

[theunflushables]

Pfft...screw frats. You just end up drinking yourself stupid with a bunch of dumb ass jocks and end up catching STD from the sorostitutes that get passed around. Unless you join Lambda Lambda Lambda, they're pretty cool.

 

[KaJaMo]

Unflushables, don't hate on something you werent cool enough to experience.

 

[theunflushables]

Excuse me? Not cool enough to experience? First thing you don't know me son, so you don't have any basis to say if I am cool or not. Secondly I had the chance to join, but I turned them down. Why? Because I'm not going to pay a sh1tload in dues to hang out with people when I can do it for free.

I'm guessing you were greek, so if you were you know about the dumb jocks and the sorostitutes. Don't pretend like it doesnt exist.

 

[KaJaMo]

Being Greek gives you a whole new outlook on life.

Some experieces that my Fraternity has made way for, is amazing.

1 website.

frattinghard.com

 

[oakraiderz2]

I read somewhere a few years back that the first three weeks(month) in college is the most promiscuous time of the American woman's life. Live it up. If you have a girlfriend break up with her before you go.

My friends and i are getting a house in aug. The first week of school im scouting out some freshman girls and laying as many as i can. They all go crazy with their new found freedom and alcohol. Good times, good times.

 

[The Forms]

I went to a few different colleges, and really the frat thing just depends on the school. I went to a college where you couldn't have a social life if you didn't join a frat, and I went to colleges where being in a frat made you lame and people laughed at you. Just depends on the school. Feel it out when you get there.

Freshman year of college was one of my favorite years of my life thus far. A lot of guys who were popular in high school have a hard time adjusting because you don't have a reputation yet, and some of the things that really worked in high school really DON'T work in college. Dominance is more subtle, being a bully doesn't make you look cool, it just makes you look immature. Stuff like that.

That being said, meet as many people as you can as fast as you can. The first month or so there are no cliques yet, and everyone is dying to meet people, so you can literally just walk up to a girl in the cafeteria and say, "hey, can I sit here?" and she'll be excited to meet someone new when in other times in her life she'd be apprehensive.

Living on campus freshman year is really important. Because right next to your building there will be a building full of women who want to meet you. And they aren't used to their newfound independance. They aren't used to being able to be as promiscuous as they want without having to worry about their parents finding out.

By the time they graduate they will be used to it and will chill out on having sex like they do when they are freshman. Both guys and girls find out a lot about who they are their freshman year. And a lot of the figuring out who you AREN'T happens freshman year.

 

[KaJaMo]

And also rememebr this, no one wanst to invite freshman dudes to parties. Thus this is where frat interest comes in, even if you don't end up joining a Frat, [pretend to do so.

THat way you get VIP invites to parties and have the time of your lfie, and maybe you like it enought o eventually pledge.

That's pretty much what I did, even though I played a sport frshman year so I already had a good group of guys and the btiches were flocking. Soph year I ended up pledging, and oh MAN, all I can say is i have to pull the *****es offf now.

 

[rakishness]

Frat Boys have Social Proof. Social Proof gets you LAID. PERIOD. Also...say what ever you want about those sorority girls. But at my old school...those where HOTTEST chicks on campus. And they LOVE frat boys. And when other women on campus see other HBs attracted to you they can't help but be attracted to you as well.

Hey man...I don't make the rules...I just study the game....:yes:

 

[Bible_Belt]

Here's some advice for college:

Go to class, take notes, study, and get good grades. If you aren't getting mostly A's, then you shouldn't be in college. Undergrad is ridiculously easy. Get A's, and you allow yourself many more opportunities in the future, like being able to get into grad school. Unless your major is engineering, science, math, and maybe some business degrees, a bachelor's degree is not worth much these days. You need a graduate degree to make decent money, and a lot of mid-20somethings find themselves unable to get into grad school because they are haunted by a low undergrad gpa from years ago.

Put school first, and partying second, and this will still leave a lot of time for partying.

 

[DJVladdy]

OK this is a thread fo me because Im a part of both worlds. I AM going to be sort of a freshman (tranfer student) at a big university in boston. But i have spent 2 years at a college already. I had it all pretty much.
Let me tell you guys, you are moving too fast, frats? cmon people, i thought the same way.

You are putting the carriage in front of the horse. Let the youngsters see whats going on, where they fit in, etc... be social, party it up, and the frats will find YOU.

 

[Alphamale1821]

What about going to a university your sophomore year. I'm going to community college in the fall and will plan to transfer in the spring or the fall of 2008. Do you really miss out by transferring sophomore year as opposed to a incoming freshmen. This is the exact reason why I'm transferring sophomore year as opposed to junior due to missing out. I Should be in a university but I'm not letting that hold me back which is why i want to be their within my sophomore year.

 

[OrdinaryMadness]

I just transfered last fall from a JC to a major university. BIG DIFFERENCE!!! My JC experiences were just like high school...little to no hooking up with chicks. On top of that, the social setting sucked. When I transfered last Fall, I pledged to a frat and the social life has been awesome. I would definitely recommend it, although it is probably not for everyone. Bible Belt is right though, you have to put your school work first, so my only bit of advice is to find a balance between school work and partying.

 

[OrdinaryMadness]

That was my first post BTW...its great to be a part of the DJ forums finally.

 

[Master Bates]

I'm probably not the best person to give advice on college, considering I completely and utterly wasted college and didn't take advantage of it in absolutely every respect (gaining knowledge, gpa, partying, girls, networking, etc).

But one thing I can say is don't piss any of it away. Maybe you're not the type of person to do this kind of stuff anyway, but spend as little time as possible playing Xbox by yourself, f*cking around on the internet, channel surfing because there's "nothing else to do".....you get the idea. College is a very unique time in your life when you have social/sexual/life experience opportunities that you'll never again have, and you don't want to waste any of it. If you have the opportunity to have a new experience that might put you outside your comfort zone when you could instead just be sitting in and playing Halo or WoW, take advantage of it. Jesus god almighty, just take it. Sitting alone in front of a screen is not how you make fond memories and have stories to tell later on in your life. This may sound obvious to some, and painful to accept for others, but it's a mindset you will regret not having had in college for the rest of your life. The rest of your life.

Here's hoping this message will get sent back in time to myself 8 years ago ....

 

[azanon]

Here's some advice for college:

Go to class, take notes, study, and get good grades. If you aren't getting mostly A's, then you shouldn't be in college. Undergrad is ridiculously easy. Get A's, and you allow yourself many more opportunities in the future, like being able to get into grad school. Unless your major is engineering, science, math, and maybe some business degrees, a bachelor's degree is not worth much these days. You need a graduate degree to make decent money, and a lot of mid-20somethings find themselves unable to get into grad school because they are haunted by a low undergrad gpa from years ago.

Put school first, and partying second, and this will still leave a lot of time for partying.

Now here's a smart man!

I focused at least 80% on this (and it paid off), avoided the frats, and literally zeroed in on the specific chicks i wanted to date. In ALL of your life, women should be ancillary to it, i dont care how much you love them. I love women too, but they should come second to you and your future.

Generally speaking, having a social life is a bit overrated. It doesn't pay the bills, the mortgage, the car, etc. That's the hard part of life. You get all of that, take care of your health, and finding a hot babe is a walk in the park.