Advice for a noob

[John Striker]

Well after being busy for a very long time I have finally found time for a social life obtain gf. Problem is I am not very good at it. Extremely anxious I usually feel invisible. I would love to not be that guy who is considered an untouchable.

 

[Tictac]

Buy and read Corey Wayne's "How to be a 3% man". Not because it's the best thing since sliced bread but because it's compact and focuses on fundamentals. It's the mechanics of finding and going out with women you want to be with.

Then get out there and do it. That's the only way mechanics become part of you.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

What TicTac said for a starter. Then you'll want to get it more redpilled an you coul read both Rollo Tommassi's books. After that I would recommend you start focusing on game, instead of only inner game. For this you'll want the DJBible, anything from the RSD crew (I recommend PIMP by Julien) and the YaReally archive.

Good luck bro.

 

[RangerMIke]

Buy and read Corey Wayne's "How to be a 3% man". Not because it's the best thing since sliced bread but because it's compact and focuses on fundamentals. It's the mechanics of finding and going out with women you want to be with.

Then get out there and do it. That's the only way mechanics become part of you.

I agree. Wayne is more of a life coach than a PUA, he's like a modern version of Doc. Love. If you are looking to get into and stay in a relationship then Wayne's process is the way to go. But be warned the book is laborious... He goes on and on about stories... that drag on. He really fails to get to the point. That book could have been 1/4 the size that it is.

But if you can bull your way through the book good stuff. He says you have to read it 15 times to get the gist... I suspect that is true, but God... I wish the book was more entertaining, it would make the re-read much easier.

 

[Dealler]

Well after being busy for a very long time I have finally found time for a social life obtain gf. Problem is I am not very good at it. Extremely anxious I usually feel invisible. I would love to not be that guy who is considered an untouchable.

Corey Wayne is good, but i´d advise you to go to his youtube channel, because there´s all the information you need and basically it covers up everything written in his book in more entertaining way. I personally have watched his videos and also read the book and there was nothing new in it.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Yeah, no need to read that book more than once, if you keep on reading redpill or PUA stuff the sam concepts will be repeated through new lenses and it will sit. And, of course, go out and experience things first hand. Don't be afraid to fail with girls, specially if you are doing it with friends, that **** is hilarious lol.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

I'm watching some Jason Capital programs and even though it's the same content you would find in other places, he has a ****ton of energy. Really good stuf to pump you up and gain some confidence about what is possible. Like I said, nothing really now as far as I've watch but the envelope is goooood.