ok, wake up,runner83 said:DJ rule 101 - Never take advice from women on relationships (clothes shopping is the one exception).
With all due respect, did you even read the post about "Plate Theory":
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=90482
Some key points from it:
It's not about being afraid of being hurt.
It's about seeing what options are out there, rather than focusing on one girl, until you do find one who meets your standards.
And if you do plate spin, it will reflect in your attitude towards women, and you will be more attractive.
It is also clearly stated that plate spinning for the sake of it is not worthwhile: better to have 2 quality plates who you are into, rather than 5 crappy ones.
I know your post is said with the best of intentions, but the simple fact is that the disconnect between what women "think they want" and "actually do want" is large.
That's why I made that as my signature: "Judge a woman by her actions, not her words"
Cuts through all the other cr*p and gets to what she really wants.
im not "women
im a person, im speaking. I know what turns me on just like you can point out what turns you on.
the ability of giving advise is not based on the sex but more on inteligence and analysing skills of oneself and the world around us.
secondly just stop arguing the person and just argue the statement, be rational.
this law shouldn't be applied for women, but more for immature/ childish poeple in general. Then if you want to consider every women immature and not capable, it's another story...