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brecker07

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Hi, I'm new here, but after just a week of reading stuff (Pook's posts escpesially - he's the Man) I have a renewed outlook, and I've been feeling very confident. I do have a problem though - there is a girl that I was a wussy with a few months back and she gave me the let's be freinds deal. Since then we haven't hung out to much. The past few times I've talked to her though, without even trying I feel myself being more confident; I haven't been talking to her like she's better then everybody else. I thought this was good, and that we were cool, but yesterday I call her and she doesn't pick up, so I leave a messege and say something ****y and funny. When she calls me back though, she's angry! She tells me that I'm egotistical now, and I'm a different person from the one she first met, and that she would never want to hang out with me. Then she hangs up on me! I almost called her back, but I didn't think it was a good idea; I'd have said something I'd regret. Anyway, todays a new day, and I think I should call her... but what should I say? what would you say? :confused:
I'm sure a lot of you would just say to forget about her - but she's sombody I see often; it would suck to have her hate me forever; I don't need to seduce her, I just want things to be cool between us.
 

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Time of the month eh?


If you are gonna hang around her, show others around you that while you are arrogant or whatever, that you can caring and insightful. So......two sides of you
 

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so you don't think i should call? Thats a good tip though. just be nice to everybody else.
 

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So basically what happened here is that your not the pvssy she originally thought you were - the guy she can use as the emotional tampon. And she doesn't like it.

I would not call her back - you say that you bump into her socially - so just let happen how it's going to happen.

Remember, she dissed you - not you dissing her. Your not a dog, you don't run back to your master after you've been shouted at.

Just keep doing what your doing.

Perhaps your being a little to arrogant - and need to be more Funny in the ****y and funny. You can take that to far.

But you'll figure that out in time.
 

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Thanks heaps guys, this site is teh cool. I've learned so much, the chick is right! - I am a different person! A less average, less frustrated, less chumpy person that no longer wishes to play mind games. I think that I should tone down the C&F with her, I suppose I should tailor my style to the individual.
 
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Your delivery probably sucked and the topic was not timely.

Being ****y on the phone sounds more harsh than in person - it leaves an even worse vibe on an answering machine - never do this again!

Don't call her - when you bump into her just whistle at her and keep walking with a smirk on your face - her over-reaction indicates that she obviously never liked you anyway..
 

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Girls that have already labeled you as a chump will not change their mind overnight. You need to spend a lot of time away from her (months) and then maybe you could work some game on her like you just met her. But even then, why waste your time on her, when there are a billion other hot girls just WAITING to be approached???


Go use your new found confidence on girls that don't know you yet.


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The problem is and you would know this if you spent more time here studying is that you landed in Friend Zone.

It's too late for this ho. Move on. What your trying to do is flip the script on her by becoming something she doesn't see you as.


Your trying ****y but funny and it looks like your just being a complete aszhole to her. Why? Because this isn't how you started with her.

The way you start is the way you finish!

She can't see this new ****y dude in you...because she has put you in friend zone.


Try this shyt or style on some new ho's and don't get some kind of stalkers one-itis on this bytch.
 
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