OK...guys...I already know I've made mistakes, but I'm learning everyday...and having fun every minute of it...so I'm asking for practical suggestions for dealing with a certain broad...tactics is what I need for dealing with her...would like to keep her as a ****-toy...if nothing else...
We've been dating for 4 months now....she treated me like GOLD for almost the full amount....and then something changed rather quickly....once again, I'm not sure what...and I'm not sure if it's even relevant for asking reasons as to why this chick went flaky...other than the fact, that she certainly has some emotional baggage from being divorced.....and she said she needed to slow things down because she was falling for me...
She ****ed me, she sucked me, she cooked for me, cleaned for me and called me every damn day...telling me how much she missed me and how wonderful I am...so it's been pretty good....
she is an HB, who gets alot of attention, but I snagged her with my looks and charm....we never defined our relationship...but it was kind of just assumed we were so crazy about one another and everything that we would just keep it at that....and I did want to spend my time with her exclusively just because she WAS damn good...(mistake!)..
I'm not going to go over the crash and burn scenario, but I noticed she wasn't her old fun self lately, ....so I asked her if she wanted to date other guys...and she said "not really"...and "when would I have time for that"...that is womanspeak for YES....she also said that she thought, that I wanted to settle and she didn't....(that's not really so)....so I immediately told her that that was fine, well I emailed her and told her to don't be surprised if she heard I was out with a another date...she then got mad and said, accused me of having another piece on the side...blah blah blah...(I didn't)...so anyway we crashed and burned ok....and then one night after all her flaky escapades I called her a fake, and said she didn't meet my expectations, and to just walk-away...(I was kind of acting like a sucker/chump here)........but I was trying to provoke a reaction...
The very next day she came to the gym where I worked and had her ex beside her on the treadmill, (it was obviously a ploy to get back at me)...and then we talked and she came over and I asked her if things were just over between us and we kissed, "And said, does it feel like it's over...to me I thought that was weak....
Then the next day she comes to the gym again...and she said for me to stop worrying about things and that it was all good...and she had a male workout buddy the next day...obviously trying to piss me off again!
Dropped her an testing the waters a few days later...saying maybe we can get together sometime...and that I still cared...she sent me a cold email back saying, Yeah we can get together maybe sometime....talk to you soon....but when she comes to the gym she doesn't seek me out to talk...so I don't her.
She's good...but how do I break this ice that has taken over. I don't give a **** about romance, feelings, relationship and such really....I just really hope to be friends/ and maybe a ****-buddy too... at least right now.
Suggestions. I have another HB lined up to come into the gym to see me ....maybe she will see me with this hot broad...and get pissed too, and want me back...walk away?...play the game?....any suggestions?
We've been dating for 4 months now....she treated me like GOLD for almost the full amount....and then something changed rather quickly....once again, I'm not sure what...and I'm not sure if it's even relevant for asking reasons as to why this chick went flaky...other than the fact, that she certainly has some emotional baggage from being divorced.....and she said she needed to slow things down because she was falling for me...
She ****ed me, she sucked me, she cooked for me, cleaned for me and called me every damn day...telling me how much she missed me and how wonderful I am...so it's been pretty good....
she is an HB, who gets alot of attention, but I snagged her with my looks and charm....we never defined our relationship...but it was kind of just assumed we were so crazy about one another and everything that we would just keep it at that....and I did want to spend my time with her exclusively just because she WAS damn good...(mistake!)..
I'm not going to go over the crash and burn scenario, but I noticed she wasn't her old fun self lately, ....so I asked her if she wanted to date other guys...and she said "not really"...and "when would I have time for that"...that is womanspeak for YES....she also said that she thought, that I wanted to settle and she didn't....(that's not really so)....so I immediately told her that that was fine, well I emailed her and told her to don't be surprised if she heard I was out with a another date...she then got mad and said, accused me of having another piece on the side...blah blah blah...(I didn't)...so anyway we crashed and burned ok....and then one night after all her flaky escapades I called her a fake, and said she didn't meet my expectations, and to just walk-away...(I was kind of acting like a sucker/chump here)........but I was trying to provoke a reaction...
The very next day she came to the gym where I worked and had her ex beside her on the treadmill, (it was obviously a ploy to get back at me)...and then we talked and she came over and I asked her if things were just over between us and we kissed, "And said, does it feel like it's over...to me I thought that was weak....
Then the next day she comes to the gym again...and she said for me to stop worrying about things and that it was all good...and she had a male workout buddy the next day...obviously trying to piss me off again!
Dropped her an testing the waters a few days later...saying maybe we can get together sometime...and that I still cared...she sent me a cold email back saying, Yeah we can get together maybe sometime....talk to you soon....but when she comes to the gym she doesn't seek me out to talk...so I don't her.
She's good...but how do I break this ice that has taken over. I don't give a **** about romance, feelings, relationship and such really....I just really hope to be friends/ and maybe a ****-buddy too... at least right now.
Suggestions. I have another HB lined up to come into the gym to see me ....maybe she will see me with this hot broad...and get pissed too, and want me back...walk away?...play the game?....any suggestions?
