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It's hard to see this, with the mind you currently have and the eyes you're viewing it all through, but please bear with me.
Having to ask how to play it means you should go to work IMMEDIATELY on improving yourself. Don't set to "HOW SHOULD I DO IT," the answer will come in time. Once you're through the journey of what you desire, you'll know what you want. But how can we here, who have no knowledge of you or this girl, aside from the font on the screen outlay a strategy for you?
We can't, bro. That's just it.
In Swingers, they made mention that a girl only returns when she "senses" you've forgotten about her, and in all sense, you have. You've become someone new. As you should. Our sense of self is very fluid, so we change almost as much as our skin changes.
If she doesn't ACCEPT your dates, DUMP her. Drop her. Launch her. Tell her fvck off. Seriously, why do you want someone inflexible? Learn to be calm enough to accept what you desire of life, on your terms, on your playing field. So many people sacrifice relationships, as if there's NOTHING else out there, putting their own emotions on tilt with the feeling it's the end of the world. WHY? To live like that, BLAH!
If you're going on her plans, her acceptance, and still even conjuring up plans, you're still AFC, or RAFC, only you're consciously aware of it. Many guys aren't. Break this cycle by putting the full focus on YOU!
YOU ONLY INVITE INTO YOUR LIFE THAT WHICH INCREASES IT.
Whether, it's friends, or girls, you're not here to accumulate 'people'. Alot of people will be deadweight, emotionally, and they'll stick around only to drag you around. They're not bad, you just don't see eye to eye, so cut them loose!
Do you know how many call me occasionally, inquiring how I'm doing, shocked at how much farther I've gone?
Everyone of them. Why? It's no fluke. It's "focusing" with passion. I won't spend an hour with a woman that isn't worth MY TIME. She knows it will be fun, because that's the time I reserve for myself, as well as her. I could be off with my mentor, off working out, off with friends, off with LIFE, and a girl wants a piece of that. It's their nature. It's their nature to find a guy "into society".
The games may work on High School girls, but because so many strategies exist in the real world, girls ARE VERY SKEPTICAL about everything. Absolutely everything. I was reading an email by David D commenting on "when you should call/email." Since the advent of the "Rules" and other programs, as well as the Internet, women are aware of different tactics. It's a turnoff when they sense one. Moreover, if you're dealing with a women who requires that, you have a kid on your hand. What other hoops should you jump through for her? Roll over? Play fetch? Get her slippers? How about castration?
The big deal is, this is your life. Every moment of it. You have complete control over every aspect, and DON'T have to do anything you don't want to do. By supplicating to her whimsical ways you show great flexibility, but even if you make ballsy comments but don't follow up with the actions, she still views your actions, not your comments.
I "used" to play games, and sure, it works in school...but tell me this. To be a guy who makes things happen, engages in his life actively, and the world around him, what type of person would you become?
Do you honestly believe some great catch is going to sit around and play games with you, when some other guy who's working on great things walks buy and offers to take her for a ride in his new SUV to his vacation home?
Be the guy with MUCH MORE EXCITING things to show her than just trick games. Engage her emotions. Make her feel life. But do it on your terms. When you pass the journey of "becoming," you'll know there's no answer, nor no right or wrong one. There's just what you do that's in the best interests of your life.
GL,
A-Unit
It's hard to see this, with the mind you currently have and the eyes you're viewing it all through, but please bear with me.
Having to ask how to play it means you should go to work IMMEDIATELY on improving yourself. Don't set to "HOW SHOULD I DO IT," the answer will come in time. Once you're through the journey of what you desire, you'll know what you want. But how can we here, who have no knowledge of you or this girl, aside from the font on the screen outlay a strategy for you?
We can't, bro. That's just it.
In Swingers, they made mention that a girl only returns when she "senses" you've forgotten about her, and in all sense, you have. You've become someone new. As you should. Our sense of self is very fluid, so we change almost as much as our skin changes.
If she doesn't ACCEPT your dates, DUMP her. Drop her. Launch her. Tell her fvck off. Seriously, why do you want someone inflexible? Learn to be calm enough to accept what you desire of life, on your terms, on your playing field. So many people sacrifice relationships, as if there's NOTHING else out there, putting their own emotions on tilt with the feeling it's the end of the world. WHY? To live like that, BLAH!
If you're going on her plans, her acceptance, and still even conjuring up plans, you're still AFC, or RAFC, only you're consciously aware of it. Many guys aren't. Break this cycle by putting the full focus on YOU!
YOU ONLY INVITE INTO YOUR LIFE THAT WHICH INCREASES IT.
Whether, it's friends, or girls, you're not here to accumulate 'people'. Alot of people will be deadweight, emotionally, and they'll stick around only to drag you around. They're not bad, you just don't see eye to eye, so cut them loose!
Do you know how many call me occasionally, inquiring how I'm doing, shocked at how much farther I've gone?
Everyone of them. Why? It's no fluke. It's "focusing" with passion. I won't spend an hour with a woman that isn't worth MY TIME. She knows it will be fun, because that's the time I reserve for myself, as well as her. I could be off with my mentor, off working out, off with friends, off with LIFE, and a girl wants a piece of that. It's their nature. It's their nature to find a guy "into society".
The games may work on High School girls, but because so many strategies exist in the real world, girls ARE VERY SKEPTICAL about everything. Absolutely everything. I was reading an email by David D commenting on "when you should call/email." Since the advent of the "Rules" and other programs, as well as the Internet, women are aware of different tactics. It's a turnoff when they sense one. Moreover, if you're dealing with a women who requires that, you have a kid on your hand. What other hoops should you jump through for her? Roll over? Play fetch? Get her slippers? How about castration?
The big deal is, this is your life. Every moment of it. You have complete control over every aspect, and DON'T have to do anything you don't want to do. By supplicating to her whimsical ways you show great flexibility, but even if you make ballsy comments but don't follow up with the actions, she still views your actions, not your comments.
I "used" to play games, and sure, it works in school...but tell me this. To be a guy who makes things happen, engages in his life actively, and the world around him, what type of person would you become?
Do you honestly believe some great catch is going to sit around and play games with you, when some other guy who's working on great things walks buy and offers to take her for a ride in his new SUV to his vacation home?
Be the guy with MUCH MORE EXCITING things to show her than just trick games. Engage her emotions. Make her feel life. But do it on your terms. When you pass the journey of "becoming," you'll know there's no answer, nor no right or wrong one. There's just what you do that's in the best interests of your life.
GL,
A-Unit