Adjectives used to describe me by a 20 yr old

[tryst type]

Oh this is a reminder to myself why I avoid girls under 24.

Let me preface by saying this was a girl off okcupid who we exchanged numbers and started texting a bit. She seemed very repressed, humor less, and very uptight who thought at her age she was god's gift to guys my age.

Anyway few text exchanges and her response to playful banter with no sexual innuendo at all was:

"Ok truth... I find you creepy, intolerable, and vapid so I'm done talking"

My response: "what, I'm too cute for you? I understand. Take care"

Her" "You too, I'm sorry"

 

[The Gambler]

I hear ya. The bright side to this is that there was a minimum of games and wasting of time... I agree with you 100% that a 20 year-old woman should be avoided pretty much at all costs if you're older -- when you add "humorless" and "repressed" to the equation, nothing good will come of this.

Well, at least she said she was sorry at the end.... I wouldn't take any of this personally, TT.

The Gambler

 

[user43770]

This type of entitled, smug attitude makes me seethe. You handled it well.

 

[disgustipated]

Ask her about her friends.

 

[mrRuckus]

"Creepy" has zero meaning anymore. It means absolutely nothing as a catch all.

 

[Iceberg]

Damn, dude. What I'm wondering is how much were you texting this girl in order for her to even say this to you?

Typically I get a girl's number/arrange a date in the 3rd email on these sites. Then I text her first like "Hey it's Iceberg. How's it going? Just wanted to make sure I gave you my number. Catch you soon."

Then the 2nd time I text, I arrange the date.

I'm just struggling to imagine how much "playful banter" you were sending that would elicit such an ignorant response from her.

With online chicks, it's "sh!t or get off the pot". Can't be doing too much bantering prior to meeting the girl. She's judging you off of your pictures, and not sounding like a lunatic in your messages. Beyond that, I don't see the need for excess banter.

 

[BMX]

...and the best word to describe her would be "clueless."

 

[Greasy Pig]

I had a 19yo call me a "cvnt" during an online dating message exchange in which I very lightly and playfully negged her.
I replied: "Ooh, your mummy would be so proud of you using such 'grown-up' language. Get some fvcking class."
Then blocked her.

 

[tryst type]

I believe it's largely due to a super false sense of superiority caused by youthfulness and getting much attention based on the fact that they look good.

They think they're entitled more than they actually deserve. It's similar to how teenagers think they know it all and are invincible.

What's funny is these same girls will reach their mid to late 30s and will notice a drastic decline in attention they get and become more civil to an extent (some never change)

I used to want to learn every technique to turn these girls around and/or somehow show I'm not one to be walked over. But it's all too much effort and leads to putting on essentially an act. So I simply just reframe their actions and walk off. I don't care or know how it affects them but boy do I feel great lol

 

[Colossus]

You know what the best treatment is for these cvnts? Ignore them. Forever. Dont even have a comeback. It feels good in the moment but in reality you are just feeding their ego and game.

 

[mrRuckus]

What's funny is these same girls will reach their mid to late 30s and will notice a drastic decline in attention they get and become more civil to an extent (some never change)

I'm stretching this comment further than you intended, but I think we drastically overestimate how much rotten people suffer "down the line" because of their rottenness. All sorts of b1tches like this end up married and happy and never get their comeuppance.

This stuff about the best revenge is to live well is vastly overstated. Usually no one is going to even know or give a crap that you are living well and often you're living just as well as they are anyway... maybe even worse. If you want revenge, you have to make it happen. I'm not actually recommending someone get revenge, but if one is to do it or not do it, at least base the decision on true facts.

 

[Burroughs]

I'm stretching this comment further than you intended, but I think we drastically overestimate how much rotten people suffer "down the line" because of their rottenness. All sorts of b1tches like this end up married and happy and never get their comeuppance.

This stuff about the best revenge is to live well is vastly overstated. Usually no one is going to even know or give a crap that you are living well and often you're living just as well as they are anyway... maybe even worse. If you want revenge, you have to make it happen. I'm not actually recommending someone get revenge, but if one is to do it or not do it, at least base the decision on true facts.

actually most hawt chicks do quite well in their 30s and 40s...they find a nice wealthy geeky computer guy...give him a few wet BJS....geeky guy proposes....never knowing his 35 year old former hottie used to have trains run on her every weekend in her 20s...

Now former hottie has a nice house a M3 beamer a closet full of Prada all courtesy of clueless geeky dude...now former hottie starts banging the local football star who works at whole foods....

Geeky husband gets suspicious when wife comes home with a broccoli sprig inserted in her azz...she laughs and plays it off like shes trying to get more fiber :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

 

[Blackmm]

Im suprised a 20 year old would even know what "vapid" meant, let alone use it in a sentence.

 

[Boilermaker]

Very aggressive response.

No matter what you do, getting a reaction like that after mere texting tells more about her than you.

Good riddance.

Reply or don't reply ( to her last text) it is entirely up to you. Proceed as however you damn please. But don't date her

 

[Wilko]

You know what I tend to find with OK Cupid girls? They're charmless. Relatively intelligent, sure, but as a rule they don't know how to be playful, they don't know how to have a conversation for the sake of enjoying the conversation - it's always about point scoring and one-upmanship. The b!tch shields never quite come down.