Acted like an idiot with my girl..

[Jhcl4000]

In person, things are great, but when we're texting, things sometimes seem f*cked up..

We did end up getting together last night.. Once I got there, everything was cool. We had a fun night.

She DID bring up what happened last week. She asked me how things were with my dad, and also told me that me just ignoring her and her friends without letting them know anything about what was going on upset her. She also told me that at some point her girlfriend said to her "well, I guess Jhcl4000 doesn't like you anymore!"

Her: gives command
OP: yes master

And you wonder why she puts other friends before you

Her: Can you call and ask them what time they close?

Her: I think they must be closed.

Me: Yeah, they're closed.. We can always pick one up next week, though.

What SHOULD I have responded?

 

[st_99]

In person, things are great, but when we're texting, things sometimes seem f*cked up..

We did end up getting together last night.. Once I got there, everything was cool. We had a fun night.

She DID bring up what happened last week. She asked me how things were with my dad, and also told me that me just ignoring her and her friends without letting them know anything about what was going on upset her. She also told me that at some point her girlfriend said to her "well, I guess Jhcl4000 doesn't like you anymore!"

trust your gut.

 

[Jhcl4000]

trust your gut.

My gut feeling about the texting yesterday: bad - she might be losing interest.

My gut feeling when we were hanging out last night: great - everything's fine.

 

[st_99]

My gut feeling about the texting yesterday: bad - she might be losing interest.

My gut feeling when we were hanging out last night: great - everything's fine.

so your gut is telling you inconsistency, that IS the message. She isn't sold on you and her interest is 50/50.

having said that you should not care either way, thats your job. not to care.

 

[Alicanto]

I am girl. Sorry if I disturbing man's chat I just whant to say .. you are sure that just your acting was a problem, or just reason for her left without you? You got my point?

Oh, please. Stop with that small talk.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

JHCL, it's too late.

Why the hell would a girl even ask you to do something like that? Thats very fishy. She acts like she is a princess or something. Because you treated her like one from the get go..

You

Her: Can you call and ask them what time they close?

Her: I think they must be closed.

Me: Yeah, they're closed.. We can always pick one up next week, though.

AJ in this Scenario

Her: What time is Gamestop open till? Extended hours this weekend perhaps?

Me: IDK, Get on the Computer and figure it out.

Her: I'm still waiting to hear if my swimming date with *friend* is still on or not. I'm mildly drunk.

Her: Can you call and ask them what time they close?

Her: I think they must be closed.

Me: What the hell I look like..... a goddamn operator?...

Her: Boo.

No textback..... If she wanna see you she is going to call you and or ask to come through.

and here is my million dollar question to you.

How many times have you slept with this girl? Once or more?

 

[Korrupt]

JHCL, it's too late.

Why the hell would a girl even ask you to do something like that? Thats very fishy. She acts like she is a princess or something. Because you treated her like one from the get go..

You

Her: Can you call and ask them what time they close?

Her: I think they must be closed.

Me: Yeah, they're closed.. We can always pick one up next week, though.

AJ in this Scenario

Her: What time is Gamestop open till? Extended hours this weekend perhaps?

Me: IDK, Get on the Computer and figure it out.

Her: I'm still waiting to hear if my swimming date with *friend* is still on or not. I'm mildly drunk.

Her: Can you call and ask them what time they close?

Her: I think they must be closed.

Me: What the hell I look like..... a goddamn operator?...

Her: Boo.

No textback..... If she wanna see you she is going to call you and or ask to come through.

and here is my million dollar question to you.

How many times have you slept with this girl? Once or more?

Haven't they been seeing each other for six months or something?

 

[Jhcl4000]

Haven't they been seeing each other for six months or something?

Yeah, around 5-6 months.

JHCL, it's too late.

Why the hell would a girl even ask you to do something like that? Thats very fishy. She acts like she is a princess or something. Because you treated her like one from the get go..

You

Her: Can you call and ask them what time they close?

Her: I think they must be closed.

Me: Yeah, they're closed.. We can always pick one up next week, though.

AJ in this Scenario

Her: What time is Gamestop open till? Extended hours this weekend perhaps?

Me: IDK, Get on the Computer and figure it out.

Her: I'm still waiting to hear if my swimming date with *friend* is still on or not. I'm mildly drunk.

Her: Can you call and ask them what time they close?

Her: I think they must be closed.

Me: What the hell I look like..... a goddamn operator?...

Her: Boo.

No textback..... If she wanna see you she is going to call you and or ask to come through.

and here is my million dollar question to you.

How many times have you slept with this girl? Once or more?

I've lost count..

 

[BillieAnn]

First, stop catering to her every whim and desire, stop with the cute little baby talk texts, and STOP CONTACTING her period. IF she contacts you, don't be in any hurry to answer.

This girl's IL in you is very low right now, but she knows she can basically say to you "eat that pile of dog sh!t" and you will. IF you want to have any shot with this girl, back off completely. A gf should make you happy, should be there for you, should WANT to do things with you. She sounds like spending time with you is pulling teeth at the moment.

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