Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
No contact has never worked for me during a relationship. I've used it in the early stages of dating and break ups to great success.
During a relationship, it made the gfs either think I was being mad, causing drama or simply avoiding confrontation.
What did work was getting on with my life as normal - I got back into working out, went out seeing friends and working a lot on self improvement. They slowly came crawling back with refreshed interest.
Being neutral towards them worked great - I didn't initiate anything but did respond to calls/text when I had finished whatever I was doing.
About power in the relationship, that really needs to be proven from the very start or the very first time things happen.
If a friend calls for a drink while you are with her with her GO! - If you always decide to be with her, you are setting yourself up for confrontation later on.
If she miss-behaves once, I'd call it a day at that point. It gives you the upper hand, and IF you do decide to take her back she knows what will happen. Letting her off will make her think she can get away with it again.
As others have said, once caught out she will only keep doing it but... under wraps from you.
During a relationship, it made the gfs either think I was being mad, causing drama or simply avoiding confrontation.
What did work was getting on with my life as normal - I got back into working out, went out seeing friends and working a lot on self improvement. They slowly came crawling back with refreshed interest.
Being neutral towards them worked great - I didn't initiate anything but did respond to calls/text when I had finished whatever I was doing.
About power in the relationship, that really needs to be proven from the very start or the very first time things happen.
If a friend calls for a drink while you are with her with her GO! - If you always decide to be with her, you are setting yourself up for confrontation later on.
If she miss-behaves once, I'd call it a day at that point. It gives you the upper hand, and IF you do decide to take her back she knows what will happen. Letting her off will make her think she can get away with it again.
As others have said, once caught out she will only keep doing it but... under wraps from you.