So, for the last couple of years (well, really, FOREVER, but I really only figured out how to work this a few years ago) I've been kind of an earring fetishist. I like them. No reason why, it just is.
And I just freakin' TELL them that early on. I don't really make a big deal about it, but I comment on their earrings. I say I LOVE earrings. Then, a little later, I'll make another comment ------- Those look like fishing lures, do you fish?.......My sister had a necklace that reminds me of your earrings........Are those heavy, do they hurt your ears?.........whatever seems right.
And then I TOUCH her. I almost never touch the earrings themselves, but just behind the ear and just below. A gentle caress. And I pretend to look at the earrings, but I'm looking her in the eye almost the the whole time. And with a little touching around the ear, and upper neck, and so on. Then, my hand is behind her neck, and I gently pull her closer.
Usually leads to a kiss, even in public.
No charge.
And I just freakin' TELL them that early on. I don't really make a big deal about it, but I comment on their earrings. I say I LOVE earrings. Then, a little later, I'll make another comment ------- Those look like fishing lures, do you fish?.......My sister had a necklace that reminds me of your earrings........Are those heavy, do they hurt your ears?.........whatever seems right.
And then I TOUCH her. I almost never touch the earrings themselves, but just behind the ear and just below. A gentle caress. And I pretend to look at the earrings, but I'm looking her in the eye almost the the whole time. And with a little touching around the ear, and upper neck, and so on. Then, my hand is behind her neck, and I gently pull her closer.
Usually leads to a kiss, even in public.
No charge.