^whoa...clever one. Again, I think looks might not be the only thing stopping some people. You really, really come off as a dork...I don't care how good looking you are or aren't.
I still believe looks are super important, but you can't be a total fvkin geek-boy, personality wise.
Stuka, do you have hobbies? Interests? Anything besides working as a male librarian and observing dude's looks?
Again, you're 31. In a few years, all guys your age are no longer "pretty". Some of em will be rich alphas, though. I'd try to start a business, do something...hell, start boxing or learn to juggle, something cool...but right now,you sound like someone with a sub-mediocre life.