I think the best advice out there is very simple. Simple because in high stress situations it works without issue. If its too complicated- do this do that do it like this way and that way - it becomes impossible.
Guys who are studs- are studs because they do things simple so they dont think about it. These guys picked it up easily because they didnt have to do too much.
Couple of things- and I see this a lot- and i used to be one of them.
1. There is no such thing as a **** test from a girl interested in you. NONE. Girls interested in you don't behave this way. If a girl really really likes u she may behave this way to desperately regain control over you. Best way is to walk away (even if temporarily)- forces her to realize you WILL walk away. If she likes you she wont behave like this again.
This is the part where I disagree with David D. I dont believe in testing. At least for the reasons he says. What I've realised is that women do these things to either slow you down or to slow themsleves down. if they want you they cant stop thinking about you and are all over you. You HAVE to be in control. The minute you sense what you perceive as a II#KE# test- you need to next and move on- 1 because it gives you self control 2 because its confidence- like ok i left this but OH look more chics and 3. because its DOA
2. Thus, because of number 1- if a girl is giving you a 'hard time' on texts- next it asap. Trust me, her interest level was not great to begin with. If she really liked you she wouldnt waste your time. Girls may sh!t test you if they are already seeing you and maybe want to slow things down because they are going too quickly into you and are afraid of losing control.
3. Do NOT text to flirt. If online dating is what you want to do send messages and ONLY to meet up in person. This way she knows she has no outlet for her own power control issues, neediness desires and is forced to meet you in person. If you are meeting face to face DO NOT text to get to know a girl. Literally YOU NEED to text ONLY and I mean ONLY to do something that day. The best way is this- say what are you doing now. if she is available meet her some place. If not, make a meet up sometime - if its weeks later say lets meet up then (no specifics).
4. DO NOT contact a girl u are to meet up again until that week or day. Its perfectly alright to text her back- otherwise you come across like a complete jerk. No woman wants to appear desperate- its hurtful to them and they appear guarded. It is the man who says you know what, I am such an alpha that I decide to text her because I want that tang. YOU are the pursuer.
5. ONLY ask a girl out in person. And when you do or when you initiate contact the first 5 seconds of your interaction WILL DETERMINE EVERYTHING. What does this mean? This is the key point. This is the simplest point- this is the simple part. The part that those naturals pick up and have ZERO problems with. YOU go up to her, you look her in the eye the ENTIRE time and shake her hand and say hi. Thats it. Thats all it is. I wont even discuss what to do next because it doesnt matter. This is the simplest step. Make eye contact, maintain it the entire time. Look her in the eye. Be smoldering. say hi. shake her hand. thats it. Done.
Guys who are studs- are studs because they do things simple so they dont think about it. These guys picked it up easily because they didnt have to do too much.
Couple of things- and I see this a lot- and i used to be one of them.
1. There is no such thing as a **** test from a girl interested in you. NONE. Girls interested in you don't behave this way. If a girl really really likes u she may behave this way to desperately regain control over you. Best way is to walk away (even if temporarily)- forces her to realize you WILL walk away. If she likes you she wont behave like this again.
This is the part where I disagree with David D. I dont believe in testing. At least for the reasons he says. What I've realised is that women do these things to either slow you down or to slow themsleves down. if they want you they cant stop thinking about you and are all over you. You HAVE to be in control. The minute you sense what you perceive as a II#KE# test- you need to next and move on- 1 because it gives you self control 2 because its confidence- like ok i left this but OH look more chics and 3. because its DOA
2. Thus, because of number 1- if a girl is giving you a 'hard time' on texts- next it asap. Trust me, her interest level was not great to begin with. If she really liked you she wouldnt waste your time. Girls may sh!t test you if they are already seeing you and maybe want to slow things down because they are going too quickly into you and are afraid of losing control.
3. Do NOT text to flirt. If online dating is what you want to do send messages and ONLY to meet up in person. This way she knows she has no outlet for her own power control issues, neediness desires and is forced to meet you in person. If you are meeting face to face DO NOT text to get to know a girl. Literally YOU NEED to text ONLY and I mean ONLY to do something that day. The best way is this- say what are you doing now. if she is available meet her some place. If not, make a meet up sometime - if its weeks later say lets meet up then (no specifics).
4. DO NOT contact a girl u are to meet up again until that week or day. Its perfectly alright to text her back- otherwise you come across like a complete jerk. No woman wants to appear desperate- its hurtful to them and they appear guarded. It is the man who says you know what, I am such an alpha that I decide to text her because I want that tang. YOU are the pursuer.
5. ONLY ask a girl out in person. And when you do or when you initiate contact the first 5 seconds of your interaction WILL DETERMINE EVERYTHING. What does this mean? This is the key point. This is the simplest point- this is the simple part. The part that those naturals pick up and have ZERO problems with. YOU go up to her, you look her in the eye the ENTIRE time and shake her hand and say hi. Thats it. Thats all it is. I wont even discuss what to do next because it doesnt matter. This is the simplest step. Make eye contact, maintain it the entire time. Look her in the eye. Be smoldering. say hi. shake her hand. thats it. Done.
