Aaron Clarey: Women Would Choose Extinction Over Beta Males

[Hamurabimbi]

He seems very negative.

 

[MatureDJ]

You have an irrational fear of accidental pregnancy based upon a faulty comprehension of statistics and mathematics about causing pregnancy. Wear a condom. Most of the women you'll have sex with at your age will be under 25 and using some form of birth control. The combination of condoms and a woman on birth control is very effective and you don't have to waste money on a surgery. Even the use of condoms alone without a woman using birth control is effective.

Actually, with the hypergamy genetic bottle being so omnipotent, it might be a good idea to accidentally knock up a gal like this, lest it be OVER for your genome.

 

[MatureDJ]

Exactly, your 5/10 looks does not work for daygame style cold approaching.

5/10 is upper-Incel-tier.

 

[corrector]

5/10 is upper-Incel-tier.

An escortcel is an upper-incel-tier.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

Idk bro I've seen guys way less attractive, masculine, and cool than me with hotter girls than I can usually get. I've lost count of how many times on the internet and irl I've seen the kind of girls I want to date going out with a guy that just sucks. It makes me think that there's something wrong with me since I'm a decent looking, masculine guy who takes care of his physique, lifts weights, has cool hobbies, and plays in a rock n roll band yet my dating life mostly consists of hookups with chubby girls from dating apps that are far more attracted to me than I am to them. It's maddening, like why do these low testosterone pipsqueak nerds get to date attractive women when on paper I'm better than them yet I'm stuck with settling for less?

Cuz u probably dont want the girls u see on the internet and they know it. U secretly wanna bang them yeah but you're not willing to deal with them. Or maybe u just dont have physical confidence, confidence in ur physicality i.e ehemmmm ur wee....

 

[BergischerLöwe]

Exactly, your 5/10 looks does not work for daygame style cold approaching.

So what's the alternative?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Guys I think the 1-10 smv scale has been severley misused for a long time.

Logic would state that the graduations in smv are equal between each stage of the scale. If this is the case a 5/10 is just your normal person, not an ogre not disfigured or weird looking, just a regular person. Anything above 5 makes them more attractive than average. Anything below 5 makes them less attractive that average.

A 5/10 is not someone who is ugly or undesirable they’re just average.

I do realize that all of you are 6’8, have 12-packs, huge muscles, 0% body fat and a 12” joy stick and only date 10’s but hey I realize your slumming it here…

 

[BergischerLöwe]

Guys I think the 1-10 smv scale has been severley misused for a long time.

Logic would state that the graduations in smv are equal between each stage of the scale. If this is the case a 5/10 is just your normal person, not an ogre not disfigured or weird looking, just a regular person. Anything above 5 makes them more attractive than average. Anything below 5 makes them less attractive that average.

A 5/10 is not someone who is ugly or undesirable they’re just average.

I do realize that all of you are 6’8, have 12-packs, huge muscles, 0% body fat and a 12” joy stick and only date 10’s but hey I realize your slumming it here…

I think the photofeeler results are a bit misleading because most of the complaints on there are about my hair. It's shorter now than it was in that pic

 

[corrector]

So what's the alternative?

I guess what others have suggested, cold-approach but nightgame, warm-approach social circle game, matchmaker introductions, etc.... places where women expect to be approached and where it's socially acceptable without being judged as you might feel with day-game approaches. Honestly, even on the best days of cold-approach of day-game, many women may really be just not looking for another guy anyway.

 

[corrector]

I think the photofeeler results are a bit misleading because most of the complaints on there are about my hair. It's shorter now than it was in that pic

It is misleading because you only have five votes. You need to pay for getting more votes so you have a more accurate assessment when you put your new pic up.

It's not helpful to you to talk about outdated info as your score could be higher or lower.

 

[BergischerLöwe]

I guess what others have suggested, cold-approach but nightgame, warm-approach social circle game, matchmaker introductions, etc.... places where women expect to be approached and where it's socially acceptable without being judged as you might feel with day-game approaches. Honestly, even on the best days of cold-approach of day-game, many women may really be just not looking for another guy anyway.

Well like I said the last time I could have gotten anywhere with social circle game is when I was 18/19. Back then there was one time where thru my friends I met this girl who seemed to quite like me for some reason and I myself would have gone out with her. She was cute lol. But I was a kissless virgin at the time and I didn't know how to actually act on that and she ended up dating one of my friends at the time instead. That's the only time where I've even come across a dateable woman thru social circle and ever since then nothing like that has ever happened again. That was 8 or 9 years ago and I lost touch with pretty much all the people in that group anyway. Over the years my social circle got smaller and thus I've never been able to rely on social circle game. But I prefer to date women that my friends don't know tbh.

Thru my time attending religious lectures I've become friendly with a couple people but we don't really hang out outside of that, at least not yet, but still I feel more socially actualized attending these lectures. Still I wouldn't be able to meet women to date thru these channels. Other than that I only really have one friend that I hang out with and he's the guitarist in my band anyway. We have this other friend that we're real close to but he lives out of state. What I've just described is the extent of my social circle pretty much. I'm introverted not very social by nature, and prefer to spend most of my time alone, so i don't see very much wrong with my social circle being small. But a downside to this is that meeting women thru friends is a very unlikely prospect.

 

[BergischerLöwe]

Cuz u probably dont want the girls u see on the internet and they know it. U secretly wanna bang them yeah but you're not willing to deal with them. Or maybe u just dont have physical confidence, confidence in ur physicality i.e ehemmmm ur wee....

I want to bang them but it feels like they're slightly out of my reach

 

[corrector]

but still I feel more socially actualized attending these lectures. Still I wouldn't be able to meet women to date thru these channels.

Why not?

Other than that I only really have one friend that I hang out with and he's the guitarist in my band anyway.

Is he an incel, normie or a chad?

We have this other friend that we're real close to but he lives out of state. What I've just described is the extent of my social circle pretty much.

Are they incels, normies or chads?

But a downside to this is that meeting women thru friends is a very unlikely prospect.

But not an impossible one. Probably the most positive thing you've said (even if it's in the negative) then!

 

[BergischerLöwe]

Why not?



Is he an incel, normie or a chad?



Are they incels, normies or chads?



But not an impossible one. Probably the most positive thing you've said (even if it's in the negative) then!

I wouldn't be able to meet women thru attending these religious lectures because there's no dateable women there. In the case of my friends that aren't from the religious lectures as far as their experiences with women they're normies. I think that's what you mean when you ask that at least. Hypothetically if I was hanging out with guys that were really good with women and able to meet them irl at will it would make me jealous and depressed since I've never had the skills to pull that off

 

[corrector]

I wouldn't be able to meet women thru attending these religious lectures because there's no dateable women there. In the case of my friends that aren't from the religious lectures as far as their experiences with women they're normies. I think that's what you mean when you ask that at least. Hypothetically if I was hanging out with guys that were really good with women and meeting them irl it would make me jealous and depressed since I've never had the skills to pull that off

Try working on your subconcious mind then. If you believe you'll meet women or go into that frequency of mind then things might happen.

For example, last week I had a playlist of allot of various music videos that involve female vocalists but they were particular types of songs that had just a pure friendly vibe. After playing this playlist, a number of interesting things happened. I accidentally stepped on a glass that was orientated in a funny way that there was no natural explanation for that to have happened. Ended up at the doctor's office to get a tentanus shot. The doctor administering it was an attractive mature Indian looking lady and I liked her company around me, touching my foot, etc.... The Sunday afterwards, I had a nice 2 hour conversation with a nice lady at an Open House. Finally, I met a nice Asian lady accidentally who dialed my number by accident and I'm continuing correspondence with her. I've only vowed to continue watching those music videos again if there is three days of pure inaction, or no-female stimulation or energy and so far, I have not seen three full days like that.

The point I'm making is we tend to attract in our minds what we want to believe. If you can somehow hypnotise yourself to believe you are meeting women (ie may not have to be extreme as playing dedicated music videos) and let your mind or thought process figure out your own solution. I may not have the best example as you are looking to get laid, but I think if I'm looking for connection or feel connected with someone of the opposite sex, then I'm not doing that bad of a job.

 

[BergischerLöwe]

Try working on your subconcious mind then. If you believe you'll meet women or go into that frequency of mind then things might happen.

For example, last week I had a playlist of allot of various music videos that involve female vocalists but they were particular types of songs that had just a pure friendly vibe. After playing this playlist, a number of interesting things happened. I accidentally stepped on a glass that was orientated in a funny way that there was no natural explanation for that to have happened. Ended up at the doctor's office to get a tentanus shot. The doctor administering it was an attractive mature Indian looking lady and I liked her company around me, touching my foot, etc.... The Sunday afterwards, I had a nice 2 hour conversation with a nice lady at an Open House. Finally, I met a nice Asian lady accidentally who dialed my number by accident and I'm continuing correspondence with her. I've only vowed to continue watching those music videos again if there is three days of pure inaction, or no-female stimulation or energy and so far, I have not seen three full days like that.

The point I'm making is we tend to attract in our minds what we want to believe. If you can somehow hypnotise yourself to believe you are meeting women (ie may not have to be extreme as playing dedicated music videos) and let your mind or thought process figure out your own solution. I may not have the best example as you are looking to get laid, but I think if I'm looking for connection or feel connected with someone of the opposite sex, then I'm not doing that bad of a job.

Problem in my case is that it's really hard to convince myself anything without evidence for it. The reason why I'm far from optimistic about my chances meeting women irl is because I've never succeeded doing that, so there's no indication that I can actually do it and the fact that I've made it to 27 without it happening just reinforces that in my mind

 

[corrector]

Problem in my case is that it's really hard to convince myself anything without evidence for it. The reason why I'm far from optimistic about my chances meeting women irl is because I've never succeeded doing that, so there's no indication that I can actually do it and the fact that I've made it to 27 without it happening just reinforces that in my mind

Okay, for example, if were to play this video and imagine there is a woman out there thinking this way about you:

Do you think you can at least entertain the idea, at least on a mental level, that a lady could love you like that and be thinking about you?

Maybe you just have not met her yet...but at least the idea is there.

 

[BergischerLöwe]

Okay, for example, if were to play this video and imagine there is a woman out there thinking this way about you:

Do you think you can at least entertain the idea, at least on a mental level, that a lady could love you like that and be thinking about you?

Maybe you just have not met her yet...but at least the idea is there.

Hmm idk I'm not very visible to women so I'd have a hard time entertaining such notions in my own mind. Honestly tho if a woman got all sentimental and poured out the fact that she was really in love with me and thinking of me all the time I'd probably be kinda weirded out

 

[corrector]

Hmm idk I'm not very visible to women so I'd have a hard time entertaining such notions in my own mind. Honestly tho if a woman got all sentimental and poured out the fact that she was really in love with me and thinking of me all the time I'd probably kinda weirded out

Who said I was visible to women? Bro, you can't get any worst level then me on the board. Any excuse you can make up, I can make one ten times worst and more convincing then you can possibly imagine and then some.

You are saying you don't meet women, I can say the same thing.
You are saying you have no social circle, I can say the same thing.
You are saying you can't cold-approach, I can say the same thing.

You can't say that you are broke because you have a trust-fund.
You can't say your parents are very old and only you can take care of them, because that's not true with y ou.
You can't say apps don't work at all for you, because I never tried them and they won't work for me.
You can't say you are too old because you are not 47 years old, but I am.

I offer you the most basic type of inner-game advice and you still managed to come with an excuse for that? You can't come up with excuses for advice that I am giving if I'm in worst shape then you are that will have any meaning with me.

 

[BergischerLöwe]

Who said I was visible to women? Bro, you can't get any worst level then me on the board. Any excuse you can make up, I can make one ten times worst and more convincing then you can possibly imagine and then some.

You are saying you don't meet women, I can say the same thing.
You are saying you have no social circle, I can say the same thing.
You are saying you can't cold-approach, I can say the same thing.

You can't say that you are broke because you have a trust-fund.
You can't say your parents are very old and only you can take care of them, because that's not true with y ou.
You can't say apps don't work at all for you, because I never tried them and they won't work for me.
You can't say you are too old because you are not 47 years old, but I am.

I offer you the most basic type of inner-game advice and you still managed to come with an excuse for that? You can't come up with excuses for advice that I am giving if I'm in worst shape then you are that will have any meaning with me.

Well there are things I got going for me, and it is still possible to meet the kind of woman I really want, but the process and everything involved is so overwhelming to me. At least that's what it feels like