a well to do woman

[rtrev64]

Hi, you all know my experience with one woman who was well to do but she opens her legs to wealthy guys, I am not but am a biker boy as she puts it so I have that but through my past posts, you all know it was a bad deal anyway for me so I dropped her, actually she dropped me when "she wanted space" meant, I was kicked to the curb.. fine..

Anyway, I met yet another well to do woman.. this one so far, time will tell but at least I will be able to pick up faster if she is anything like the first but all indications is.. nooooo, this one is good.. anyway, right now she is captured by my bad boy appearance as she mentions it, she looks into my eyes and see a devilish grin and she melts, I am handsome this and that..

Through past experiences the bad boy image and life style can only take you so far before they figure thats all I do.. She began to ask me, what are my goals in life when we were at a trendy little place, I told her, why ruin the moment with this kind of talk, lets talk bout that another time, lets just have fun tonight. Boy did we..>

Thats what I fear tho, I lead a simple life, work from 8-5 and pay my bills and on the weekends, just let my hair down so to speak. I dont think that is gonna be good enough, I feel the fire will go out.. Im not well to do.. As a matter of fact, she was putting pieces together and asked me strasight out, what is your living conditions, I decided to tell her the truth as to avoid any problems later. Im struggling, my family is helping me around in March is when I get my own place.. in truth, I never been in this situation..

So I think she will see, I dont have my **** together, live paycheck to paycheck like millions of Americans..

So this fire might get put out soon.. maybe many of you are well off and took care of business and are doing great in life and have your **** together.

So Im thinking i might have to lower my reach from well to do to people like myself.. just living and having fun..can it be done? someone acepts you for who you are instead of looking if I own a house, nice bank account or will it be a get while you an and move on, she will..?

 

[women haze]

Well there is nothing wrong with Living and having fun, but there will come a time in your life where you need to Step up and secure yourself. I'm not talking about being Ric, but you have to put yourself in some kind of place where you can be comfortable. You can have your essentials, your fun toys, and not worry about how you are going to pay the bills you feel me????

That is more important than some Spoiled rich *****....who adds no value to your life except for *****.

 

[rtrev64]

I been secured with myself my entire life, just recently tho I had setbacks but at least Im work full time, I just need a couple of months an ill be back on my own, they dont see that tho or know me, they just assume, im a loser who cnt support themselves.

I guess when you say to place somewhere comfortable meaning a roof over my head with ac/heat and food in the fridge, tv the basics.

So how do I counter when they sk that so I wont come across as "bouncing" aound, not secured..

 

[st_99]

I think you just need to accept that you don't really know what this women wants or will fall for when it comes to income levels. She may think she wouldn't be with someone long term unless they made x amount of dollars but we all "think" we know what we want until somebody comes along and we fall for them even though they aren't what we thought we wanted.

I think you just can't be insecure about it AT ALL and just act like whatever, this is who I am, take it or leave it. Gotta have that attitude, I think once they sense you're insecure about your situation it will kill it.

 

[rtrev64]

ST 99 You are correct. I know who I am, I have a history to suggest, I will be comfortable and doing ok..So take it or leave it..

She mentioned her x husbands, one died and the other just went away but she tells me, they were well to do, thats all she ever known. She is Russian btw. I know it dont matter if russian or not just putting it out there.

 

[Iceberg]

ST 99 You are correct. I know who I am, I have a history to suggest, I will be comfortable and doing ok..So take it or leave it..

She mentioned her x husbands, one died and the other just went away but she tells me, they were well to do, thats all she ever known. She is Russian btw. I know it dont matter if russian or not just putting it out there.

I also agree with st_99.

You can't spend your life justifying yourself to other people. You are who you are. If you get the girl on a date with you, obviously you've done something right. Take what you've done right and add to it. Don't worry about your income level. If these chicks were worried about banging CEOs, they wouldn't be talking to you in the first place.

 

[Warrior74]

Screw those broads, its none of their business. They aren't your wife and you aren't marrying them. You just want to stab them with the beef sword for a little while. They are qualifying you and trying to see if you are provider material? F that, they need to be proving they that they are F Toy material. What kind of vibe are you sending out that they feel comfortable coming at you like this? What kind of game are you running? Is your nice guy peeking out to soon from behind the bad boy image? Do you want a wife and kids or something? What is your goals with these women?

Me personally, I know its never gonna work with some well off woman, but I will F her, and let her invest in what ever it is I'm doing and sell her a dream of how I'm going to make it big one day. I just need her help (and her vag).

I learned from studying the pimp game and from real life, the more a woman has invested in you, the longer she will stay with you. If her investment is financial, time, or children, it extends things. If being with you cost her nothing but sex, then yes she will blow out faster. These are just the rules of the game. So get your head on staight, remember what you are there for and stop worrying about it. If you don't plan on marrying them its all temporary innit?

 

[rtrev64]

Warrior74 you are correct. I think my nice guy, good guy is peeking out to early. I know its not a good thing and I am asking for women to leave me cause the fire will get put out by my nice guy ways.

Obviously, my bad boy appearance works very well, I get the vagina most of the time but I get attached.. damn it..

I like what you said too.. sell a big dream, all I need is her help and her Vag..

One thing I am learning.. damn I still got alot to learn and why I am on this board to read other peoples experiences and ask wwyd?