A weak woman can’t be with a free man

[DragonBlood]

"A weak woman needs someone she can command. She needs control, even though she secretly wants to be challenged, she throws a tantrum when the attempt is made by her cowardly companion.

A weak woman can’t be with a free man; she’ll see his freedom as distance, not as individualism and strength. A weak woman will grow jealous. She won’t trust her strong-willed man, not because of any evidence given by him, but because of her own insecurities. "

http://chadhowsefitness.com/2013/07/10-ways-to-tell-if-youre-dating-a-warrior-not-a-coward

So ****ing true guys. I learnt this the hard way. You can group women (and people) into these two large groups. They are either cowards that undermine you or they are strong within their own identity and want to support you.

Being a free man, warrior or "alpha" is not the path to all woman. It is the path to true happiness and to high quality woman and relationships. Pushing the people who dont belong in your life out. I use to blame myself alot in the past when things didnt "work out", that I havent "improved enough" but I now see not all people are meant to be. Some people are born *******s who give into their weaknesses and just CANT relate to you or respect you in any way. Because to do that, they would have to look in the mirror, examine their own flaws, and ultimately become more like you.

There is no way to improve so much that you can bring the good for both side of the relationship, nor should you waste so much energy trying to do so even if it was possible! You can use game to juggle around with it for awhile, but sooner or later a womans true colors (strong or weak) will ultimately determine the fate of the relationship.

You bring your full self to the table, but if the other person is not doing the same and is just trying to beguile you for some kind of resource or underhand objective, you should always know when to talk away. You are the fixer of one project. YOU.

 

[TheGambino]

Absolutley true

 

[El Payaso]

Great post.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Absolutely.

That's why feminism, if it's watered down, could evolve in to a force for good. Many of my problems have arisen not from my own mistakes or weakness, but the insecurities of the women I have met.

The trouble being, the focus of the feminist movement is blame of others currently. Rather than walking the alpha path of consistent self improvement, many seek to shift fault on to others (men). This achieves nothing. They remain weak and unfulfilled. Becuase they are not content in the self first. They seek happiness in others. Which we are well aware has a limited shelf life.

Agreed. Great post.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Imma be the first to do it all. You just watch man. I'm gonna come back here one day and tell you all how I did it. I will find a way to strengthen and weaken her at will and will be able to do so subconsciously. Whatever suits me best. But I will not abuse this newfound wisdom of mine because at that point, I will be one of the strongest men in the world. And a strong man follows his own morals and beliefs.

You'll see man, I'll be the first to do it all if no one has already done it.

 

[ubercat]

great post. my current workplace is infested with career b****** who just do politics all day long. we've got one particularly classic Fem Nazi who's into psychology sociology and every other bloody ology. one of the guys the other day was saying people need to take a bit of responsibility and of course she immediately barks .. it sounds like you're trying to blame the victim. bad political move but I couldn't help myself... I said..sounds like they are enjoying playing the victim. the old line about a woman being a man with responsibility and accountability removed is so f****** true in most cases.

I had another one the other day some heinous fat scrag was going on about how her computer must have been designed by a man because it was rubbish.

I quietly said she should get a computer that was designed by a woman..oh wait there aren't any... and then kept walking. The look on her face was priceless.

You're expecting too much guys

sex
baby making
entertainment

anything else is a bonus

 

[DragonBlood]

I agree and disagree ubercat. Without happiness within herself she can offer you nothing. Her physical assets add confusion that prolongs the ultimate confrontation. This is the seduction of a woman... the beauty and "baby making" is not enough no matter how much you rationalize it.

The big misconception in pick up is that if you get better at it, you can be attractive to all woman. In truth, it highlights repeatably that you only have control over your own internal state, and not to beat yourself up about other peoples problems. As much as you would like to change them, you cant. Each person male or female controls their own internal state. You can advise and provide direction, but everyone walks the path of improvement and self acceptance alone. The second related realization of pick up is that it acts as a tool to speed up the course of a relationship... but certainly doesnt have the power to change the destination.

There is no way for an insecure woman to be with a free man, unless she becomes stronger (and no longer who she was), or that the man becomes weaker!

@ImTheDoubleGreatest!: I wish you luck in your adventure, shoot me a PM if you succeed. But consider this again:

There is no way to improve so much that you can bring the good for both side of the relationship, nor should you waste so much energy trying to do so even if it was possible!

Even if you succeed in securing a "stable" relationship with an insecure woman, presumably by tying her to a chair, the amount of time and energy this relationship takes away from you would still mean that on some level, the woman is the one who is in control, the one who drives your paranoia and busies your mind, even if you are masquerading every move...

The puppet master is far more dependent on his toys than they are on him.

 

[Uropa]

Weak women cling to men who make the men weak later on.