Mercury21
Don Juan
Wow, this has never happened to me before. Frankly it sent me into a loop as how to handle the situation....hopefuly some of you out there will have a better clue of what to do.
First let me start off with my usual disclaimer: This thread is NOT for those of you interested in ONLY Speed seduction and ONS. This is an LTR question, and intended for only those who have good LTR experience.
Ok, so this question goes back to my GF. Many of you may remember her from when we went out on our first date way back in the beginning of February. I posted a thread on here titled, "should I have closed the deal..."
Fast forward to the present, and we are in a very good LTR. I have been doing everything right: I never call too much, I always act like a man, I display C&F with a dash of sensitivity every now and then etc..
In short, I have known for a while now that she is VERY much into me. She calls me every day if we don't see eachother, and from what I gather she talks alot about me. Her entire family LOVES me...her twin brother even consideres me a close friend of his. Her family warns her not to scare me away because they all like me so much. And I found out through her brother that their younger sister the other day told my GF, "You know, I wouldn't mind having "Mercury" as my Brother in Law..." That should give you an idea of where we are in our relationship.
So...here goes the situation at hand. Thursday, 4/22 me, her and her brother went to this bar here in town that her brother and uncle always hang out at on Thursdays.
She and I are not the bar going type but decided it would be fun to go. So there we are, all having a good time, lauging and talking etc...
Soon her brother, who had been drinking teased his sister(my GF) and said something like, "if you don't watch it I'm going to tell "Mercury" what Mom said."
She got this shocked look on her face and asked, " what? What did mom say?" Then she dragged him over to a corner so he could tell her.
As they were walking back her brother was saying, " I know you do...I see the way you look at him." Then he asked, "Is it true?"
She answered by saying, "I think so..." Her Uncle, who is young(31) was near by and asked what was going on. Her brother then whispered in his ear the "secret". Her uncle looked at me quickly and said, "I don't blame her. He's a GREAT guy."
Ok, so I am suspicous that what is going on is that she is in Love with me. But I play dumb and act like nothing is going on.
Later on we take her brother back home(who is off his ass drunk), I help him up to his room and into his bed.
Then me and my GF go back outside and sit on her front porch..talking, making out, all that good stuff. Of course I use this opportunity to find out what everybody was talking about earlier.
She was scared to tell me at first, claiming that maybe she would tell me in 2 days. I pressured her into telling me right away. She was scared to say anything...but eventually told me what was going on:
Earlier in the week her mom had told her brother that she thinks that she was falling in love with me. Her brother agreed completly. I asked her if it was true, this is what she said:
She said that she thinks she is...but since she has never been in love before she doesn't know how she is supposed to feel. What she does know is that she has never met or been with anybody like me before(thanks sosuave ) and she does feel something very strong for me, but she doesn't know what it is. But she does believe that her mom is right...
At this point I said in a very calm and cool manner, "Its funny you say that, because I think I am falling in love with you to." Its no lie either, I really believe I may be. Then we continued making out passionately for much longer. However, I wonder if I should have said anything???
Then last night, Friday night after watching a movie at her house we were out on the porch again, this time standing up and making out when I proceeded to whisper in her ear,"You know, I don't want this to change anything but I really do believe that I am falling in love with you..."
She held me really tight, very tight but remained silent. Silent to the point that I had to ask if she had heard me. Then I asked her what she thought, and she said she can't explain how she felt. I asked if she was falling in love, and she said she thought she was.
Before the moment got too heavy I applied some C&F to ease the situation, and that was that.
I am kind of dissapointed in myself for having said that I was falling in love with her again, because I have NEVER said anything regarding Love with anybody before. On one hand I feel that maybe it was good what I said, seeing as how she was the one who brought it up first. But my sosuave side is telling me that maybe I should have kept my trap shut.
Ok, now I need your opinions on what I should do, should have done, or what I did right/wrong. On the drive home last night I came to the conclusion that even if we should be together for the next 80 years I will never bring up the topic of Love again unless she does it first. So How do you think the whole situation unfolded? Would you guys have done something different? How about from this point forward?
I look forward to hearing what some of you have to say, because I have never been a situation like this before. Thanks!
First let me start off with my usual disclaimer: This thread is NOT for those of you interested in ONLY Speed seduction and ONS. This is an LTR question, and intended for only those who have good LTR experience.
Ok, so this question goes back to my GF. Many of you may remember her from when we went out on our first date way back in the beginning of February. I posted a thread on here titled, "should I have closed the deal..."
Fast forward to the present, and we are in a very good LTR. I have been doing everything right: I never call too much, I always act like a man, I display C&F with a dash of sensitivity every now and then etc..
In short, I have known for a while now that she is VERY much into me. She calls me every day if we don't see eachother, and from what I gather she talks alot about me. Her entire family LOVES me...her twin brother even consideres me a close friend of his. Her family warns her not to scare me away because they all like me so much. And I found out through her brother that their younger sister the other day told my GF, "You know, I wouldn't mind having "Mercury" as my Brother in Law..." That should give you an idea of where we are in our relationship.
So...here goes the situation at hand. Thursday, 4/22 me, her and her brother went to this bar here in town that her brother and uncle always hang out at on Thursdays.
She and I are not the bar going type but decided it would be fun to go. So there we are, all having a good time, lauging and talking etc...
Soon her brother, who had been drinking teased his sister(my GF) and said something like, "if you don't watch it I'm going to tell "Mercury" what Mom said."
She got this shocked look on her face and asked, " what? What did mom say?" Then she dragged him over to a corner so he could tell her.
As they were walking back her brother was saying, " I know you do...I see the way you look at him." Then he asked, "Is it true?"
She answered by saying, "I think so..." Her Uncle, who is young(31) was near by and asked what was going on. Her brother then whispered in his ear the "secret". Her uncle looked at me quickly and said, "I don't blame her. He's a GREAT guy."
Ok, so I am suspicous that what is going on is that she is in Love with me. But I play dumb and act like nothing is going on.
Later on we take her brother back home(who is off his ass drunk), I help him up to his room and into his bed.
Then me and my GF go back outside and sit on her front porch..talking, making out, all that good stuff. Of course I use this opportunity to find out what everybody was talking about earlier.
She was scared to tell me at first, claiming that maybe she would tell me in 2 days. I pressured her into telling me right away. She was scared to say anything...but eventually told me what was going on:
Earlier in the week her mom had told her brother that she thinks that she was falling in love with me. Her brother agreed completly. I asked her if it was true, this is what she said:
She said that she thinks she is...but since she has never been in love before she doesn't know how she is supposed to feel. What she does know is that she has never met or been with anybody like me before(thanks sosuave ) and she does feel something very strong for me, but she doesn't know what it is. But she does believe that her mom is right...
At this point I said in a very calm and cool manner, "Its funny you say that, because I think I am falling in love with you to." Its no lie either, I really believe I may be. Then we continued making out passionately for much longer. However, I wonder if I should have said anything???
Then last night, Friday night after watching a movie at her house we were out on the porch again, this time standing up and making out when I proceeded to whisper in her ear,"You know, I don't want this to change anything but I really do believe that I am falling in love with you..."
She held me really tight, very tight but remained silent. Silent to the point that I had to ask if she had heard me. Then I asked her what she thought, and she said she can't explain how she felt. I asked if she was falling in love, and she said she thought she was.
Before the moment got too heavy I applied some C&F to ease the situation, and that was that.
I am kind of dissapointed in myself for having said that I was falling in love with her again, because I have NEVER said anything regarding Love with anybody before. On one hand I feel that maybe it was good what I said, seeing as how she was the one who brought it up first. But my sosuave side is telling me that maybe I should have kept my trap shut.
Ok, now I need your opinions on what I should do, should have done, or what I did right/wrong. On the drive home last night I came to the conclusion that even if we should be together for the next 80 years I will never bring up the topic of Love again unless she does it first. So How do you think the whole situation unfolded? Would you guys have done something different? How about from this point forward?
I look forward to hearing what some of you have to say, because I have never been a situation like this before. Thanks!