On my first version of this "Tip for a better head-start" post, i mentioned that it is better to meet the "DJs" (or the players) outside of this site because it will help you become more motivated with more confidence. Well, let me tell you.. this is true. In my case, i have gotten so much confidence because of the one tip that i heard (again, this time by someone outside this site), which has given me confidence for days. The reason why i was so confident by this one advice/tip was because i knew this guy was smooth with women. I was also confident because he was into women rather than computer games and he wasn't desperate.
Well let me say this.. this site sucks sometimes. I mean.. there are so many guys here who think they know so much about women and they act concieted. Another hint that a guy isn't much of a DJ is how they use the people's post number by how good they are with women.. Just because i have 900+ posts and my title is Master Don Juan doesn't mean i'm a DJ. It probaly means i'm a no lifer. Which isn't true, but you get the point.
Instead of thinking about a person's "ability" by the number of posts they made, why not think about a person's "ability" by the number of approaches you see guys make outside the net? Why try so hard when you can just be cool with a guy outside this internet world and make progress from there?
I will admit, this site helped me acknowledge more about girls, it gave me a head-start. Sure, it gave me a head-start, now how about some confidence that lasts forever??
I can keep an eye contact towards a girl, i can kino a girl, i can hug a girl, but when all this stops, you're going to hear members here telling you.. "MOVE ON" or "NEXT HER".. but you know? Hearing words by people by your ears is alot better and understandable than reading the words on a site. While some in this site may tell you to "grab onto her and don't give up" which would give you confident, while someone in real life could say the same thing to you and you will feel much more pumped up and confident. The scary thing that i know is that, when i talk to women online, it's so much easier and the same for them as well.. but it isn't doing anything. All it is doing is making yourself look like a wussy. Same applies for this site. When you ask for help on this site, you get help but they don't even know your body language, your expressions, and your act. Now, talking to women in real life is what i call being a man. It helps you. It shows that you can be comfortable around her and that's what women want.
There is one thing i don't believe, and that's losing hope and love. You can love someone, you can do things for them, but don't do it if you know you shouldn't or if you feel confused. Be a jerk sometimes, be funny and comforting, be loving and respect them. That's what most guys do.. and it keeps their friendship and relationship go on forever. Another reminder, don't look for girls to have sex with.. yet. Wait until marriage. Trust me. Even though early sex could help you be better at sex, it's going to be tiring and boring.
The basic lesson:
1. The guys who spend more time with women than the internet, games, and reading comic books are who you should look for to get some views on women
2. Wanting women just because of sex is being desperate, don't be desperate.
3.When you're losing it, learn to win it by gaining it, by experiencing it.
Good luck.
Well let me say this.. this site sucks sometimes. I mean.. there are so many guys here who think they know so much about women and they act concieted. Another hint that a guy isn't much of a DJ is how they use the people's post number by how good they are with women.. Just because i have 900+ posts and my title is Master Don Juan doesn't mean i'm a DJ. It probaly means i'm a no lifer. Which isn't true, but you get the point.
Instead of thinking about a person's "ability" by the number of posts they made, why not think about a person's "ability" by the number of approaches you see guys make outside the net? Why try so hard when you can just be cool with a guy outside this internet world and make progress from there?
I will admit, this site helped me acknowledge more about girls, it gave me a head-start. Sure, it gave me a head-start, now how about some confidence that lasts forever??
I can keep an eye contact towards a girl, i can kino a girl, i can hug a girl, but when all this stops, you're going to hear members here telling you.. "MOVE ON" or "NEXT HER".. but you know? Hearing words by people by your ears is alot better and understandable than reading the words on a site. While some in this site may tell you to "grab onto her and don't give up" which would give you confident, while someone in real life could say the same thing to you and you will feel much more pumped up and confident. The scary thing that i know is that, when i talk to women online, it's so much easier and the same for them as well.. but it isn't doing anything. All it is doing is making yourself look like a wussy. Same applies for this site. When you ask for help on this site, you get help but they don't even know your body language, your expressions, and your act. Now, talking to women in real life is what i call being a man. It helps you. It shows that you can be comfortable around her and that's what women want.
There is one thing i don't believe, and that's losing hope and love. You can love someone, you can do things for them, but don't do it if you know you shouldn't or if you feel confused. Be a jerk sometimes, be funny and comforting, be loving and respect them. That's what most guys do.. and it keeps their friendship and relationship go on forever. Another reminder, don't look for girls to have sex with.. yet. Wait until marriage. Trust me. Even though early sex could help you be better at sex, it's going to be tiring and boring.
The basic lesson:
1. The guys who spend more time with women than the internet, games, and reading comic books are who you should look for to get some views on women
2. Wanting women just because of sex is being desperate, don't be desperate.
3.When you're losing it, learn to win it by gaining it, by experiencing it.
Good luck.
