A sports analyst held Ines Sainz accountable, but guess who runs to her defense?

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Yahoo sports analyst Jason Cole holds Ines Sainz, the Mexican reporter who was subject to catcalls in the Jets locker room accountable

But he gets mail from, not feminists, not girls, but get this, male readers defending her. And some of their arguments are ridiculously absurd

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Cryptblade

Methinks Jason is a tad jealous he can’t dress in tight jeans with a sleeveless shirt and get noticed by players in the locker room. Your comment that – for all intents and purposes – says Ines Sainz got what she deserved proves that you’re just like that loser Clinton Portis(notes). … You can preface all you want but it’s clear you hold the same thoughts as that loser Portis.



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Jason Cole's response:

No, I don’t have the same thoughts as Portis. I have no idea if Sainz or any other woman reporter (aside from Samantha Stevenson) has ever been interested in having a relationship with an athlete. Frankly, I think most women sportswriters are just trying to do their job, just like I am. Most of all, what another journalist thinks or does is not my business unless it becomes news (by way of some legal action or related incident).

However, I do know provocative attire from professional attire. I have seen plenty of women in management positions (my wife is a manager at a supermarket) and I have seen plenty of women journalists. Ms. Sainz definitely pushes the boundaries of what is considered professional attire. Again, I don’t have a problem with it. I’m not jealous. Frankly, I couldn’t care less because I don’t aspire to do the kinds of stories Ms. Sainz does. But she obviously does her job well enough to stay employed. Good for her.

Furthermore, you can’t compartmentalize your life. If you choose to do revealing swimsuit photos that are obviously done to provoke interest in yourself, you can’t say, “Oh, I did that a week ago, right now I’m this serious professional.” You are the sum total of your actions. If I expect to be taken seriously as a reporter, there are certain things I have to do to maintain that standard. It’s called personal conduct. I don’t drink excessively, I don’t take drugs, I don’t do a lot of things that would reflect poorly upon myself. If, for example, I did take drugs or get in trouble for drinking, I think it would be pretty hard for me to write something about the conduct of other people, regardless of what position I took. At the same time, Ms. Sainz does something to get attention, from how she dresses to doing swimsuit shots to how she does her stories (getting on the shoulders of players). Again, that’s fine. However, getting leered at by players made her “die of embarrassment” as she tweeted? Oh, please. Now, this is not justifying what the players did. As I said, they did the wrong thing, too. However, she’s not innocent, either. This is a case where everybody is wrong.

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Paul Ketzle

This comment is going to be critical, but I want to start by saying that I don’t intend this as blame. I just think you need to seriously reconsider something that you perhaps haven’t thought through all the way. When you talk about Ines Sainz being insincere in her embarrassment at how she was treated in the Jets locker room, in the performance of her job, because she has done modeling photos or “used her looks to get attention,” as you put it, you are barely removed from the fallacy of blaming the victim.

Whatever she does in another context in no way invites any of the harassment she endured in this one. You imply that she is not capable of being demeaned or degraded, merely because she modeled or, at another time, was dressed in a way you found overly provocative while covering the Super Bowl. “Don’t act surprised when sometimes attention goes the wrong way” is simply a regrettable statement. It is exactly the argument used to blame rape victims for dressing provocatively. She did not “ask” to be treated this way, and to imply so is to go down a path far beneath a man of your proven intelligence and integrity.



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Jason Cole's response

The problem with the example you use is she was not raped. There is no justification for rape. It’s an absolute crime. Sexual harassment is a crime that falls into a sad gray area because so many people act like idiots when they’re at work. However, if you use the example of a woman dancing provocatively in a club and she gets attention, such as hoots and hollers or leering men, to some extent she was provoking reaction. The same goes for entertainers of all kinds. They are looking to attract attention. That’s how they make money.

In the case of Sainz, she has danced on the razor’s edge between trying to attract attention with her body and saying she’s a professional reporter. At a certain point, you have to say, “Ines, what are you trying to be, a swimsuit model or a reporter?” You can’t really mix both and be taken seriously. But now she’s aghast, embarrassed and uncomfortable when players don’t take her seriously? Trust me, the players are wrong, just as workplace harassment is wrong. But for her to be surprised she got attention – and worse, become the face of women in journalism – is ridiculous. I’m sure she didn’t have a problem when men were staring at her swimsuit photo. I’m sure she didn’t have a problem when she was getting interviews with any player she wanted at the Super Bowl when she wore revealing outfits. Again, that’s her choice. I’m not telling somebody how to do their job. But don’t cry how people view you later on.

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Chris Villareal

The Charo card is more than a little racist. Did you use that when Erin Andrews “Danced with the Stars” or comment on what she wears on the sidelines? I’ve seen her in tight pants and sleeveless shirts. But she still shouldn’t have people peeping at her. This woman shouldn’t be treated any differently just because she is considered attractive. Why Charo? Do you do that for African-Americans when they complain of being treated unfairly or is only that considered racist?



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Jason Cole's response

No, it would have been racist to write something like, “The Latin woman card.” The fact that both Charo and Sainz are Latin is coincidental. Fact is, Charo was someone who used her looks to get attention. Sainz is doing the same, to a large extent. She’s setting the bar on how people view her with how she dresses. At least she has on many occasions. As for Erin Andrews, I don’t take her very seriously, either. But the crime that was committed on Andrews is far different than what happened to Sainz. Andrews had her privacy invaded. Sainz got some catcalls. Both are wrong, but you’re comparing a cement mixer to a wheel barrow.
 

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Just another story of how women try to have the best of both worlds... take advantage of their looks when it suits them and them complaining about the consequences that they dont like, but are nevertheless obvious...

Despite what feminist political correctness would like the reality to be, we as a species still are subject to some very deeply rooted biological instincts... it´s a sad state of affairs when this comes as news to some ppl (I dont mean ppl here).

On a funny note, this story reminded me of a video made public during the last World Cup in South Africa, where the queen of Spain visits the national team locker room after they won a semi-final against Germany. It´s the extreme opposite of behaviour (sure she´s a powerfull unatractive woman, but they really go out of their ways), especially when the team captain is just getting out of the showers with just a towel around and all of a sudden is facing the queen.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5w3sS0kPQqE
 

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"its natural" tends to be an excuse not to act with dignity and class... and its not just men, women use it too. she was wearing JEANS not a negligee...

stop making excuses for people who dont have real reasons for what they do and you might not have as many problems. set the bar high and expect women (and men) to conduct themselves accordingly.
 

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Danger said:
A woman, in a men's locker-room, with naked men.

Men gave her a LOT of attention in the locker-room, a place where she really does not belong.
The arguement many woman are making on the blogs and facebook is that these men are "At work" and so they should act accordingly. Even if their job is playing football they are on thier job and so is she hence it's unprofessional behavior.
 

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Man, love his responses. Quick, concise, and logical although not biting enough.
 

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Where is RT when we need him?

I am thinking that one of his lectures on women's frequent attraction to "manufactured indignation " would be timely here.
 

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Danger said:
Dignity and Class went out the window when we decided to allow women into men's locker-rooms.





Interesting thought, I had not heard that one. I am going to sound extreme on this, but I think it needs to be said.

People want their cake and to eat it too. This is a situation where men are put on their heels and expected to stay there. A very attractive woman, in a men's locker-room, is NOT professional, in any form.

This woman wants men to find her attractive but also wants to be treated professionally in a testosterone-charged environment. THIS is an onus put on us not by ourselves, but by Feminism. She wants to act like a Man, go where Men go, but be treated as a Woman in professionalism only. I don't buy it.

My answer to the people saying those Men were on the job and should be acting professionally is this....Professionalism ended when a woman set foot into the Man's locker-room.

Yup. It's the reason why if you look like a straight male and go in Victoria Secrets and ask for an application they will refuse to give you one. They don't want a testosterone filled male working around women who will be in their sexy skivys all day long. And that's understandable. But when it comes to the reverse its the mans fault.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Yup. It's the reason why if you look like a straight male and go in Victoria Secrets and ask for an application they will refuse to give you one. They don't want a testosterone filled male working around women who will be in their sexy skivys all day long. And that's understandable. But when it comes to the reverse its the mans fault.
Lol, very good point, can´t ppl on the U.S. sue for gender and/or sexual orientation descrimination in that situation? That I would pay to see.
 

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Following from the original article's thread. She wants to be "treated professionally" while walking on a thin grey line of being "professionally dressed". And this is the same reporter who goes by "Mexico's hottest reporter" and has posed in bathing suits, etc. She "didn't know" she was being cat called and "people had to tell her" she was? Sounds like she's trying to remove blame if it comes back to bite her. What language doesn't 'understand' cat calls? And what was supposedly "said" to her? Only thing I heard was one player said she was a "bonita senorita". Nowadays someone can accuse people of anything, and it becomes reality. She's using her sexuality as a weapon to feminize men and boost her career and name in the U.S. end of story.
 

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Radharc said:
Lol, very good point, can´t ppl on the U.S. sue for gender and/or sexual orientation descrimination in that situation? That I would pay to see.

They can. Vicky secrets will give you one but trust me they won't hire you. I used to work in the mall and me and my friends would do that for kicks as a way to hang around in the store and try to hit on girls when I was waay younger. I've seen gay guys working there though.
 

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Inquisitus said:
Man, love his responses. Quick, concise, and logical although not biting enough.
Agreed. Although the responses by the manginas were comical in how obtuse and sexist they actually are. If you have a compulsion to "defend" a woman, aka gallantry, realize that it's actually a sexist notion these days because it's rooted in teh assumption the women need to be defended in the context they're too weak and unable to defend themselves.
 

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Nutz said:
Agreed. Although the responses by the manginas were comical in how obtuse and sexist they actually are. If you have a compulsion to "defend" a woman, aka gallantry, realize that it's actually a sexist notion these days because it's rooted in teh assumption the women need to be defended in the context they're too weak and unable to defend themselves.
In the past, Rollo mentioned that guys were Maginas simply because they thought they would score points with girls.

I'm not sure that is necessarily always the case. I think some of the guys have just been drinking the kool-aid from mainstream media and have not been doing any independent thinking.
 

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I would comment on this if I thought the incident were anything more than a blatantly planned spectacle to further this model's career as a "journalist". If anything is at all shocking, it's how readily the 'Good Morning America' demographic gobbled up so clumsy a 'scandal' and asked for seconds.
 

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Latin girls dress quite differently in South America... more slutty looking... what they call "fashion." Once I was driving in Puerto Rico and I saw a sexily dressed prostitute standing on the corner and I looked at her again and then I realized she was just an office worker waiting for the bus. The secretaries don't dress what we would call "professionally" in the New York area. They wear tight-fitting mini-skirts with skin exposed at various strategic places.
 

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Hemingway said:
Latin girls dress quite differently in South America...
Too bad she's in North America.

I wear jeans and a T-shirt to work every day in Oklahoma, but when I travel to Ohio and New York on business trips, I wear slacks and a collared shirt, sometimes with a jacket.

It's incumbent upon her to know what is appropriate to wear in a given place and situation.
 
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