It's all about wavelength
@nicksaiz65.
My wavelength is I am a sexy guy who downplays his looks and doesn't seek attention/validation. I know myself and have a quiet confidence. I can be invisible in a crowd OR be the ONLY thing a woman would notice - if she was on my wavelength.
My female equivalent (female operating on my wavelength) is a sexy woman who doesn't need attention. She gets hit on by too many guys and likes to be low key. We always find each other. I always run into her with zero effort. In social circles. In big cities. At the park. At the bar/club. At the bank. At the gym. No matter where I go, I seem to magically run into the sexy woman who doesn't need attention. And because she is operating on my vibration, she can sense my presence right away. What she values is quiet confidence. In her mind, a high value person doesn't need to flaunt it or seek attention.
She can tell by my micro-sub-communications right away that I am THAT guy. There is nothing I need to do or say. No game I need to spit. I just show up and she makes her presence known to me. And we end up organically interacting.
That's how real world seduction works. Not that pickup sh1t you learned.
There is no female equivalent of a pickup artist. You have NO WOMEN on your wavelength. Not in this Universe. Not in any parallel Universe God has ever created. He did not create attractive women to be desperate and have no social life/connections/value/have to be a street performer. And therefore, there is no female equivalent for a guy who only has "cold approach" game.
There is no female equivalent for the street entertainer.
Now this begs the million dollar question. How is it that some guys can make pickup work? The answer is those guys don't get laid because of their game. They get laid IN SPITE of their game.
They could have gotten women either way. In fact, they could have gotten even more women simply by forgetting about women. If they had the mindset of "Man fvck women. I'm just gonna focus on thriving in life, becoming my best self, enjoying my passions, meet cool and interesting people on my wavelength, and women will show up ANYWAY without me putting any effort into it whatsoever", he would have manifested an infinite amount of women on his wavelength ANYWAY.
That's the elusive obvious that most guys in the PUA manosphere don't realize. Those 10/10 game guys who can pull 6's and 7's every blue moon could have infinite abundance if they had simply focused on enriching their lives rather than chase.
Because the frequency of a guy who enriches his life rather than chase is infinitely greater than the frequency of a guy who dedicates his time to pickup. One guy wakes up and leaves his house and runs into 5 women on his wavelength (with no effort) while the "pickup" version of himself approaches 20 just to get 5 dates.
You guys look at the "pickup" version of a guy who gets girls and think that's his "final form." But in truth, that's just the loser version of him.
A man's final form is effortless abundance.
There have been many posts from guys living in LA and NYC who preach pickup because it is so easy. Well I have a friend who lives in NYC and he says any man of value who does pickup in a city like NYC is stupid or trying to elevate his ego. He says he runs into so many women every single day that pickup is stupid. Instead, he walks around and takes pictures as a photographer. He enjoys his passions and time with friends and women ALWAYS show up to seduce him. He''s operating at his final form.
Like minded people always come together. There is no female equivalent for a guy who does pickup. But there is an infinite amount of women for guys who enrich their lives and have the mindset of abundance, non-neediness, and effortlessness.
My attitude is "I know who I am. I don't need any validation or approval." I go out and everything takes care of itself. As if the whole entire Universe conspires to elevate me. A pickup guy goes out and it feels as if the whole entire Universe is conspiring to c0ckblock him.
That's the difference. No matter what you do, there is always another sticking point or obstacle. As for myself, no matter how absent minded I am, I always get lucky. One guy is operating at his infantile form. The other guy is operating at his
final form.
