A Skinny 6 is Really an 8. Keeper Material.

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Im not sure why most of you guys torture yourselves over dating and trying to marry a "hot" babe of an 8-10 range.

The self-absorption/bimbo/worthless mall rat mentality will make your life a living hell my pal.

Why not consider finding a 5,6, or 7 that is thin and in shape?

Her looks will grow on you, and her personality makes her a keeper.

Try to avoid fat women because if you get married and have kids its only going to get uglier.

Find a nice skinny girl next door, who likes to jog, play tennis, smile, laugh, take herself not too seriously, and is a flexible giver.

She will appreciate you, not use you.
 

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Not all hot women are self-absorbed and worthless. There are plenty of hot women who are loving, giving, awesome people. You just have to bring it out in them.

I agree with you though that if you like a girl, you should not rate her on what other people would rate her, but on what you would rate her. If you really, genuinely like girls who are 5,6, or 7s, go for them by all means. If you would rather have 8s,9s, and 10s and you are just settling though, thats another story. Personally, my 10s usually are not the same as society's 10s -- they are 10s because they have something unusual and unique about them. Some of them are society's 10s too, but many of them rate 7-9 in society's scale.

But anyways, don't write a woman off as a bytch just because she's hot. She's only a bytch to guys who don't have game, and this is because she has to be in order to not waste his and her time.

-Dan
 

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Yeah I know what you mean. It's a good idea, but especially when you can get the best of both worlds. Yeah, I know a HB9-9.5 who is not only very intelligent, but also runs for about an hour every day. On top of all of this, she has a good personality. Anyways, I screwed up and got LJBF'ed (you might have seen one of my threds about it), but i'm trying to turn things around. This isn't one-itis; I'm attracted to alot of others, but she is just so damn hot in every aspect.
 

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And while we're all getting our average wives, we can also aim for average lives!

After all, what's the point of being, rich, happy or successful if you have to work so damn hard to keep yourself that way?

NeverFear, I don't know what bad experiences you've had with pretty women, but speak for yourself. Don't come on here and tell these guys that they should aim for having average looking women whose looks will "grow on them" that's pu55y talk. These guys should go out and try to make their dreams come true. No one in this world wants average.
 

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Two responses:

I have worked with so many guys who settled when it came to their spouses.
I see them bring their unattractive mates to the office party, and amuse myself as they commiserate with each other every time an HB7 or better secretary sashays past in the hall.

Don't settle.

But, the original poster mentioned an interesting idea that was similar to something I read from some men's advice guru - he suggested finding a gal who's young and has potential to be much more attractive, an "up and comer" as it was put. Encourage her to do better with dress, hair style and attitude, and the rest will follow. I don't necessarily advise this, but it's an interesting thought, tinged though it may be of Pygmallion and a hokey mentor-mentee relationship.
 

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neverfear is full of fear, probably got ass-raped when younger by older bigger teen boys.

you seek revenge.


i am here to provide it... kneel.
 

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The personality is far more important than her looks to me.
If she's a bit*h then i'm not eve going to bother. I don't care how hot she is.
As long as she's decent looking with a nice body and an awesome personality I'm willing to look over SOME faults.
But I don't go around settling.

A 7-8-9 with an awesome personality, and a nice rack that's what i'd want in a girl.

I usually NEXT girls who are full of themselves right off the bat.
Something about them just makes my skin crawl.

(my rating scale is also skewed, i tend to rate girls higher just because they have a nice smile and are friendly...)
 

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You just made me realize something,
we're no different than women in always wanting what we can't have.

We can have the nice girl, but we don't want her.
We'd rather torture ourselves going after sum skanky bimbo.

AHHH!!!
i'm starting to think average is okay.

Ohh wait i just saw a hot girl...:eek:
I'm fine.
Damnn that AFC stuff is contagious. :D
 
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why do you even bother to be on this site, if you want to settle with girls on the 5-7 range... you come to this site so you can learn to mack on the hotter girls. why settle for so much more less?
 

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Bad tip imo. Set goals high, if you dont reach them at least you get an hb8 out of it. Aim for an 8, get a 6??? I dont really like that idea. Why should I lower my standards again?

Not gonna happen. I guess if fat/ugly or whatever makes them a 5 combined with their personality is what you are going for, then you probably wont need ANY DJ'ing tips for that.:down:
 

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There really are two kinds of girls. There are girls that turn you on sexually, and there are girls that don't.

F*ck this sliding-scale sh*t. Your "10" is another man's "5". The bottom line you have to ask yourself is, "Do I look forward to the idea of having hot monkey-sex with this girl??"

If the answer is yes, attraction test passed. On to the next test. If no, then find another girl.

Those of you who would take a b!tchy, self-indulged 9 over a fun, witty 8 are just trying to validate yourselves with women.

The only thing you need to make sure of is whether that 9 is being b!tchy and self-indulged because she IS that way, or if she's just being that way to YOU because she's not attracted to you.
 

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Originally posted by squirrels


Those of you who would take a b!tchy, self-indulged 9 over a fun, witty 8 are just trying to validate yourselves with women.

Quick tip to get rid of the self-indulgence part of your 9. Tell her she's a 6. Now, this probably wont do much for the b!tchy part...
 

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Re:

We rational - LIES why a woman's a bytch by stating that she must have purported bytch shields to deflect time wasters and properly find a good suitor? Please.

When did women ever make a logical decision.

And how can one say being a d-bag to most men is merely her filtering device? There are simple manners that have been discarded by the brunt of women.

How about looking past her looks, which account for only 1% of the value she holds or less and see what comes of her mouth, how she TRULY carries herself, and what she intends to do with herself. Even if she wants to be a pregnant, barefoot housewife spending your dough and blowing you all day long, she SHOULD have redeeming qualities that provide her the luxurious lifestyle of couch-potating and home tendering.

Many HB's I've dated or seen have had severe issues with their mouthes, their language, and their manners. Some will say...

"I'm a lady when I have to be."


No, no, no...you're a lady always, otherwise it's just an act. And doing things WHEN you have to, shows WEAKNESS of character. It's doing things when you DON'T have to that counts most, because you're under nobody's watch but your own.


Every guy will have a different opinion of women based on what they see of themselves. Some guys will choose a complete hoe because all he wants is sex and sees himself no better. And some guys will seek the cream of the crop, a high class girl that basically requires of him to be his best at all times.


There's a difference between an HB that demands you do things just because she could discard you like a tissue, and an HB that sees you as a better man and requires a true warrior to guide and protect her. If a woman exchanges her beauty and power in return for your protection and guidance, you must offer what it is she needs to feel that. A girl like Miliana (Trumps Wife) is obviously at the top of the pecking order, and few men of the world could meet her needs. Maybe in bed, 90% of men could, but it's her EMOTIONAL needs that must be satisifed mentally that few other men could provide other than TRUMP.


You don't go for less, you go for what you like. Men will go through phases. I say, get the hottest WOMAN (emphasis on WOMAN) you can get. She must, in my opinion, be more partial to staying home, child rearing, working, support, compassion, cooking and the like, than the new brigade of independent women. I know girls who can't cook, can't clean, and use phrases like "I'm just not good at it, I'll make up in other ways," while they also can't work to well either. They're best suited for porn or a life of striping, because all they have as of now is looks, which fade away by age 30 anyways.


Just my .02, hormones have placed men in and endless embrace they forces them to make biological decisions when they don't apply to present day circumstances.



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i dont know man but after not having sex for a few months girls I didn't think were all that hot seem to be more attractive to my eyes. Like the normal woman you see walking down the street seems kinda hot to me. maybe its me getting older.
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
Your "10" is another man's "5".
So True!... I woman I see as a perfect 10 to me may only be a 5 to some other man, or the woman I see as perfect for me may only be 5 in looks but 10 in personality and compatibilty. Those 2 things are usually much more important than looks.

Don't agree you should pick up a lower than average skinny woman though, just for the fact she won't grow all saggy in later age. If I see some HB 9 who has a nice wholesome body ;), I'm gonna try and get her in bed, same as the skinny girls. Never do I think i'm gonna end up marrying any of them!.. I think you know if you want a long term relationship with them after you have been with them awhile, It's just something that happens not something you plan in advance.
 

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A few things I feel like saying, the first is a quote I hheard awhile back:"shoot for the moon, for if you miss, at least you will be among the stars" (basically don't settle for less)

2. and the one that concerns me most, are there girls that are "ladies" in existance anymore. from what I've seen at highschool (yes I know, not exactly the entire world) there arn't any.

3. I do happen to know of some girls that would'nt mind staying home and raising the family, taking care of the home, but so far, the only one I've met is slightly to big around the waste for what I like. it's by no means bad, but it's just one of those things that de-attracts me (if that's a word). I know many guys at our school find her hot, but that's them, not me. If it wasn't for that, she'd be a damn good catch probably, and I know she's interested in me. Don't settle for something less. EVER. If it wasn't for that, I'd probably ask her out, but I'm not gona make the mistake of lowering my standards
 

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Originally posted by squirrels
There really are two kinds of girls. There are girls that turn you on sexually, and there are girls that don't.

F*ck this sliding-scale sh*t. Your "10" is another man's "5". The bottom line you have to ask yourself is, "Do I look forward to the idea of having hot monkey-sex with this girl??"

If the answer is yes, attraction test passed. On to the next test. If no, then find another girl.

Those of you who would take a b!tchy, self-indulged 9 over a fun, witty 8 are just trying to validate yourselves with women.

The only thing you need to make sure of is whether that 9 is being b!tchy and self-indulged because she IS that way, or if she's just being that way to YOU because she's not attracted to you.
Word, f*ck the HB rating scale. If she's hot enough to get me a hard on, she passed the first test, now it's on to the second test.
 

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Originally posted by NeverFear
Im not sure why most of you guys torture yourselves over dating and trying to marry a "hot" babe of an 8-10 range.

The self-absorption/bimbo/worthless mall rat mentality will make your life a living hell my pal.

Why not consider finding a 5,6, or 7 that is thin and in shape?

Her looks will grow on you, and her personality makes her a keeper.

Try to avoid fat women because if you get married and have kids its only going to get uglier.

Find a nice skinny girl next door, who likes to jog, play tennis, smile, laugh, take herself not too seriously, and is a flexible giver.

She will appreciate you, not use you.
I don't like skinny.

regards

Mike
 

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Lowplains drifter is right. I should know, I married a skinny "6" or "7" at best. I did have a skinny wife, who did not age well at all.. she got uglier by the year!!

Do not settle, you WILL be the guy at the office with the homely wife lusting after the secretary.

I have seen it over and over and over... attractive, high income men with ugly wives...

Don't settle, you will regret it.

Dietzcoi
 
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