KneghtRyder
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Mind yo, i m fairly a newbie at this and haven't dates these girls for very long...
the last two girls , didn't give me IOIs but I still managed to get their number and have dates with them. They meet me for dates but it hasn't led to sex yet... Is this because I chose girls that weren't attracted to me in the first place and got them interested via personality/clothes but they find me not attractive for sex ?
I know our common adage " that Looks Don't Matter "..basically you want to be a chameleon and sync with them ..assuming they are at first attracted to you somewhat. I am not sure that some of these girls might not 100 % be ..
thats the thing, if a girl has sex with you, that pretty much is like a 'calling card' that says your looks are good enough. That is what I want more than anything..i'll even drop going after super hot babes and to the ones who gives me the IOIs..THat is what I want, a girl to have sex with me.
Don't get me wrong , i am not unattractive, I get some girls interested me with IOIS but I like to go for girls that really look hot to me. I think that might be the mistake -- not following IOIs but doing my own thing.
I know the 'fcck me' look, i used to get all the time when I was in my 19-22 age,I used to have a FULL SET OF HAIR and chiseled face/body. Now, lets just say I am pretty much bald at 26.( I had a poor hair transplant that has effected my confidence but I am working on fixing the transplant ,as i 'll have the funds saved up shortly.)
Now there are alot of variables. It might just be that I picked two inhibited girls. I don't escalate with kino..i know its important but i am newbie and afraid if i dont do it right it will freak them out.
.I do dress well. I do spend well.. i try to have a good funny light personality/conversation .perhaps I just need continue to keep seeing them and
hope that they get drunk or something hehe...
What do you guys think?
the last two girls , didn't give me IOIs but I still managed to get their number and have dates with them. They meet me for dates but it hasn't led to sex yet... Is this because I chose girls that weren't attracted to me in the first place and got them interested via personality/clothes but they find me not attractive for sex ?
I know our common adage " that Looks Don't Matter "..basically you want to be a chameleon and sync with them ..assuming they are at first attracted to you somewhat. I am not sure that some of these girls might not 100 % be ..
thats the thing, if a girl has sex with you, that pretty much is like a 'calling card' that says your looks are good enough. That is what I want more than anything..i'll even drop going after super hot babes and to the ones who gives me the IOIs..THat is what I want, a girl to have sex with me.
Don't get me wrong , i am not unattractive, I get some girls interested me with IOIS but I like to go for girls that really look hot to me. I think that might be the mistake -- not following IOIs but doing my own thing.
I know the 'fcck me' look, i used to get all the time when I was in my 19-22 age,I used to have a FULL SET OF HAIR and chiseled face/body. Now, lets just say I am pretty much bald at 26.( I had a poor hair transplant that has effected my confidence but I am working on fixing the transplant ,as i 'll have the funds saved up shortly.)
Now there are alot of variables. It might just be that I picked two inhibited girls. I don't escalate with kino..i know its important but i am newbie and afraid if i dont do it right it will freak them out.
.I do dress well. I do spend well.. i try to have a good funny light personality/conversation .perhaps I just need continue to keep seeing them and
hope that they get drunk or something hehe...
What do you guys think?