^^:wave:pvf94 said:yea bro, the absolute best thing you can do right now....is to let this one go.
You are giving off the dreaded "Creeper" vibe. You don't mean to but adolescent girls spread the news like wildfire and it will really hurt your game in highschool, you NEED to leave her be. That is...if you plan on getting your d!ck wet in your highschool years.
The worst thing you can do right now is talk to her at all, if she texts you...ignore her, if she calls....ignore it...., if she says hi to you @ school in person go ahead and wave...but keep your chin up and roll on by. This will eliminate your creep status from her mind. You really need to adhere to this advice or your setting yourself up for failure over a girl that is not worth your time.
Gotta look at things outside of the box. Can you imagine what she is saying to her friends? About the guy that is always looking at her from across the way, or passing by the lunch table and feebly muttering "hi/hello". Those girls then tell other girls and its a huge fvckfest for your reputation....which is important at your age.
Find a new chick for us to help you with, that you have a pretty fresh start with. Then make a topic, and we will coach you from the earliest of stages.
Good luck, and hope you get something new for us to give you a hand with.
jwei44 said:It's over guys. She told me off last night. Said I tried talking to her too much. I'll tell you what she said when I come back from school
Thank you I need to get back on here and start helping some more. Haha, sorry to hear of your anticipated outcome threadstarter.Recon said:Didn't I tell you not to contact her?
If you had simply acted cordial, the topic never should have swayed to this. Oh and props to guy above who posted about the "creeper" vibe, I had a bit of trouble explaining that.
she talked to me firstt.do you guys wanna hear what she said or is it okay? lol. ive been chill about it all day.Recon said:Didn't I tell you not to contact her?
If you had simply acted cordial, the topic never should have swayed to this. Oh and props to guy above who posted about the "creeper" vibe, I had a bit of trouble explaining that.
jwei44 said:she talked to me firstt.do you guys wanna hear what she said or is it okay? lol. ive been chill about it all day.
Excuse me? I can't see any of these pictures, it'd be easier just to put the text into your postjwei44 said:okay
i uploaded the pictures cause i was on my iTouch when she talked to me first. but anyway.. just tell me what i should say should she come back as she said in the last IM she sent. Ill cut her out from now on but leave contacts open. I can act cordial like you said, but im moving on just to let you know
ps - dont im her please. she'll think its me and thats going to be bad for my rep or whateverr
sorry. I forgot the linkRecon said:Excuse me? I can't see any of these pictures, it'd be easier just to put the text into your post
It says I do not have the password?jwei44 said:
Sage, I spelled this exact advice out to him about two or three times. He doesn't seem to be getting it. I broke the whole thing down for him on the previous page and he comes with the same sh1t. Dont bother anymore.sageproduct said:DON'T be a jerk. That's not what No Contact is about. You'll just make it seem to her and EVERYONE that you were bitter about liking her and her not liking you back. Just be polite and respond to her if she tries to talk to you but DON'T start conversations with her or text her or anything like that.
Dude, look your apologizing again. One rule of thumb is only say sorry when you've truly done something wrong. I live by that advice, though others may disagree.jwei44 said:sorry guys. im slow. but i get it now tahnks