A REAL QUESTION, by a REAL DON JUAN

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Originally posted by Mr. Cardio
haha, but what I am askin is how do I make a move without losing my cool......I thought that was the question? I dont have a problem making moves, I do, its just that sometimes I can lose my cool a little, I am just looking for a little information.

Your approach should(could) be an opinion opener that way you don't come off aggressive. It could even be a question opener like: Hey, did you see that fight outside the club?

Once you get the IOI's (Indicators of Interest) like the kino, the eye contact, the hair playing she's into you, and as long as you keep your laid back vibe and approach her you shouldnt have a problem.