Here's something that's been pissing me off lately. I see it in social media, forums, and online dating--its different stupid sayings and memes about what makes a man a "real man". Take this profile I stumbled across for example:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=38335461
(Here's a screen cap in case her photos change http://imgur.com/hlAZ7kx)
Look, I am all for people having self confidence, high self esteem, and being comfortable in their own skin. But why is it that some women need to put down men or deem a guy not a "real man" if she happens to not be his type? Also, how is a guy not a real man if he happens to not want to put up with a woman with an attitude? Many of us have heard women putting down a man, because he's supposedly not "man enough" to deal with her bullsh!t.
I don't look at guy's profiles, but I can say with almost certainty that you wont find a ton of men's profiles throw around expectations like "real women will love every inch of my body" or "a real woman will love me with or without my wallet". And you certainly won't see a man throwing around stupid quotes indicating high maintenance, drama, and b!tchiness (i.e....that dumb Marilyn Monroe quote)
It's like a lot of chicks dont give a sh!t about giving off good impressions or having tact. If you wanna get across the point that a guy should message you only if he's comfortable with your size, a woman should simply say "I'm a thick girl, so if you message me I assume you like something to grab onto "
Ive seen women word it like that before, and it comes across way better. But lord oh lord...Im fvking sick of women trying to put down men with their opinion of what does or doesnt make a "real man". And that kinda attitude should definitely not come from a chick whos not high in the pecking order.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=38335461
(Here's a screen cap in case her photos change http://imgur.com/hlAZ7kx)
Look, I am all for people having self confidence, high self esteem, and being comfortable in their own skin. But why is it that some women need to put down men or deem a guy not a "real man" if she happens to not be his type? Also, how is a guy not a real man if he happens to not want to put up with a woman with an attitude? Many of us have heard women putting down a man, because he's supposedly not "man enough" to deal with her bullsh!t.
I don't look at guy's profiles, but I can say with almost certainty that you wont find a ton of men's profiles throw around expectations like "real women will love every inch of my body" or "a real woman will love me with or without my wallet". And you certainly won't see a man throwing around stupid quotes indicating high maintenance, drama, and b!tchiness (i.e....that dumb Marilyn Monroe quote)
It's like a lot of chicks dont give a sh!t about giving off good impressions or having tact. If you wanna get across the point that a guy should message you only if he's comfortable with your size, a woman should simply say "I'm a thick girl, so if you message me I assume you like something to grab onto "
Ive seen women word it like that before, and it comes across way better. But lord oh lord...Im fvking sick of women trying to put down men with their opinion of what does or doesnt make a "real man". And that kinda attitude should definitely not come from a chick whos not high in the pecking order.