A Question About Receiving Oral Sex From a Woman That Has Always Bothered Me...

[Mr.Positive]

didn't he just get through basically saying he feels like an idiot now? what does calling him ignorant after the fact serve to accomplish?

Yup...btw,

What the hell is up with these adds? One on this thread: "Join herway.com, a site where women take the lead." WTF? That's the anti of this site, like bizarro Jerry from Seinfeld.

Sorta creeps me out a little.

 

[Frank2500]

You Guys Are SO Stupid

I really wonder if you guys here "read," and if at all you do, whether you "understand what you read." I just can't believe how in the world someone would read my last post like darkstarr did, and misinterpret it as an admission of ignorance on my part. You guys are so, so stupid. It's a shame that after all these years, a lot of you still haven't changed at all. So many of you act as if you think with your sexual organs instead of with your brains. It's impossible to hold an intelligent conversation or debate intellectually with so many of you. I deeply regret wasting my time visiting this forum and posting on it after having deliberately been away for so many years because of all of this. In order for my mind and heart to be at peace and far removed from such negativity and intellectual ineptness, I'm not even gonna bother trying to see if anyone else has responded to this post. So feel free to write all you want after this and to insult me if you wish...I ain't gonna see your responses anyway. Bunch of nut-headed idiots who don't think before they speak.

 

[darkstarrr]

I really wonder if you guys here "read," and if at all you do, whether you "understand what you read." I just can't believe how in the world someone would read my last post like darkstarr did, and misinterpret it as an admission of ignorance on my part. You guys are so, so stupid. It's a shame that after all these years, a lot of you still haven't changed at all. So many of you act as if you think with your sexual organs instead of with your brains. It's impossible to hold an intelligent conversation or debate intellectually with so many of you. I deeply regret wasting my time visiting this forum and posting on it after having deliberately been away for so many years because of all of this. In order for my mind and heart to be at peace and far removed from such negativity and intellectual ineptness, I'm not even gonna bother trying to see if anyone else has responded to this post. So feel free to write all you want after this and to insult me if you wish...I ain't gonna see your responses anyway. Bunch of nut-headed idiots who don't think before they speak.

ok einstein now i'm beginning to agree with oberma. you are in fact the one who isn't taking the time to read. i'm hoping this is a simple language barrier thing and that it doesnt reflect on your intelligence. if you read my post carefully you'll see i was standing up for you, and oberma's post was subsequently deleted.

:crackup:

and yes, your message at the end of the previous page could be indicative of you feeling like an idiot for asking questions that you felt were completely reasonable - but then having people flame you.

i think whats best for your mind and heart, as you so eloquently put it, would be to pick up a fucking book and educate yourself.

 

[HeMan]

my god

frank2500 are you retarded or something??

 

[Fuglydude]

So how does the transmission of an STD work, anyway? I mean in detail... Like, if I put my finger in a woman's "pocket", nothing happens but when I put my "rod" in there, it transmits the virus. Why's that? I know the virus is in the blood but my "rod" isn't bleeding, is it? Basically, my "rod" and her "pocket" are having skin-on-skin contact, so what part of my "rod" contains and transmits the virus and what part of her "pocket" will absorb the virus? How does this work, exactly?

The transmission of a pathogen that causes an STI depends on what physiological/cellular machinery is required for the pathogen to attach to and infect the host.

If you take HIV for example, HIV is a virus. A virus, isn't really "100% alive", that is it only exhibits significant metabolism when it has infected a host cell. By themselves, almost all viruses are just particles of protein, DNA or RNA and perhaps a viral lipid envelop. They have far less "parts" than a true living cell. Viruses invade a host cell and subvert host cell machinery to make viral proteins, assemble viral particles, and eventually lyse and kill the cell resulting in release of many more virus particles.

The HIV virus (and other viruses) uses markers/molecules on the cell surface to attach to a cell, and inject it's nucleic acids into the cell to try and hijack the cell's interior machinery for the production of more viruses. In the case of HIV, the molecule is called CD4. This is found on helper T-cells (cells that coordinate immune response) and macrophages (basically the immunological equivalent of a battle tank).

In many cases even if the cell is successfully invaded, the virus can lie dormant for many years as a part of the host cell's genome.

Getting back to the original question about HOW infections occur, if the offending pathogen is a bacteria, say N. gonorhea , it has molecular structures on the cell surface that are designed to attach to the host's epithelial cell layer. The host can subsequently become colonized and infected if the immune system isn't able to take care of the problem quickly enough. Keep in mind however, bacteria, unlike viruses are totally alive... Some STI bacteria such as T. pallidum, the causative bug of siphilis actually can only stay alive in cells. It all depends on the bug that we're dealing with.

Infections occur when infective particles/cells, whether they bacteria or viruses, are present in fluids exchanged between partners. There must be a sufficient number of bugs present for successful attachment, colonization and infection. Hope this answers your question...

 

[Ricky]

Yes you can catch something from oral. Herpes most likely followed by molluscum and some others.

Yes she can get pregnant. There was a news story a few years back about a doctor who had a one night stand with a girl and only had oral with her. She must have saved his semen somehow and used it later tom impregnate herself. He is still responsible for child support

 

[Zarky]

She must have saved his semen somehow and used it later tom impregnate herself.

We studied a case like that in law school. In property law class, oddly enough. The court found that the semen was a legal "gift" from the man to the woman and that she could do with it what she liked once it was in her body.

 

[Alter Ego]

The vagina is not located in the stomach. :cuss:

 

[Alter Ego]

Sperm is community property and must be divided 50/50.

We studied a case like that in law school. In property law class, oddly enough. The court found that the semen was a legal "gift" from the man to the woman and that she could do with it what she liked once it was in her body.

 

[Die Hard]

Infections occur when infective particles/cells, whether they bacteria or viruses, are present in fluids exchanged between partners. There must be a sufficient number of bugs present for successful attachment, colonization and infection. Hope this answers your question...

Thanks for the explanation. So you say the bacteria or virus is transmitted through the exchange of fluids, but what exactly constitutes "exchange of fluids"? Does the fluid need to travel inside the urethra or are there certain receptors on the glans through which transmission can take place? And what fluids are we talking about? What about urine or sweat down there?

 

[Joe Stud]

heres what you do. You let her do her thing... including the swallow. Then tell her you wanna give her a shot of whipped cream for "dessert". then, while still in the dark, spray a shot of spermicide into her mouth. That will kill the sperms and avoid pregnancy. ;-)