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A question about hiding interest

Fela Kuti

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So I think we all agree that we shouldn't show our interest too much, act indifferent, push/pull, hard to get, etc. Or else, the girls will think they got us in their pockets then they lose interests. But one thing that's on my mind, aren't things like asking her to a date, making eye contact, laugh at her jokes, kino, etc. show them that we're interested in them? And consider the strong woman intuition. It's not easy to keep them guessing is it?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Taviii

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Depends on your style. I don't agree that you shouldn't show interest. I show it and they love it, BUT and this is important: you must show interest without being needy.
 

pettman

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i would like to know how the best way is to show interest and not seem needy?
 
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