A Powerful Observation

[007]

I think most of you will find the following post very insightful and helpful in understanding women and what they look for.

It was Feb 14th 2002,(Valentines Day) and I found myself wondering why I didn't have a hot date to hang with on such a symbolic day. So I figured I might as well go down to my local gym for a workout. Well that night I learned something that completely changed my outlook on the whole dating/relationship game.

What I observed at the gym on Valentines evening ( Between 7-9 in the evening), was that there was absolutely no girls(usually there are tons at this time) in the gym, but plenty of guys (AFC with no girlfriends). But interestingly these guys were well above average in looks, were in great shape and all seemed to dress alright(for the gym). So the question is, why didn't they have dates for Valentines evening?? So I decided to observe there behaviour, see how they acted, bodylanguage etc. while I was pumping Iron.

This is what I observed...

- Most of the guys there that night seemed overly nice and accomidating
- Some were very shy and passive
- I overhead two (very good looking guys) whining about why they didn't have dates.
- Most of the guys seemed awkward in the way the walked and carried themselves.
- I noticed one man fleeing eye contact when one of the women who works at the gym exited her office and said hello to him.
- Not a single one of them had anything in the way of real confidence.

But the most shocking observation I made that night, was that I was one of these guys.... And I had to CHANGE my ways!

I concluded that, although many of these guys were very good looking and in shape, they lacked one very important element, Confidence. And that was the main reason they didn't have a date on Valentines evening, and it also proves that you can be the best looking guy around, but If your unsure of yourself, your dead where ever you go!

007
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"Much can be learned by quietly observing..."

 

[preditor]

You've nailed it 007, Most woman want a strong confident man that is manly in his looks, manner, body language, actions. I find that there are a few triggers that lue womane without effort. I have been told that one of my biggest turn on's is "the way I carry myself" I have a deep smooth sexy voice and can speak volumes with my eyes.I was told once by an alpha female that if she looked up Man in the dictionary my picture would be beside it. Most women are looking for ( and this is their ideal, idea of a man they desire) A manly man that kisses like an angle is warm and deeply passionate while still being tender. I had the good fortune to have a young lady sit me down and tell me what made me absolutely lethal to women.And have had that discussion with many others. Before that I walked around with my head down not observing my effect on women. You are totally correct confidence is of utmost importance.

 

[the graphics guy]

Now that you mention it, I went to my gym last night and it was not crowded at all, my LTRHB went to her gym (we go to different gyms--and she always goes on Thursday night for a specific exercise class) and she said it was like a ghost town where there are usually a ton of ladies. She said she thought they were all out on dates! I agreed, gave her V-card and we enjoyed some cold drinks and a warm shag.

 

[BGMan]

Here's something else.

In my weight training class there are like three times as many guys as girls. And many of the girls have their BFs there with them. However, despite the fact that in this class it is probably EASIEST of all the ones I have to meet women -- because you aren't sitting in a seat the whole time listening to a professor give a lecture -- I find that the only guy who will really talk to the single girls is the instructor. Last Wed I took a little time to meet two of these girls in between workouts. I don't understand why none (or very few) of the other guys do so (unless a majority of guys are AFCs).

BGMan