I have a nice trend that I've been experiencing for what I would say YEARS now, that goes against alot of Sosuave's teaching on this area. I thought I would share to help some guys here.
You know how you get a girl's number, you are told to:
1.) Do not call the first or second day, call on day three
2.) After a "couple" calls, if you don't get a date to NEXT
Both of these "Sosuave" rules will actually hurt you for the most part. My experiences have it where, if I wait and call a girl in three damn days after I got her number, ALOT of them won't even remember who I am. Now, calling on the first day might be a little too pushy, but I normally call on day two (which is basically the next day, if I got her number at night I'll call the afternoon of the next day).
Now, I also find that the girl makes you wait on purpose before she goes out with you. So she spends a little more time on the phone and text to get to know you a little, get a feel for your personality, etc.
So from what I experience, you have to be a little more persistent when it comes to converting them. Sosuave seems to think that since we are "The Prize" (which for most guys in America I seriously doubt that is true), that the girl should be damn near dripping in high interest from the moment our King Don Juan Savior of the World a.sses walks up to her. This is not so.
I find that if the girl gave you her number, for the most part, you had something that attracted her (looks, personality, or both). But, in order to get her to spend time with you, fvck you, take it to a relationship, you have to be a little more persistent on the telephone.
For example, the girl I'm with right now, I literally spent damn near 3 weeks on the telephone with her! The girl I was with before that was about 2 weeks. I would say on average, I would spend about a week or two on the telephone/texting with a chick before she "chills" with me. Once I get them to chill with me it's over, my conversion to sex ratio is pretty high from that point on.
You know how you get a girl's number, you are told to:
1.) Do not call the first or second day, call on day three
2.) After a "couple" calls, if you don't get a date to NEXT
Both of these "Sosuave" rules will actually hurt you for the most part. My experiences have it where, if I wait and call a girl in three damn days after I got her number, ALOT of them won't even remember who I am. Now, calling on the first day might be a little too pushy, but I normally call on day two (which is basically the next day, if I got her number at night I'll call the afternoon of the next day).
Now, I also find that the girl makes you wait on purpose before she goes out with you. So she spends a little more time on the phone and text to get to know you a little, get a feel for your personality, etc.
So from what I experience, you have to be a little more persistent when it comes to converting them. Sosuave seems to think that since we are "The Prize" (which for most guys in America I seriously doubt that is true), that the girl should be damn near dripping in high interest from the moment our King Don Juan Savior of the World a.sses walks up to her. This is not so.
I find that if the girl gave you her number, for the most part, you had something that attracted her (looks, personality, or both). But, in order to get her to spend time with you, fvck you, take it to a relationship, you have to be a little more persistent on the telephone.
For example, the girl I'm with right now, I literally spent damn near 3 weeks on the telephone with her! The girl I was with before that was about 2 weeks. I would say on average, I would spend about a week or two on the telephone/texting with a chick before she "chills" with me. Once I get them to chill with me it's over, my conversion to sex ratio is pretty high from that point on.