A nice gesture..............

[HollowHorizon]

I am going bowling on saturday with my girlfriend we have been going out for a few days now n i a can't wait to see her im thinking about going up tonight and getting her some flowers for tommorow do you think this is a good idea?

 

[ToP DoN]

please dont

a Don Juan doesnt need to buy flowers or anything like that...your presence and company is more than enough...if you buy her flowers now...shes gonna always expect them....

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Don't buy flowers til you've boned her.

 

[HollowHorizon]

Yeah but dont ya think she will realize how much i care about her???

 

[ToP DoN]

come on

you need to have the i dont care attitude ...she will be more intrigued with you and you need to make her earn it...dont just do it to show her you care...buying her flowers so quickly...???!!

come on bro....take ur time...ur young...at least get some pvssy first....the more you hold out...the more she wants it....

 

[HollowHorizon]

Okay im gonna trust your word on this one i wont get flowers but i will on our one month anaversery ok?

 

[ToP DoN]

dude u dont get it do u

im 25 and i was an AFC since i was 21...and i would always buy flowers and candy ...i spent a whole paycheck on our one year anniversary ring....which was about 400...but for a 19 year old in college that was a lot for me...and during that time i bought another girl charles david shoes that also cost me a whole paycheck...dude we broke up....it ended with me buying her a 100 dollar roses and i later found out she just threw them away....now im not saying your girl is gonna throw them away...im sure shes not going to...but trust me...the girl u are with now...isnt gonna last for more than two years....high probablility it will be break up and youre gonna regret buying her stuff....trust me dude...**** her first...then maybe buy things for her here and there...for one month anniversary...just get her some stuffed animal and a card...very inexpensive...like twenty bucks..

remember if you wanna keep her...have her invest most of the time, money, and effort....the more effort she s invested in the relationship and in you...the less likely shelll break it off and be a good girl to you...

 

[squirrels]

Answer this...why do you THINK you NEED to get her flowers?

 

[ToP DoN]

squirrels

answer me this...did u know that squirrels like to stuff nuts in their cheeks? what are u trying to say here buddy...u like nuts in your mouth?

 

[fezz]

I think you should show her you love her with actions (they usually dont cost anything) rather than flowers. Those flowers are just gonna die man, and when you give them to her, she's just gonna go "gee, thanks" , and put on a big smile and give you a hug. It's not like its gonna make her stay with you jsut because you bought her something. Show her with actions, maybe she'll do them back

 

[fezz]

no offense or anything dude, but I have been reading over a couple of your posts, and are you sure you've read the bible and everything??? It seems like you are still in AFC mode. And it sounds like you got oneitis, which is hard to get rid of without applying stuff from the bible

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by HollowHorizon
I am going bowling on saturday with my girlfriend we have been going out for a few days now n i a can't wait to see her im thinking about going up tonight and getting her some flowers for tommorow do you think this is a good idea?

IMO flowers are nice and should be given if:

She's been on good behaviour
You respect her as a person and want to have something serious with her.
You don't expect anything for the flowers.
You wanna show that you care.
She needs your caring.

If that's the case, the flowers will help.

 

[HollowHorizon]

now im not saying your girl is gonna throw them away...im sure shes not going to...but trust me...the girl u are with now...isnt gonna last for more than two years....high probablility it will be break up and youre gonna regret buying her stuff....

Well We Broke Up A Year Ago Now, 2 Years Since I Posted THis....... And Top Don... You Where Right...........


Thread CLOSED- Shut Case

 

[Ace of Flames]

Lol.

Just lol.