Hey guys,
On this early morning sipping at my hot chocolate while reading up on everybody's miserable lives, it has come to my attention that there is something missing.
People are asking for advice... This boggles my mind. You are asking people, in different states,countries etc, to put themselves in your position and to tell you what they would do. It's not infact what they think you should do, it's what deep down, they would do (in most cases).
These people's upbringings have been so different from yours and their lives are so much different from yours. Their origins are so different from yours. And the list goes on.
What I'm trying to say is, how can you take advice? Especially over the internet. Sure these guys have a "common" mindset but other then that, we are 99.99999999% different!
I havn't asked my friends for advice for the past year and a half. You know why? Because I believe in myself. I am confident in my own choices. Now some will tell me that I can't always see the situation in the same light as they can, or they have a better overview of the case. Sorry guys, all they see is what their eyes see. They do not see with the mind.
You know deep down inside what choices you want to make but you seek approval from the outside. Wether good or bad, is up to you to decide but all I have to say is.... Trust yourself. Do not require the presence of anyone but yourself to be happy. I really don't know how else to put it. Stop asking for advice.
You are wasting YOUR time. You will be influenced by opinions that should not even cross your mind because they are so phenomenally different in how they are built then yours.
How about, you turn off your pc, go shower and get ready to spank some ass today and go do so regardless of what this board tells you. This is no longer a "discussion" board. People are not discussing, they are contrasting.
Make your own choices. It will make you stronger and in regards to this board, you will be able to come here and not ask for advice but make a story out of your adventure. And I can tell you, that is so much more interresting then your advice asking. You will be proud of what you have done and be able to brag about it. Be it rejection or pu$$y, it's always a victory in the sense that it makes you a better person.
There are those times when you really have no idea what to do. Remember this advice: act. It is so much fun to venture into something when you have no idea what you may be getting yourself into and just do something. Do not stand back, think, run to your pc, post a question, wait for an answer, go back to real world- oh... but too late. She's gone.
Your time is precious, don't waste it.
So why do YOU ask advice? Or why don't you?
I just act. When things get really sticky I may analyze. When I'm in complete confusion I ask "what would my better self do?" and so I act accordingly. And no one will influence my choices ever for only I have my best interrest at heart.
lik
On this early morning sipping at my hot chocolate while reading up on everybody's miserable lives, it has come to my attention that there is something missing.
People are asking for advice... This boggles my mind. You are asking people, in different states,countries etc, to put themselves in your position and to tell you what they would do. It's not infact what they think you should do, it's what deep down, they would do (in most cases).
These people's upbringings have been so different from yours and their lives are so much different from yours. Their origins are so different from yours. And the list goes on.
What I'm trying to say is, how can you take advice? Especially over the internet. Sure these guys have a "common" mindset but other then that, we are 99.99999999% different!
I havn't asked my friends for advice for the past year and a half. You know why? Because I believe in myself. I am confident in my own choices. Now some will tell me that I can't always see the situation in the same light as they can, or they have a better overview of the case. Sorry guys, all they see is what their eyes see. They do not see with the mind.
You know deep down inside what choices you want to make but you seek approval from the outside. Wether good or bad, is up to you to decide but all I have to say is.... Trust yourself. Do not require the presence of anyone but yourself to be happy. I really don't know how else to put it. Stop asking for advice.
You are wasting YOUR time. You will be influenced by opinions that should not even cross your mind because they are so phenomenally different in how they are built then yours.
How about, you turn off your pc, go shower and get ready to spank some ass today and go do so regardless of what this board tells you. This is no longer a "discussion" board. People are not discussing, they are contrasting.
Make your own choices. It will make you stronger and in regards to this board, you will be able to come here and not ask for advice but make a story out of your adventure. And I can tell you, that is so much more interresting then your advice asking. You will be proud of what you have done and be able to brag about it. Be it rejection or pu$$y, it's always a victory in the sense that it makes you a better person.
There are those times when you really have no idea what to do. Remember this advice: act. It is so much fun to venture into something when you have no idea what you may be getting yourself into and just do something. Do not stand back, think, run to your pc, post a question, wait for an answer, go back to real world- oh... but too late. She's gone.
Your time is precious, don't waste it.
So why do YOU ask advice? Or why don't you?
I just act. When things get really sticky I may analyze. When I'm in complete confusion I ask "what would my better self do?" and so I act accordingly. And no one will influence my choices ever for only I have my best interrest at heart.
lik
