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Ok, so theres this girl ive noticed, shes cute, and shes really nice and stuff, and quiet.

Shes in my english class and today after school, randomly I say hey to her on facebook and talk about if we had homework and stuff, she was happy to help and stuff.

Now that I have talked to her for the first time, should I say anything to her tommorow when I see her in english?

Anything else?
 

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Say thanks for helping.
Then just have fun with her. Exchange names, tease her, befriend her at first and then if she shows interest in you after awhile then you escalate and ask her out.
 

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Triple T said:
Say thanks for helping.
Then just have fun with her. Exchange names, tease her, befriend her at first and then if she shows interest in you after awhile then you escalate and ask her out.
I did say that today, should I say it again tommorow?

otherwise, wow thats exactly what I was planning on. I think she would say yes too.
 

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Say:
You: "hey thanks again for helping me yesterday!"
Her: "yea no problem!"
You: ":) oh yea I didn't catch your name."
Her: "its _____, yours?"

And then just take it from there.
Make her laugh, tease her etc. BE FUN!
After awhile if she shows interest in you then just ask her to hangout sometime. A friday night or something.

Show her a good time, and at the end of the night you might get a kiss-close and then SHABAM! GF+BF! hehe

Good luck bro!
 

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noodle said:
Say:
You: "hey thanks again for helping me yesterday!"
Her: "yea no problem!"
You: ":) oh yea I didn't catch your name."
Her: "its _____, yours?"

And then just take it from there.
Make her laugh, tease her etc. BE FUN!
After awhile if she shows interest in you then just ask her to hangout sometime. A friday night or something.

Show her a good time, and at the end of the night you might get a kiss-close and then SHABAM! GF+BF! hehe

Good luck bro!
It was on facebook, of couse she knows my name and I know hers, she added me as a friend a long time ago ahha
 

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haha well, just open up with something like that. Talk to her, have fun. etc.

good luck! :cool:
 

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remember to apply kino!! if you don't apply kino before your first time out with her, it will be super awkward if you try to put your arm around her at a movie. she'll think its a weird tentacle monster reaching her other shoulder and scream. (kino means touch, just start out with tapping her lightly on the shoulder as you start a conversation with her and the next time you two are walking put your arm around her. wear deodorant)

ps: don't imagine she will say yes and definitely don't imagine how your future dates will go, because there is some sort of weird force that prevents what you imagine dates to be to end up exactly how you predicted.
 

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Kino already...

I wasnt planning on it for a while

also remember, shes never had a bf before, prob doesnt talk to that many guys cuz shes shy, and were 16 and in high school, and ive never talked to her in person before.
 

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Ok, so today she walked in late so I had no chance to talk to her for a while, until the end of class.

I tapped her on the shoulder and I'm like, hey thanks for helping me yesterday. She smiled and went "no problem"

I would have asked how she was and stuff, but some idiot pushed me into a desk after lmao, and I had to go to PE

I will start talking more to her though.
 

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ur 16?
me too bro.
seriously.
you're giving yourself excuses to not talk to her.
just remember that regret is worse than rejection.

+ is she hot?
could u post a pic? :)
 

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So, who cares abotu anything, just talk?

shes not really hot, but shes cute imo.
 

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Ok guys, I have started talking to her more often, and shes laughing and stuff, and actually contributing and adding to what i say too. Asks me questions too.

Think shes interested???

Ill talk to her more in Person and stuff, and if she does show interest, Ill ask her out somewhat soon.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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