A New Meaning to C&F

[Boricua_33015]

A New Meaning to C&F

For a long time on this board, C+F has been hailed as a technique which
works. Its a good technique, but so many people don't really know how
to use it correctly. Part of the problem is in the name itself. ****Y.

****y is seen as arrogant, boasting, or bragging. It
can also be seen as conceited.

In the past I've used C&F but received results that I
didn't like. Some girls said I was too ****y or
arrogant.

For this reason I have developed my own meaning of C&F
so I don't get confused about how I should use C&F.
This NEW meaning is Confident & Funny.

See, when you use confidence instead of ****iness, you
are not bragging about how sexy you are, or how
attractive you are. Instead you are more humble.

Your confidence is to be shown through your actions,
choice of words, tone of voice, body movements and
body language, making a confident aura. This already
makes you desirable and sexy in a woman's eyes. You
are not arrogantly saying "I know I'm sexy."

Most of you will say: "BUT THAT'S NOT C+F THATS BEING STUPID
LOL!!!!1111"

Is it? By definition, that's EXACTLY what C+F is. So what are you
talking about?

Here are some examples of the difference between
confidence and ****iness.

HB: "your so hard to figure out!"
****y response: "please I know you find it sexy, just
admit it"
Confident response: "I know"

With the traditional ****iness, its almost like your
putting words or thoughts into her mouth and then she
will 99% of the time see you as arrogant or conceited.

With the confident responses, they are short, sweet,
simple, and to the point. They SHOW confidence. You
know what your doing, you don't have to boast. Plus its
more mysterious. That way the woman will wonder about
you. Another example:

HB "You're sexy!" (she is kinoing like crazy)
****y response: "I know. I'm so sexy you can
barely control yourself!"
Confident response: "I know, you can't keep your hands off me"

See?

****iness is more like, trying to reassure her that
you know that you are turning her on; its like fake
confidence. With confident responses, you are so
confident and sure of yourself that you don't need to
boast or you don't need to reassure her that you are
sexy because your confident personality and character
already makes you sexy!

Confident responses also adds a bit of mystery. You
use less words, its short, sweet, simple and to the
point with no pointless, irrelevant boasting or bragging.

Like traditional C&F, this technique has to be done with a smirk on your face.

About the funny part of Confident & Funny.... just be
humorous.... that's all! Be conservative, and really try to keep OFF of
sexual topics unless you are getting clear signals from her that she
wishes to try something. Keep it easy going, and carefree, and don't
forget the kino!

Good luck to you all who go out into the field and try this improvised
idea. Thank you for reading.

 

[Miles Davis]

Good post Boricua, you make a lot of interesting points.

However, some examples of your C/F were not totally accurate. I do agree that the ones you use as your examples come across as being fake, but ****y/funny (ala David DeAngelo) seems more like a reversal of what the woman actually said to you. When used properly, it puts her on the spot, and I think this conveys some level of confidence/balls on your part. If a woman tells you you're sexy, and you fire back with "I know. I'm so sexy you can barely control yourself!"," that is just plain weak. Of course she will make this facial gesture after something like this: "" I know this from experience. But say you replied with, "Hey, dont think a few cleverly placed lines are going to get you into these pants, missy," I often get laughter back, and some kino from her!. That type of response is stronger, as it contains an element of humor to it, and is hence ****y AND Funny.

I think your classification of Confident+Funny is what DJ's truly strive for. You're absolutely right about how it can be mysterious, and I'm sure that it's pretty effective in making a woman wet as well.
I will definitely give it a shot next time I'm out

 

[oreo_renegade]

nice overall, i have to disagree on a few things.

To a man's mind, getting idea's shoved at our head is very frustrating. We see the other person as arrogant and closeminded.

Women however, they CRAVE to be defined by you. They WANT you to give them directions on how to please you better. They DONT KNOW what to do, or how to act unless you direct them.

This is true for the most part, eventually you might come across a woman who is open with her sexuality, but for the most part these women are "sluts" and are few.

The more common women have the mentality that its impolite for a girl to ask a guy out, or send strong signals, or let it be known they are sexual.

Its up to us guys to get women thinking about sex.


"try to keep off the sexual topics unless you are getting clear signals"


A clear signal is her talking to you. :-D


You say "hey, im oreo"
and she says "hi, im jenny"

this is the signal that means "**** me senseless playboy"









If you dont get women sexually comfortable around you, then there is no way she will open up herself sexually. She needs your aproval first, so if you are waiting for some biggger signal then her acknowledging your presence, you might be out of luck.

 

[Slickster]

Originally posted by Miles Davis
"Hey, dont think a few cleverly placed lines are going to get you into these pants, missy,"

Good c+f Miles.

Good post all around.

Oreo you bring up some good points too.

 

[Boricua_33015]

Miles Davis, I agree the C&F lines I put as an example were weak as hell.

Truth is, Im not much experienced with C&F.

Matrix said its a attitude or mindset.

Well I guess this is aimed toward people who arent NATURALLY ****y and funny.

Plus, this tip is sort of personal for me. This is the way I play MY game, and I am just sharing it with you.

Its just a different perspective. This is what I have gathered from experience.

 

[Bud Wiser]

Most often, ****y+funny works when the emphasis is on funny, delivered in a teasing-playful manner with some challenge thrown in for good measure.

For instance:

Her: "I can't quite figure you out."

You: "I can't figure me out, either. When you do, type it up double-spaced and have a copy on my desk in the morning."

Another example:

Her: "You're so sexy."

You: "You know, that's interesting, because I was having dinner with George Clooney the other night and he said the same thing. It was disturbing, to say the least."

In essence, C+F is treating her like your bratty little sister -- teasing, ball busting, having fun. With the emphasis on FUN.

It's not the be-all and end-all, but C+F is a valuable weapon in your arsenal.

For some good examples, check out the so-called "screwball comedies" of the late 1930s and 40s. It Happened One Night with Clark Gable and Carol Lombard is a good one. So are some of the Tracy/Hepburn comedies. (They're also good demos on how to act and respond when under fire from womens' s**t tests.) I say these, because many of today's romantic comedies are a tad too AFC to be a provide a good demonstration.