A mistake most guys do

JdelaSilviera

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When trying to seduce women, many guys will change completely the way they talk to a "flirty mode talk". You probably know what I´m talking about, they will put a goofy smile on their face, act a little bit like clowns, and talk to a women like they were talking to a retard.

Although many women smile, it doesn´t mean they are going to give you any chance, they just feel pretty because you are blatantly hitting on her.

Other guys will go completely in the other direction, and will talk like a super confident taxi driver, or construction worker, who speaks super loudly, super annoying due to "excess" of confidence.

Speak slowly, in a calm, cool, collected, charming way. Also don´t twist all your face while speaking, wrinkling your forehead and face... you are making yourself much much uglier.... and it´s gay to exaggerate facial expressions

I tested this and the effect is simply great, women will be much more attracted to you...
 

sstype

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Aaahh cringe...I'm guilty of falling in this trap also. Overdoing the whole "funny charming casanova" routine just makes you look like a try-hard goober. You get too excited about the woman and fall into this need to "entertain" her presence.

Calm, cool, sexual, confident....with a little humor and lightheartedness peppered in is money for getting laid.

Good post man.
 

Eternal_water

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ahh this is at least one common mistake I can honestly say I do not make
 

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Poke-her face?

If you tilt your head to one side it's a sign of inferiority (wolf submitting to other wolf).

You want a serene expression of being generally satisfied.
 

JCballin88

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I'm majorly guilty of this one...I get wayy too outcome-dependent on my interactions with them, so of course I start acting goofy and try way too hard to entertain.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Fly By Night

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Thank you, I remember when I first started trying day-game, and looked like a nerd who just finished reading his first PUA book.

It's true, real game has to come from within and is not only one type of personality.
 
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