a master plan - mind games

fast_n_furious

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Hey guys, this is my first post at this forum, so a very big hi to all of u, i hope i will be able to give my best and get the best out of this forum, and at the same time share gr8 relation with all.

here's a story i would like to share with u, its long but interesting, and as most love stories are, its incomplete, and i would really like to have some advice from u guys, on how to manage the situation.
pls note, that u may find some things odd or uncommon as the the place where the situation has taken place is my hometown, india, and the culture is very diff. from that of UK or US, but i still guess in the end, most women think alike...lol.

i got this gals number. from one of my friends, called her up, and convinced her to talk to me, we talked three or 4 times, and i was able to impress her extremely well, so she started calling me 3-4 times a day and we did talk a lot, then i thought it was the right time to make her emotional and so that we can get closer, so i used a bit of psychology to make her feel more comfortable with me and share as much as she wanetd to , and she told me, that her parents didn't give her enough time, and that's the reason why she became a big flirt n all that. she was a big flirt and had about 7 relations in the last 1n a half yr, and all the guys stay in the same colony and were in touch with each other, so i never had any intentions of getting into a serious relation with her. she also revealed that she was at present going out wid a guy called raj, who stayed in the same colony and was a big bond( some1 with a very solid back..although usually in the teenage sense), and as she started liking me a lot, even before meeting she was like, pls help me brk up wid that guy, he is ruthless, he blackmails me that if i brk up with him, he will do this n that, so i said i will try my best. she gave all indications that she liked me a lot, and then on phone said this too. she said she really liked me, in fact loved me but she din wanted 2 cos i wld b gng to uk for further studies, and that would really make her cry a lot, when she said she liked me, i recorded this thing on my mobile phone, so that i could use it as a proof against her if something happens.then we kept on talking, she called me to meet, and i did all preparations, bought a candle for her as a gift as she once told me she loved candles, but she ditched me and didnt reached the place. when i asked the reason she told me her cuz told her that, it wld b insane to go out on a drive with a guy who she hadnt even seen and so i excused her as her reason was logical enough. in the mean time v carried on phone and she still said crap about her bf. one day i got really angry wid her and gave her a big lecture on , y every1 in da colony hated her for what she was, and she was lyk, u r a very sweeet person, and pls help me change myself, i beg u , i said it wld b kool, i dont mind.then we finally met, i picked her up, and shockingly she said that she wld prefer it if i drive around in our colony only, ( most gals wanna go outside the colony, so dat ppl may not know what they r up 2), and i did that, while i was driving, i saw her bf and i turned the car away, she said wat happened, i said ur bf was thr, so she was lyk, "so wat, r u afraid of him?", i said how the hell does that matter to me, i took the car past him, and he was bewildered, after that we went around in the car, and v did a few things in the car as well, as in i took her hands in mine, light physical touching n all, but nothing too big, but more than what u can expect in ur first date.in the mean time, wen i reached back my frnd told me that her big bond bf was asking for my phone number and address and said he would beat me, i met my bro who too was a popular bond and much bigger than ne1 arnd, and he settled it in my favour, i made my bro call him, and altho at first he was trying to act big, when he came to knwo about who my bro was, he settled it with me.( its a cuzin bro, who isnt very close to me ).the same night i called the girl, and she was lyk, i talked to raj, and he was very sweet with me, i was lyk wat do u mean ? she told me, raj said i dont know wat all u did with that guy in car, and in return she said what were u doing with that gal in car that day, and on this raj said sorry and then acted sweetly with her. this made me believe that she basically used me to give herself a lift, and show raj that even she can manage a guy easily.the next day after i met raj, and v became sorta calm frnds, i called her up and she was lyk, v shudn't talk the way we do, bcos i already have a bf, and then she was like pls pray to god that my bf never leaves me. i then thought she was acting very smart, so i called her and repeated whatever she had said about her bf, and made her say crap about him for a while, and i recorded it too, so that if she again tries to create a misunderstanding bw m n her bf, i cld make him hear the recordings and he would go wild, he would like to kill that girl.
now this is what the situation is, another thing, even her bf is a big time player, and in fact he told me he was just using the girl for her time pass, all this happened yesterday and she called me even today and she was sweet, but she repeated the same line, v shouldn't talk the way we do, bcos i have a bf. this was today, so when she called me up in the evening, i didn't attend her call, i said i was busy talking to some other girl, and when she called after 30 mins, i said the same thing, cos i thot may b i was falling too much, and may b ignoring her wld work better.
now i want 2 prepare a plan, that would include making her hate her bf, and making her bf hete her, leading to a brk up,( hatred is the imp. word here because why she loves her bf is cos he has many gals after him, and even though i could make the guy break up with her, that would mean she would desire him more than ever) without it seeming as if i am involved at all, and then she wld obv come to me, at the same time i would also love to have ur suggestions regarding how i shud behave with her, wat are the sort of things i should do to make her like me more, and a good plan to make her bf know that she said crap to me about him, without me directly telling him, i wont like to use the recordings as of now, because that would mean she would neither talk to me nor with her bf.would greatly appreciate ur advice, on_way_to_fame@hotmail.com, is my e mail address, i wld actually like to draw up a plan, and work on her psyche and be a part of this mind game, rather then withdraw. I dont think its impossible at all, because she still shows a lot of interest in me, the basic objective is making her like me, and at the same time causing a brk up, if ne1 has any suggestions pls put them here, or if u guys wld like to work on a plan pls add me on messenger, if u have any more q's pls post them her, the story moves on everyday and i will keep u updated.
chaeers.
 
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fast_n_furious

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dood, time was extremely short and the story big, and by the way it seems u rnt really accustomed to net lingo at all, and before u actually get inti Dj'ing, would be advisable to practice your conversational skills first.
 

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I can't really offer you advise because I got through about ten lines before I decided that your writing style is intentionally hard to read, and decided that instead of giving a constructive response, I'd just say one of those generic lines that pretty much serve as advice to newbies:

Keep it simple and don't take yourself so seriously.

I'm sure that is a better idea than mind games, which are generally dirty tricks, and you've got a long way to go before you're at the level where you can be playin with a girl's mind.:p

Originally posted by fast_n_furious
dood, time was extremely short and the story big, and by the way it seems u rnt really accustomed to net lingo at all, and before u actually get inti Dj'ing, would be advisable to practice your conversational skills first.
Well it seeing as he has over a hundred posts and you have only a few, you should probably go easy on the insults and listen to his advice. Trainee's accustomed to "net lingo," he just doesn't use it to the point where his writing is practically beond recognition.

P.S.

D-U-D-E ;)
 

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Waht I do not understand is that,

Why after a girl behaves in such a way you still want her?

If it would not be for your bro, you would've been lying on the floor azzkicked, and crying..

For what?

Because some girl who does not go on a drive with a stranger, but dating the playboy of the colony, after 7 dates in the past year, and only holding hands, asks you if you are afraid...

You were just a little mind**** for her.. And a way to raise her up in her boyfriend's eyes..

I've got an indian friend here, a close friend, and I know the culture is so different from the west... Crazy people you are, I tell, considering my Turkish background, which is not totally west...

Anyway,

U wer used, abused, and were lucky to survive..

If you still want to go for that girl,

I say you are a masochistic psycho whose only ambition in life is to suffer because of a non-deserving girl.

And btww, I like the idea of recording the convo's... hillarious!
 

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hey caveman, whats up ?

Waht I do not understand is that,
Why after a girl behaves in such a way you still want her?
mate, have u ever heard this " while waiting for the right one to come to your life, enjoy with thw wrong ones", thats what i like to do, obv i know she wont be my true love, but who is looking for true love here, its all about mind games, and thats what DJ's should be good at, u know she is a sucessful flirt, and there is so much to be learned from her, i dont want her, but if i have her its just COOl, who says i aint gng for others at the same time.

If it would not be for your bro, you would've been lying on the floor azzkicked, and crying..
u go and ask out any girl, there is always a possibility, that she could have a bond brother, or a criminal bf, does that mean we should simply back off, there is always a risk element involved and if you go for it, thats the only way u can win. a person who is afraid of loosing cant even win, isnt it mate ? and when i took this risk, even i knew i do have such a bro and a few more such bros, i always knew where i stand, and i was always at a pretty solid position, so i could always afford that risk.

and as u tell me mate, she used me, i agree with u completely, but then, i was a gainer too, i took her around in the car, had fun, and the next day half of the colony called me and asked me "wats gng on bw u guys ?", so it helped me build a bit of rapport, and i did have fun in my car, so what did i loose, absolutely nothing, and she may have left 7 in the last 1 yr, but they were 7, and none of them were WE, its all about positive attitude, not only in the case of girls, but any field, if u wanna b a big time winner, you have to believe you can do what others cant.

but ne ways, its all about thinking, believeing and following your principles, and they vary from person to person, in my case, i really like mind games, and i dont like to allow such people to just use me and move on, because i always believe, u gotta tell them they r gud" but u r better.

take care.
 

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Your lying to yourself if you say you don't want her!!! Dood she's a player and she's played your @ss bad!!! You guys didn't even hook-up and your already whipped like a little beeyatch!!! This should be OVER!! You already learned your lesson, don't be an emotional tampon "girlfriend" to a girl. I want to make one thing clear: SHE HAD ONE INTENTION WITH YOU, USE YOU TO MAKE HER BF JEALOUS!!! The fact that you talked to her so much about all her problems is not good!! You need to spend that time seducing women, making them wet for you and then meet up and hook up.

Why don't you copy her and go hook up with a bunch of other girls in your area? Sounds like a major case of stocker one-itis. Never put all your money in one slot machine!! You'll ALWAYS lose.


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fast_n_furious

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well thrs no doubt that she wanted a lift, but as i said i had ntn to loose, i got a lift too, and had some fun too. 2ndly i hate it wen ppl say get over wid her, i still have her and in da last 2 days i have moved by leaps and bounds, bcos i have been ignoring her and talking a lot more to her best frnd, so jealousy is 1 weapon which works best agnst women, and it is alrdy showing amazing results. and well, who is srs for her, altho m a bit more srs bout her *****, shes a player and so am i, so i have no intentions of bng serious wid her or ntn, its just mind games, which r on, and m sure i can cos a brk up weneva i want, in fact she has alrdy starting hating her bf now a days, due to some techniques which worked for me, i guess its a game, and thats y i named this post, mind games, and i relish these games, and i really hate to give up so easily.
 

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you're also a hypocrite. you complain that her bf is blackmailing her but you say like 3 times "i recorded this so i can use it againt her is something happens". go f*ck ten other girls, then you're allowed to cry about this one, k?
 

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The DJ Forums are definately tailored towards a society of western civilization, where chicks have all mentally elevated themselves as higher / better than men. We're here to collect the weapons needed to even the playing field. These forums most likely won't help ya.
 

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well a cuz of my, who stays in uk came 2 india, and he was lyk, i guess delhi is more modern than birmingham. m sure its not, and thr r lotsa parts of india which rnt that much developed, but wen it comes 2 women n high society, women really rule delhi. so ntn like that at all, they r ultra-mod.
 

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Originally posted by fast_n_furious
...we finally met, i picked her up, and shockingly she said that she wld prefer it if i drive around in our colony only, ( most gals wanna go outside the colony, so dat ppl may not know what they r up 2), and i did that, while i was driving, i saw her bf and i turned the car away, she said wat happened, i said ur bf was thr, so she was lyk, "so wat, r u afraid of him?"...
lol, dude she tricked you into making her boyfriend jealous and you fell for it, hook, line, and sinker.

Now you want advise on how to make them hate each other, and maybe use your secret recordings, but how to do it in such a way the he won't beat the crap out of you, and she won't hate you.

Here's a thought, perhaps she's not the only girl India, and you could approach another. This time, leave the secret recorder at home, but bring your brain.
 

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BUDDY, they r lotsa babes in india, and who says i am not going for them while i am going for her. u r right, she tricked me into it, but y i dont wanna back off now is, cos i wanna teach her a lesson, and actly m starting to win this game now, as i said, making gud frnds wid her best frnd, is attracting her back towards me, its just that the game here is, i wanna give her just what she gave me.
 

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you wasted a lot of time on her already, now you wanna waste more time just for revenge or in a feeble attempt to get her jealous? You seem to be consumed by what you can't have, get over it, grow up, move on, good luck.
 

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thanks for ur concern mate, but the thing is, y i am wasting time is cos i am cing success, if she wasnt showing interest i would have given up, but she is given me the green signals, for instance i was talking to her today, and i asked her how her bf was, and she was lyk, i dont wanna talk about him, and then she was like m, she wants to meet me tomm, so its really turning out well, i can smell *****, so its worth wasting time, ;) , and u know she was quite a***** in the car, on my first date, so i can expect wonders in the second one, and finally my exams just got over, have lotsa time to waste, and u know flirts r always fun, actly i know she used me, but i have been emphasizing this point a lot, i had ntn to loose, she gained from it, and so did i, cos i got a lift in my colony tooo, wen all my frnds including the gals she me wid her, and i have been good enuf to spread the ruour that she is gng out wid me, and i gave her a few hints, so its really working out well mate...and u know wen u play mind games, its surely a waste of time, but then v r here to gain experience and turn the NO's into YES'es , when i joined the forum i really expected lots of positive replies, but a few of em have been like, you should find new babe, and all, i guess the reason is just too small to move on, its about getting what u want and changing her no into a yes, and i guess its early i would give up.
cheers
 

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look closely in your mirror, is there a hook protruding from your cheek? She burned you once, now you're goin back for more, oh well, some people like to expose themselves for abuse, others are just slow learners. Fast_N_Furious might not be as descriptive of a nickname as dense_doormat.
 

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Originally posted by fast_n_furious
u mean the normal tips given on the site mate ?
english people piss me off.....
 
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