A m*** in training from high school has recently contacted me!

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I have recently been contacted via social media by a 40-year-old girl I knew in high school three kids with two different guys. Still looks good but has already hinted that she wants to hook up no trade skills whatsoever. Or degree in a loveless relationship all this develop within the last month or so. She was a major introvert in high school any advice from people who've been in this situation.?
 

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Not sure exactly what you said:

“she wants to hook up no trade skills whatsoever. Or degree in a loveless relationship all this develop within the last month or so.”

Can you rephrase this?
 

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Not sure exactly what you said:

“she wants to hook up no trade skills whatsoever. Or degree in a loveless relationship all this develop within the last month or so.”

Can you rephrase this?
She's from a middle class background no degree or trade bilingual. Pretty but cohabiting with another male.
 

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I have recently been contacted via social media by a 40-year-old girl I knew in high school three kids with two different guys. Still looks good but has already hinted that she wants to hook up no trade skills whatsoever. Or degree in a loveless relationship all this develop within the last month or so. She was a major introvert in high school any advice from people who've been in this situation.?
Hi Eli,
Please Elucidate for a Poor Old English Speaker,I am still confused as to whether you want to Fvuck this Bird or give her a Job?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Having hooked up with a few married women in my younger days, I'd be that last to criticize. However with age, it's not something I admit with any pride.

Apparently, it's not cool to openly admit when we hit a dry spell, but it happens to everyone (though few on this forum will openly admit it). If you've hit a dry patch, I can understand the temptation, but be careful. If she's not happy, she may be working on you as her "plan B." If you're caught (or it's revealed) you may have to deal with the man in her life.

If she wasn't some girl that you wanted from your high school days and/or you're not in a dry spell, I'd advise you to steer clear of this one.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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They are not married anymore her little sisters is in trouble health-wise. Great girl great body. She is definitely not going back to her man they are separated. She was married and thanks for the feedback
 

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Having hooked up with a few married women in my younger days, I'd be that last to criticize. However with age, it's not something I admit with any pride.

Apparently, it's not cool to openly admit when we hit a dry spell, but it happens to everyone (though few on this forum will openly admit it). If you've hit a dry patch, I can understand the temptation, but be careful. If she's not happy, she may be working on you as her "plan B." If you're caught (or it's revealed) you may have to deal with the man in her life.

If she wasn't some girl that you wanted from your high school days and/or you're not in a dry spell, I'd advise you to steer clear of this one.
Shes not married.
 
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