a lot of mistakes

[Nox]

There is this girl, her name is Mag, she used to be one of my best friend. Six months ago, I broke my pinky from playing flag football, and I stayed in the hospital overnight. She rushed to visit me at the hospital, and stayed with me over night. That is when I started to feel for her. I feel that I am in love with her.

I needed help, so I ask my friend what to do, and he told me to ignore her. I misinterpreted what he said. My friend didn’t mean to ignore her, but instead he meant to not show her that I like her, but to be there for her. That was the first mistake that I made, so Mag started to get mad at me. Another mistake I did was got drunk at a meeting, while she was there. She thought I was mad at her. Another mistake I made was that she knows I was jealous, because she was hanging around with another guy. She told my friend that I was being childish for getting mad and being jealous.

Now she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore, and she is ignoring me.

 

[DrD77]

i don't understand. i thought chicks liked a$$holes.

 

[SharinganUser]

1)Ummm... Why were you over-night at the hospital for a broken pinky?

2) What is your question?

 

[Mavrick]

To women who ignore me, I say forget 'em. I don't need 'em.

If you believe that you deserve better, and act congruently with that belief, others will see it and start treating you the way you want them to treat you.

You're sitting there thinking that you're screwing up, but she's the one ignoring you. Why aren't you thinking that she's the one that's screwing up? Well, because you hold her in higher regards than you hold for yourself. If she isn't going to treat you the way you would treat yourself, then you don't need her.

Stop thinking that she's so much better than you, dude. You aren't making mistakes, she is. Don't waste your time on this crap.

Good luck, bro!

 

[Nox]

I had to stay over-night because it was around 11pm, and they can't find any doctor who can fix the bone. It was not broken, but dislocated.

My question was how can I solve the problem with me and her.

I am trying to forget her, but then I have so much feeling for her. She used to be my best friend, and we had fun back then. Now I just feel angry and depressed. She doesn't know how much I really love her. She is not sure if I like her or not either.

Another problem I didn't mention is that if Mag goes away then our friend group will split too. They're great friends, and we won't be hanging around much if we both go our seperate ways.

There is also a camping trip all of us are planing to do in a week. She called my other friends about the camping information, when to meet up, what to bring, etc, and she told them to tell me instead of her telling me. I am so angry at her for that.

 

[JUAN the Great]

The same thing that the people on this forum say to " have a back up chick"; I say have back up friends. Always try to extend you social circles. People as they get older move on; so if you have a big social circle then you may be sad but you will not be devastated becuse you have a support system already set up.

 

[true romance]

Let cool down the situation. Do not apologize, speech..etc

She stay with you all night, you can send a thank you note.

Just plan your camping trip like nothing happen..Maybe you meet other girls there as well..

Go out and meet other women...Be a MAN

She will come back if you behave like man, adult. No jealousy..etc

You life and and your mood now depend on her. If you have a great life thsi should not happen.

the more you chase her the more you drive her away...Be cool