A jodie foster look alike alpha girl

[Suspens]

She showed some sort of IOIs (curiously looking at my direction, etc). Decided to approach her, got her number but during our conversation she gave some hints that she isn't attracted . He called me a young boy, that we can only be friends. I said oh yeah that's what I'm looking for, a simple friendship.


Called her 2 days later, no answer, texted her after a week, and she said she is 36, which seemed ridiculously unbelievable as she looked much younger to me. I thought she tried to blow me off indirectly, so I decided to delete her number. Thing is though I memorized her number and couldn't stop thinking about her.

I think she realized I want to play games and told herself "Damn this kid is trying to play games with me haha. Let me show him how it's really played:trouble: "

My next text was something like "36? nice. How many kids do you have?". Yeah I tried to be funny and joke about her supposed age. Guess what? she blocked my number and never answered my texts anymore.

I got emo and sent this text:

Who do you think you are? A hot model with a hot curvoeus body (she was skinny and short)? A rich princess? Some university professor? A sexy Cinderella? Neither! You are nothing so don't be that arrogant.

She took my number off her black list, however she ignored all of my further attempts. I turned AFC and begged her to answer my texts. Finally she replied to one of my begging texts and said " Have some self-respect, I have a BF, Don't text me again. Good luck" Stopped messaging her for a while. But again after a few months I got hysteric and texted her again:

Me: break up with your current BF and then be my own sweet girl.

Her: STFU, stalker, **** off.

Me: Haha, proof that you are attracted as well.

Her: **** off. If you text me again you will be talking to my BF.

Me: Is he going to scream at me and kick my ass, just like what you did?

And then she sent me a link to a psychotherapy clinic website and told me to get my head checked and find some friends.... The website was offline so i felt even more insulted and stupid, however I find her really funny and alpha-ish...

2 years on, still thinking about her. Asked her to turn off her phone and change her number since I can't get over her, no reply. Funny thing is I only saw her once and for a few minutes.

Your thoughts and judgments?

 

[Lolapo]

To be honest with you and telling you this with brolove,
Thats ****d up lol

 

[Suspens]

Take her advice and get some mental help.

Well her recommended website is still offline. Haha miss her sick sense of humor.


I encountered many hot girls after her who could be considered equally cute, and sexually much hotter. But this attraction is unexplainable and ironically it's not that sexual.

 

[Lolapo]

Well her recommended website is still offline. Haha miss her sick sense of humor.


I encountered many hot girls after her who could be considered equally cute, and sexually much hotter. But this attraction is unexplainable and ironically it's not that sexual.

Well your mind is making you think its unexplainable and it's letting you think she's somewhat special while she's not.
You've developed some weird form of oneitis i think.

She's not special, so drop it, it'll be for the best. It's all in your head and you have control.

 

[amoka]

She showed some sort of IOIs (curiously looking at my direction, etc). Decided to approach her, got her number but during our conversation she gave some hints that she isn't attracted . He called me a young boy, that we can only be friends. I said oh yeah that's what I'm looking for, a simple friendship.


Called her 2 days later, no answer, texted her after a week, and she said she is 36, which seemed ridiculously unbelievable as she looked much younger to me. I thought she tried to blow me off indirectly, so I decided to delete her number. Thing is though I memorized her number and couldn't stop thinking about her.

I think she realized I want to play games and told herself "Damn this kid is trying to play games with me haha. Let me show him how it's really played:trouble: "

My next text was something like "36? nice. How many kids do you have?". Yeah I tried to be funny and joke about her supposed age. Guess what? she blocked my number and never answered my texts anymore.

I got emo and sent this text:



She took my number off her black list, however she ignored all of my further attempts. I turned AFC and begged her to answer my texts. Finally she replied to one of my begging texts and said " Have some self-respect, I have a BF, Don't text me again. Good luck" Stopped messaging her for a while. But again after a few months I got hysteric and texted her again:



And then she sent me a link to a psychotherapy clinic website and told me to get my head checked and find some friends.... The website was offline so i felt even more insulted and stupid, however I find her really funny and alpha-ish...

2 years on, still thinking about her. Asked her to turn off her phone and change her number since I can't get over her, no reply. Funny thing is I only saw her once and for a few minutes.

Your thoughts and judgments?

One of the hilarious posts since DrBeard himself.

 

[Suspens]

@Lolapo: She IS actually special. However you are right, it's all a mentall process and I can('t) take control of it.

@amoka: His post was obviously a joke lol. Mine is related to a real life situation though, which makes me feel bad .

 

[Suspens]

Would like to know how she views my character? I think she immediately spotted the AFC boy, after our initial convo. However she also showed some signs of hatred against me.. why

 

[Suspens]

So if I initiate contact again, will it be considered as "Persistence"? "Wow, this guy is so persistent, I think he really loves me, he's been begging me for almost 2 years and hasn't given up yet" :cheer: :flowers:


Or does it demonstrate pure stupidity and lack of character? Leading into higher and more aggressive levels of action either from herself or her so-called BF?:moon: :trouble:

 

[sylvester the cat]

So if I initiate contact again, will it be considered as "Persistence"? "Wow, this guy is so persistent, I think he really loves me, he's been begging me for almost 2 years and hasn't given up yet" :cheer: :flowers:


Or does it demonstrate pure stupidity and lack of character? Leading into higher and more aggressive levels of action either from herself or her so-called BF?:moon: :trouble:

You are a good reason against gun ownership. Do you have aspergers by any chance?

 

[Suspens]

You took it out of context with your first statement.

Regarding Asperger , well after checking the symptoms, I may actually have it. So in her eyes it will be viewed as an Asperger syndrome instead of "Persistence and willpower"?

 

[Masculinity]

She showed some sort of IOIs (curiously looking at my direction, etc). Decided to approach her, got her number but during our conversation she gave some hints that she isn't attracted . He called me a young boy, that we can only be friends. I said oh yeah that's what I'm looking for, a simple friendship.


Called her 2 days later, no answer, texted her after a week, and she said she is 36, which seemed ridiculously unbelievable as she looked much younger to me. I thought she tried to blow me off indirectly, so I decided to delete her number. Thing is though I memorized her number and couldn't stop thinking about her.

I think she realized I want to play games and told herself "Damn this kid is trying to play games with me haha. Let me show him how it's really played:trouble: "

My next text was something like "36? nice. How many kids do you have?". Yeah I tried to be funny and joke about her supposed age. Guess what? she blocked my number and never answered my texts anymore.

I got emo and sent this text:



She took my number off her black list, however she ignored all of my further attempts. I turned AFC and begged her to answer my texts. Finally she replied to one of my begging texts and said " Have some self-respect, I have a BF, Don't text me again. Good luck" Stopped messaging her for a while. But again after a few months I got hysteric and texted her again:



And then she sent me a link to a psychotherapy clinic website and told me to get my head checked and find some friends.... The website was offline so i felt even more insulted and stupid, however I find her really funny and alpha-ish...

2 years on, still thinking about her. Asked her to turn off her phone and change her number since I can't get over her, no reply. Funny thing is I only saw her once and for a few minutes.

Your thoughts and judgments?

Something is off here, kid. Talk to a counselor.

 

[Suspens]

And you could point it out probably. I know you are not a counselor, but you can be more creative than the hoe mentioned in this topic who already gave this tip. In case you missed it:

And then she sent me a link to a psychotherapy clinic website and told me to get my head checked

 

[Masculinity]

And you could point it out probably. I know you are not a counselor, but you can be more creative than the hoe mentioned in this topic who already gave this tip. In case you missed it:

Attitude won't get you far in this forum. People--myself included--will just assume you're trolling or completely ignore your threads--just don't do it. Given that you're new to the forum, I think you deserve the benefit of the doubt. I think you're at a place of need, where you're willing to pursue any woman who shows the least interest for you, which is true of many men. You're now in a forum with very interpersonally skilled men, so the good news is you're on your way forward. I know this sounds harsh, but it's all coming from a place of a fellow man who wants other men to improve.

If you want specific advice, be humble and simply ask for help. A lot of the guys here, again, myself included, will respond to your answers in personal messages. That being said, I think this book would be a great investment for you: http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339

 

[sylvester the cat]

You took it out of context with your first statement.

Regarding Asperger , well after checking the symptoms, I may actually have it. So in her eyes it will be viewed as an Asperger syndrome instead of "Persistence and willpower"?

as most people have little understanding or care for other people's mental issues i'm afraid in her eyes you will be viewed as a grade 1 lunatic. not a good look.

 

[Who Dares Win]

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My next text was something like "36? nice. How many kids do you have?". Yeah I tried to be funny and joke about her supposed age. Guess what? she blocked my number and never answered my texts anymore.

Really after such great joke she blocked your number?

Maybe you can connect again to her age and ask about the effect of gravity on her ass and keep it simple and talk about her weight.

If she is 36 she probably lost her grandparents, what about a joke about going to the cemetery?

Not bashing you bro but we are not talking about bad game, we're talking about basic social skills lacking.

Best thing is to read the dj bible agan, despite being old and outdate it will can do wonder for you.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

This has got to be a troll. There's no way this dude is contacting her for 2 years after meeting her once and believes that he has a chance.

Suspens: never contact her again. Ever. You have no chance. It's okay - you made up a bunch of stuff about her. You don't know her at all. You are guessing and filling in details about her. You want her to be something that she's not. You need perspective. You need to meet other people and NEVER contact her again.

 

[Suspens]

Attitude won't get you far in this forum. People--myself included--will just assume you're trolling or completely ignore your threads--just don't do it. Given that you're new to the forum, I think you deserve the benefit of the doubt. I think you're at a place of need, where you're willing to pursue any woman who shows the least interest for you, which is true of many men. You're now in a forum with very interpersonally skilled men, so the good news is you're on your way forward. I know this sounds harsh, but it's all coming from a place of a fellow man who wants other men to improve.

If you want specific advice, be humble and simply ask for help. A lot of the guys here, again, myself included, will respond to your answers in personal messages. That being said, I think this book would be a great investment for you: http://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339

Registeration-Date Elitism and talking like some kind of a Pro DocLove and as if you're above everyone else, won't get you anywhere either.

I accept and honestly appreciate any harsh/blunt analysis of my situation. I was clearly asking for help and I'm deeply sorry if I didn't sound humble enough for you to consider a more serious response instead of a half-assed sentence which could be viewed as anything but helpful. You can't make fun of my mental disorder when you suffer from Egomania yourself. Thanks for the tip though.

There's no way this dude is contacting her for 2 years after meeting her once and believes that he has a chance.

I had a chance in the first week I think, I fvcked up though.

Not bashing you bro but we are not talking about bad game, we're talking about basic social skills lacking.

Nah np. As I said, I appreciate any advice or direct criticism of my mistakes and or wrong behaviors. That's why we registered on this forum, I guess.

I'm thinking about sending an apology text, because, let me be honest, I've sent some nasty texts in the past months.

BTW how do you guys view her character? Judging from the little interaction details I've posted here? I can say she has a really powerfull character and patient too

 

[Masculinity]

Registeration-Date Elitism and talking like some kind of a Pro DocLove and as if you're above everyone else, won't get you anywhere either.

I accept and honestly appreciate any harsh/blunt analysis of my situation. I was clearly asking for help and I'm deeply sorry if I didn't sound humble enough for you to consider a more serious response instead of a half-assed sentence which could be viewed as anything but helpful. You can't make fun of my mental disorder when you suffer from Egomania yourself. Thanks for the tip though.

Registration date is irrelevant to me. What caused me to write so little was the belief that you were a troll. Lastly, I am neither qualified to diagnose with someone with a disorder nor would I ever make fun of a person with a mental disorder. Again, I thought you were a troll.

I think you would have a good chance with other women. Have you done cold approaching before? What DJ literature are you familiar with? There are a couple of tips on this forum that would help you out a lot. This chick is at another place.

 

[:-)]

You're now in a forum with very interpersonally skilled men, so the good news is you're on your way forward.

who are these interpersonally skilled men? skinnyguy and dhoulmagus? maybe it's those old women arguing it out for 7 pages about whether or not to have boundaries?

 

[LiveYourDream]

Definition of stalker:
noun
a person who harasses someone with unwanted and obsessive attention.

Never text or call her again. She is not interested. There is no relationship except in YOUR mind. If you can't stop obsessing over her, get yourself some help. Your viewpoint is not healthy.

Regardless, it is healthier to focus your efforts on being with someone who wants to be with you, as well.

MAKE NO MISTAKE ---> ***SHE CLEARLY DOES NOT WANT TO BE WITH YOU!***

Drop the fantasy! That is all it is!