Ok, here's my ****ed up situation.
I started school two weeks ago and I've gotten to know so many people, it's amazing. The best year of my life so far. But in the past week, there's been a factor that disturbs this happiness.
Since I've adopted the DJ mentality this year, I've been talking to everyone without making fun of them, and basically respecting each and every new person that deserved respect (basically, didn't do anything to me). So now, when I walk in the hallways, girls keep waving at me, and I always give handshakes left and right. I just know people.
All this to say that there's this guy in ALL of my classes (the only person who follows me in all classes) that I kind of "chill" with, meaning that we disturb the peace together and just basically go crazy on people, joke around, etc. The problem is, he pushes it WAY too far, and he never knows where to draw the line. He's the kind of person that can't stay serious for five minutes. Think of ****y and funny, but pushed way beyond its limits. We all know there are times you have to be serious, but he doesn't.
If it was only dumb jokes or some **** like that, I wouldn't mind. The problem is, I find it very disturbing. This guy, to joke around at first, makes other guys pretend he's gay. He keeps walking around caressing asses, etc. And since I'm in all of his classes and he keeps choosing a seat that's close to mine, and his "gay" mode goes on.
Needless to say, it's hurting MY reputation. List of things that he does to me: dry humping my chair in computer class, caressing my shoulders in math class, grabbing my ass anywhere, etc.
Now, I don't take his ****, usually I just push him away or punch him lightly (even though I'm 130 and he's 175). I also cuss him out, call him names like "gay" or "faggot" or "wack". I try to do it in a friendly way so he gets the message to stop. The problem is, he DOESN'T.
At first, I thought it was a joke, but it kept getting worse. I'm seriously doubting this guy's sexuality now. So today, I just finally got fed up from him, and I cussed him out but a lot worse than usual, and pushed him away. But the guy came back in force, this time really using force. No, I didn't get raped or anything, but can you imagine the feeling and humiliation, getting your computer chair dry humped in front of a whole class and not being able to make it stop. Well, I just turned around and pushed the guy, like I said before, and then he came back and was menacing me, with things like "what are you gonna do, huh?". I just told him to **** off and gave him the cold shoulder since then, not answering to anything he had to say. I don't know if I would win a fight against him, we're the same height, just not the same weight, but he doesn't seem very strong.
What I was thinking, is that I would tell him on monday that his gay attitude is seriously pissing me off, and if he wants to act like that, he can do it elsewhere. I can't stand people that don't know how to draw the line. PLUS, with this faggot being in all of my classes, it affects my concentration. Imagine taking a Calculus course while feeling a man's hand caress your shoulders every now and then, and having to turn around to push it off every time. It's worse than not understanding at all.
Plus, since school started, we had to make teams in a couple of subjects and he always ends up being on my team (groups of 3 and 4). He also doesn't know many people at school so he keeps hanging around with me. I don't know how to tell this guy to back off and to let me do my thing, not follow me around and try to mack on girls I'm working on (he also does that!!!).
It's hard to kind of abandon someone after giving them the chance to be your friend, but I just really can't stand it anymore, it's some crazy ****. This guy really can't draw the line, he intimidates everyone in my classes (which is some sort of preparatory college, and I'm in a very enriched program, meaning that the people in it aren't really jocks and bad asses... if you get what I mean). It's affecting my repuation, being seen with a guy who intimidates everyone in a very bad way.
Any suggestions? I really don't want to get in a fight, and I don't want my reputation being affected by that supposed homo hanging with me. Women wouldn't want to know a guy who gets hit on by other guys, especially a guy that no one really likes or thinks much of.
A very desperate person.
I started school two weeks ago and I've gotten to know so many people, it's amazing. The best year of my life so far. But in the past week, there's been a factor that disturbs this happiness.
Since I've adopted the DJ mentality this year, I've been talking to everyone without making fun of them, and basically respecting each and every new person that deserved respect (basically, didn't do anything to me). So now, when I walk in the hallways, girls keep waving at me, and I always give handshakes left and right. I just know people.
All this to say that there's this guy in ALL of my classes (the only person who follows me in all classes) that I kind of "chill" with, meaning that we disturb the peace together and just basically go crazy on people, joke around, etc. The problem is, he pushes it WAY too far, and he never knows where to draw the line. He's the kind of person that can't stay serious for five minutes. Think of ****y and funny, but pushed way beyond its limits. We all know there are times you have to be serious, but he doesn't.
If it was only dumb jokes or some **** like that, I wouldn't mind. The problem is, I find it very disturbing. This guy, to joke around at first, makes other guys pretend he's gay. He keeps walking around caressing asses, etc. And since I'm in all of his classes and he keeps choosing a seat that's close to mine, and his "gay" mode goes on.
Needless to say, it's hurting MY reputation. List of things that he does to me: dry humping my chair in computer class, caressing my shoulders in math class, grabbing my ass anywhere, etc.
Now, I don't take his ****, usually I just push him away or punch him lightly (even though I'm 130 and he's 175). I also cuss him out, call him names like "gay" or "faggot" or "wack". I try to do it in a friendly way so he gets the message to stop. The problem is, he DOESN'T.
At first, I thought it was a joke, but it kept getting worse. I'm seriously doubting this guy's sexuality now. So today, I just finally got fed up from him, and I cussed him out but a lot worse than usual, and pushed him away. But the guy came back in force, this time really using force. No, I didn't get raped or anything, but can you imagine the feeling and humiliation, getting your computer chair dry humped in front of a whole class and not being able to make it stop. Well, I just turned around and pushed the guy, like I said before, and then he came back and was menacing me, with things like "what are you gonna do, huh?". I just told him to **** off and gave him the cold shoulder since then, not answering to anything he had to say. I don't know if I would win a fight against him, we're the same height, just not the same weight, but he doesn't seem very strong.
What I was thinking, is that I would tell him on monday that his gay attitude is seriously pissing me off, and if he wants to act like that, he can do it elsewhere. I can't stand people that don't know how to draw the line. PLUS, with this faggot being in all of my classes, it affects my concentration. Imagine taking a Calculus course while feeling a man's hand caress your shoulders every now and then, and having to turn around to push it off every time. It's worse than not understanding at all.
Plus, since school started, we had to make teams in a couple of subjects and he always ends up being on my team (groups of 3 and 4). He also doesn't know many people at school so he keeps hanging around with me. I don't know how to tell this guy to back off and to let me do my thing, not follow me around and try to mack on girls I'm working on (he also does that!!!).
It's hard to kind of abandon someone after giving them the chance to be your friend, but I just really can't stand it anymore, it's some crazy ****. This guy really can't draw the line, he intimidates everyone in my classes (which is some sort of preparatory college, and I'm in a very enriched program, meaning that the people in it aren't really jocks and bad asses... if you get what I mean). It's affecting my repuation, being seen with a guy who intimidates everyone in a very bad way.
Any suggestions? I really don't want to get in a fight, and I don't want my reputation being affected by that supposed homo hanging with me. Women wouldn't want to know a guy who gets hit on by other guys, especially a guy that no one really likes or thinks much of.
A very desperate person.
Plus, everyone will be cheering YOU on! Who like the homo? LOL