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[STR8UP]

I just got home from showing a couple of condos. Both women I showed them to were pretty hot.

Anyway, I'm standing there with this chick who is looking to rent my condo, she turns around and man, what an ASS. I wanted to bite it and slap it a couple of times, hehe.

So on the way home I started thnking, "Damn, I bust my ass working long hours which leaves me little time to meet women, yet here I am MEETING HOT WOMEN SEVERAL TIMES A WEEK!"

Then I started wondering if I should spit some game while I'm working. I mean, hell, I'm there showing condos to hot women who HAVE to talk to me, haha. Then I remember that every time I mix business with pleasure things don't turn out well.

I'm thinking about this on the way home. When I get there I check my email and see that there is something from a girl I showed a unit to yesterday.

Funny thing is, I recognized her email address when she first inquired about the condo. It turns out she is a model who had contacted me in the past about doing some work for my business! Hot hot HOT. I'm talking swimsuit calendar girl hot.

So she sends me this email

Hey STR8UP!
Still kinda thinking things over a bit.
I'll let you know when I come to any absolute decisions (provided you still have the place lol)...
It was good and funny to meet you yesterday-this city is so, so small.

I really really like the one bedroom but I want at least the stability of six months....
Anyways, I'll keep in touch.

Happy Holidays.
Sincerely,
Monica

Now I NEVER have anyone write me back unless they have a question or are ready to rent the place. I'm tempted to break my rule and follow back up with this chick, but my better judgment says "DON'T DO IT!!!"

I dunno.....it just sucks to meet all of these good looking women that I can't really pursue. Even got an email from a former Miss Florida about a month ago. Oh well, I suppose I'll have my life back one day.

 

[KontrollerX]

Haha poor Str8up.

Gotta follow the gut man.

It tells ya the truth while the c0ck just lies to ya.

Well maybe not lies but leads you down dangerous roads lmfao.

P.S: I want to badly tell you to persue this one but don't listen to me listen to your gut instinct lol.

 

[STR8UP]

Haha poor Str8up.

Gotta follow the gut man.

It tells ya the truth while the c0ck just lies to ya.

Well maybe not lies but leads you down dangerous roads lmfao.

P.S: I want to badly tell you to persue this one but don't listen to me listen to your gut instinct lol.

What I REALLY need to do is get her on board as one of my models. I am launching my new website and it's going to have profile pages for the girls who have worked with us. It will be a good way for the girls to get exposure and us to have content.

That's one of the reason why it's a bad idea to try to mack on these girls. I might be shooting myself in the foot business wise.

 

[Dongfu]

DOngfu would dong her - I always mix business with pleasure, often goes wrong, but in the end it was all worth it. plus I have a step in my book for handling this kind of situation.

 

[STR8UP]

Ohhh man.....I met up with ANOTHER little hottie tonight. Maybe 22 yrs old, pretty easy to tell she has no boyfriend. Physically my type of girl, seems to be somewhat soft spoken/shy/demure, very feminine. Hmmmm.....

I talked to my business partner about this and he was like "fukk it....take advantage of it".

I also emailed the model back. From the limited info I have I think she's breaking up with her b/f. Found her myspace page.....WOW. She says she's down for doing some modeling for me so I'm gonna set up a meeting and work it from there.

So, any suggestions on how to game chicks in this kind of situation?

I'm thinking that I might call and follow up to see if she made a decision about the condo and before I hang up say something like "Listen, I enjoyed talking to you the other day. You seem like an interesting person. How about meeting me for a drink Tuesday night?"

I really have nothing to lose by getting a little rapport going with these women and hitting them up a couple of days later if they don't lease from me. With my limited social time I might as well use it as an opportunity to drop a few lines in the water and see if I get any bites.

 

[grinder]

Quote:

“Hey STR8UP!
Still kinda thinking things over a bit.
I'll let you know when I come to any absolute decisions (provided you still have the place lol)...
It was good and funny to meet you yesterday-this city is so, so small.

I really really like the one bedroom but I want at least the stability of six months....
Anyways, I'll keep in touch.

Happy Holidays.
Sincerely,
Monica”

My take on this is its neutral and meaningless.

Your better judgment is right!! Leave it alone.

I think one of my very early posts was on mixing business with pleasure. I was oh so sure I could handle it but I couldn’t and it got messy. And 11 months later, she still dislikes me.

I understand that since your work is your life it makes sense to try to add some pleasure to it.

I would hate to see your work and your life go to hell at the same time.

 

[Gerard-890]

Str8up if I were you, I wouldn't mix business and romance, it never turns out greatly. You see, if she's going to be your employee or tenant she has to respect you and look up to you as such, or eventually her "shoes will come off so to speak" and the disrespect of your property and profession can come into play.

I just wouldn't do it, I work countless hours too but it takes a couple minutes to meet a new person, build rapport, and exchange numbers.

We should be busy, it's apart of being a Don Juan.

Just don't mix work with romance, you are headed for trouble and a potential lawsuit buddy.

 

[STR8UP]

I would never date an employee or a tenant. The models I work with.....that might be a different story. No boundaries there.

But the thing is, most of these women don't even end up renting from me. It's just a shame to meet two attractive women in one night and then go home and have no life cause you're so damn tired. If I met them under different circumstances i would be all over that, but instead I just watch them walk out the door and never see them again.

 

[Luveno]

You're obsessing too much over women you feel you cannot sleep with due to work-related boundaries.

My advice is to keep your boundaries and thus integrity, and game girls in the right environment - away from work.

$$$ >>>>>>>>> women

 

[joekerr31]

str8up, i want your address. im going to come down there and cuss you out. :cuss:

of course you can ask them out. as long as you are respectful of their answer and as long as you don't come on to heavy.

dude, life is WAY to short not to ask a woman you like out for coffee. what's going to happen if you ask her out? are you running the risk of a lawsuit? is the world going to end?

the only concern i can imagine is that she rents the apartment from you while dating you and tries to take advantage of you by not paying her rent to you or something. but as long as you don't go AFC, and you are beyond allow something like that to happen, i really don't see the issue.

just send her an email saying something like 'thanks for checking out the condo. on a completely unrelated note, i was wondering if you might like to get together sometime over coffee?"

the absolute worse thing that happens is she says 'thanks very much for the offer str8up. unfortuantely i'm going to have to pass.'

no skin off your back dude.

if you were feeling her, i say you should act on it.

 

[lookyoung]

STR8UP to me it just seems you meet alot of woman and for some reason you just don't bang them. There is always something in the way, sometype of an excuse. Like the Nike commercial says JUST DO IT. You tend to overanalyze things way too much.

So what you bang one of these girls you work with. What is the worst thing that can happen? Take a chance be a man.

Not meaning to flame just being honest with you.

 

[Gerard-890]

Str8up listen, I understand that you are very great and intelligent on the Real Estate side of things and in that industry (I can tell you about stocks, I svck at Real Estate lol).

But when it's "making money" time, please do not bring your penis to the table, it will ONLY get you stirred in the wrong direction. Keep your "making money" hat on and when you are away from the office put on your "penis hat" then.

Trust me.

There are thousands of beautiful women in your area and you are a Don Juan, okay so just because two hot chicks came into your profession at the office doesn't mean you need to snatch them up.

8 to 7 is "making money time" 8 to 12 is "women getting time."

I know you know this, but I honestly think you aren't giving yourself any personal "women getting time" and you are bringing those issues into the office. Allow yourself a Saturday or a Sunday and a couple nights of the week to go and just be with women. Don't leave your work ethic, but don't deprive yourself of women either. Women are great people to be around, they make you feel great, give yourself time to meet with them but NOT ones you met at work and NOT on the job itself. That's just not professional at all, no matter if you bang them or not, Donald Trump doesn't bang his tenants why would you?

 

[Mr. Me]

I think instead of asking them out, you do business first. Making an income comes first. If you come on to them while engaged in business, I think the problem is that they're there for business, and if you're there for macking on them during business, then they may get spooked thinking you're some lecherous guy, you know what I'm saying? In that case you stand a chance of losing them as both dates and as models/customers. Last thing you need is one gal getting freaked and spreading the word that you come on to all the female customers.

Instead, I think you're missing an even better opportunity to increase rapport with them because on the business side of things you can create more opportunities for contact. "Hey, I've got another condo opening up I think you'd be interested in" and going for coffee to discuss what they liked or didn't like in the condo you just showed them are two ways I could think of to get some time in. Even with the model you can tell her you want to go over some ideas over a cup of coffee. Just stick to business.

After they buy, and after she models, and after you've established this foothold with them, then maybe a "hey, let's have a drink" or "let's grab a bite" would seem a more natural progression? After all, that's how office romances blossom, from the continued contact the two people have sharing time working together.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

When I bought my condo I had to get the real estate agents number and then we would just text each other. I'd say something like "you wanna come check out my new place?" She'd respond "ok for sure" then I never called her again. Definitely could have made love to her though.