A good question for the 40 and over crowd.

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At my age right now...

For an LTR, I wouldn't go lower than 25.

For fun and sexual satisfaction, I could go as low as 21.
 

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No, look at Bruce Willis, Jude Law, etc. They are successful actors and they probably have no problem dating hot young women.

You guys put too much importance on hair, I'm 37 I still have my hair but my hairline is receiding and it's quite visible, I date a 19yo Slovakian model.
Of course I fear baldness, but I think that even bald, with my swag and mouth piece I would still attract hot girls. I'm 6.2 though, height is more important than hair in my opinion, especially if you date tall girls like I do (5.8-5.11).
I asked a friend of mine what he would do if he was balding. He said: ‘Buy hair. Or a gun.’
 

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She dumped you cause you were not her best option, crazy that a guy with experience like you didn't recognize that and believed whatever bull$hit she told you.
So you were there in the room when she broke up with right? you know what led up to the fight?
SMH I ain't even gotta explain you weren't there so you don't know what the **** you talking about
 

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No need to get defensive bro, do you really think a girl would breake up with Brad Pritt cause he supports Trump? Come on man!
If you live in a red state I understand where you might think that, but if you’re in a purple or blue state it’s quite likely.

Here in Californistan women often even state up front that if you support <insert politician’s name> they want nothing to do with you.

It’s real. The Brad comparison is ridiculous no one here has anywhere near his social proof.
 

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Do you really think a girl would breake up with Brad Pritt cause he supports Trump? Come on man!
I think a girl would boink Brad, but if he supports Trump and she doesn't, she'll most likely not be interested in an LTR.
 

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If you live in a red state I understand where you might think that, but if you’re in a purple or blue state it’s quite likely.

Here in Californistan women often even state up front that if you support <insert politician’s name> they want nothing to do with you.

It’s real. The Brad comparison is ridiculous no one here has anywhere near his social proof.
I’ve found women tend to make exceptions to their rules when they want to.
 

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Older men want companionship and conversation with older women.

Older men always want sex and babies with younger women.
 

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Older men want companionship and conversation with older women.

Older men always want sex and babies with younger women.
Corrected from experience. Now stop telling people about stuff you know nothing about. You're not old enough to speak for older men.
 

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No need to get defensive bro, do you really think a girl would breake up with Brad Pritt cause he supports Trump? Come on man!
Brad Pitt is 60 years old now, that cliche is played out now, maybe 20 years ago sure but now? Gen-Z chicks ain't checking for Brad Pitt like that
 

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Dating a 46 year old at 56 as one of my plates. Granted against the odds at my age but I’ll take it.
 

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Dating a 46 year old at 56 as one of my plates. Granted against the odds at my age but I’ll take it.
Not against the odds for someone who still has it. Good work.
 

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Corrected from experience. Now stop telling people about stuff you know nothing about. You're not old enough to speak for older men.
I am speaking from experience too. Alot of projections and assumptions in these threads. Our politicians have taught us well.

I guess some 50 something year old men like yourself want to travel the world with women who just turned 18. Guess you can talk about all new pop groups and be a Swiftie!

Correction: Older men who don’t have kids and want kids don’t want them with 46 year menopausal women: They prefer to have them with younger women.
 

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From my own personal limited experience I have much more in common with women around my own age.
Younger women are usually more youthful and attractive depending on genetics (but not always) but are much more annoying and less things in common.
I would sleep with much younger women in a heartbeat but would not consider them relationship material unless they are at least 40 (I’m 56).
 

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One downside with older women I have noticed is that the sh*t tests and level of delusion about their own s*xual market value is off the charts.
I think it’s a consequence of the simp and male thirst epidemic.
The 58 year old I am dating had a guy of 43 chasing her before me.
 

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The 58 year old is very attractive for her age but any guy chasing a woman 15 years older than him and close to her 60s reeks of desperation in my books. Sorry if I offend anyone on here.
 

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When I was 38 I started dating/banging a 21 year old.

At 43 I banged/dated (moreso banged) a 22 year old.

I'm with a girl now but in my late 40s. There's a 21 year old I know who constantly flirts with me when she sees me.

It's a tough life but I keep going. To answer the question, cutoff is whatever the adult age is. If she can vote she can decide if she likes me or not.
 

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