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Bluntmaster said:
I think sometimes guys take the ****y and funny too far, me included.

One time I was out with this girl I really liked, and instead of being real with her, I just stayed ****y and funny like I didn't give a damn.

It doesn't work that way. Then she was out hopping on other d!cks because I was never real with her.

I won't make the same mistake twice.
Great job buddy, remember to listen her very carefully on the date and reassure her that you dont want sex.

That's really what turns a girl on, as 305 he knows it all.
 

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I think sometimes guys take the ****y and funny too far, me included.

One time I was out with this girl I really liked, and instead of being real with her, I just stayed ****y and funny like I didn't give a damn.
I think you've made an astute observation. The whole ****y and funny thing can often come off as incredibly lame, and fake. I know David DeAngelo pushes this C&F thing to the hilt, but can you honestly tell me you don't think he comes across as a douchebag?

C&F strikes me as something that can work if it is congruent with your personality, or as something that can improve your game if you are very young and/or socially retarded to begin with. Otherwise, it is far better to "be real" as you say. That is the better strategy.

I take the mindset that women like to be teased, and I like to tease them. Sometimes this teasing might take the form of what could be considered a ****y and/or funny remark. If it does, fine, if it doesn't, I could care less.
 
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