peel slowly
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...from the male variety.
First of all, I'm in a great relationship and have been for almost four years. We'll call my lovely lover "Joe." Joe has a good friend that I've been talking to for the last few weeks-turned-into-months. He's always been nice to talk to; he's funny and seemed very small-town good, Christian guy.
Recently, however, he's been telling me some weird stuff about how he's beginning to love me and want me. Not only is it rude since I'm with his friend, but it is also strange because, despite how much we talk, he doesn't know me very well. This only got worse when I found out that he has a bit of a stalking record. A few years ago he fell in "love" with someone over the internet and they got close. He began talking to her on the phone, but when she told him she'd met someone special, he completely lost it. He started calling her almost every hour, leaving threats to cut her and her boyfriend's throats.
So, basically, my question is: how exactly do I distance myself without 1.) setting him off, and 2.) keeping everything smooth with all parties involved?
First of all, I'm in a great relationship and have been for almost four years. We'll call my lovely lover "Joe." Joe has a good friend that I've been talking to for the last few weeks-turned-into-months. He's always been nice to talk to; he's funny and seemed very small-town good, Christian guy.
Recently, however, he's been telling me some weird stuff about how he's beginning to love me and want me. Not only is it rude since I'm with his friend, but it is also strange because, despite how much we talk, he doesn't know me very well. This only got worse when I found out that he has a bit of a stalking record. A few years ago he fell in "love" with someone over the internet and they got close. He began talking to her on the phone, but when she told him she'd met someone special, he completely lost it. He started calling her almost every hour, leaving threats to cut her and her boyfriend's throats.
So, basically, my question is: how exactly do I distance myself without 1.) setting him off, and 2.) keeping everything smooth with all parties involved?