Wow! There are a lot of sensitive people on here. I'm not trying to step on anyone's toes...
First thing first, KarmaSutra, nope I'm not, nor have I ever been an A student in grammer and I didn't know I was claiming to be, so sorry my incorrect usage of words and run-on sentences like this one offended you.
Back to my original question, I will give anyone advice if they would like. If you don't want advice from a woman's POV, that's fine too. I'm not pushing my opinion or "evil femininity" (<---not sure if that's spelled right KarmaSutra...)on anyone.
A few of you have already messaged me and I believe that will work out better. So, if anyone would like to ask me questions that way, go right ahead, I'll listen and help if I can. This thread seems to be tainted with people who already don't like me. I'm not looking for respect, if you want to be disrespectful towards me, go ahead. I will still sleep tonight one way or the other.