servo1234567
Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 23, 2004
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- Age
- 38
Let me start out saying that I love this girl with everything I have. She means the world to me. I've messed up thousands of times. Here's the problem: Me and Sherry started going out a year ago. We were happy and then this summer she wanted to break up. She wants to be free. she doesn't want to be tied down. I didn't like this and several times I convinced her to do otherwise. Then, in August, she does it. I've devastated but the thing is nothing changes. We still hang out, kiss, and do other things together. Now this school year, we started out and we were on a rocky road. I've tried to help things out (buying things, doing little extras )but it just keeps getting worse it seems. Enter my friend, James. I try to get her to talk to him because he's my friend and she doesn't like me being around him. Then he starts liking her. And at times I see them talking. Until last month, I find out it's really over between us. She's not with James or with me. She says she wants to be friends with both of us. She seems more interested in him(this sucks). She actually told me today it was because he was something different. He was something new. Now, I like the dude but that's my chick. I haven't been really strong or anything about it. I kinda let it happen. My mistake. I didn't think it would happen. I don't know what to do. How do I get her attention back? She still calls, we still go places together and I go to her house, but it's feeling really friendly. Kissing is a little peck on the lips when I leave her house. She's now going to places with him though. She's went to his house and I know she's kissed him. We got so upset with each other(me and James) that we were about to fight. Today we talked in the first time in weeks. I've been with her through everything. Her father is a mean guy. I've always heard what she had to say about everything he has done to her. Nothing physical or anything. Just really hurt her emotionally. I've made some mistakes of hurting her too and that's when she goes to James. When they were going to leave her dad I was going to help them move. I've always been with her through good and bad. What do I do to get her attention back? James doesn't matter. I like him but all's fair in love and war. I love this girl to death and it's killing me seeing her with him. I think I've been working the wrong way. I bought her some things. I've been really emotional and even cried a few times. Please, guys, help me out. I don't know what I'm going to have to do but I want to know. She really is an amazing girl and I want to know her again.