A ? for IQQI

[Metro3pilot]

Hey Iqqi,

If I may ask a few questions and get the female perspective, fellas feel free to chime in if you want :

Why do women mention other guys ?

Do you really think Attention Ho's exisit ?

Why do women play hard to get or do they ?

hmmmm awaiting you view ! !

:rockon:

 

[iqqi]

Hey Iqqi,

If I may ask a few questions and get the female perspective, fellas feel free to chime in if you want :

Why do women mention other guys ?

1. They want to make you jealous
2. They want to see if you care
3. They had a DUH moment

Depends on the situation, but its normally one of those three.

Do you really think Attention Ho's exisit ?

Definately. In both the female and male "species".

Why do women play hard to get or do they ?

To create value. To sustain mystery. To keep up the dance. Also, It is the female equivalent of push/pull.

 

[Metro3pilot]

The jealousy thing I don't get ...it just pisses me off and if it's meant to bring me closer it has the opposite effect ...........

As far as attention Ho's go ..

I just don't get it because if I'm not attracted to someone, I am not flattered by their attention ..... if sixteen people call me and only 1, I want to talk to that's 15 people I have to send to voice mail and that's a pain in the ass
..maybe it's just me

Hard to get .... or not to get ..kinda of a confusing game .....

so let me ask you this .... are you guilty of playing this game yourself ?

what kind of things did you do ? and what would have been an effective defense to your game to get it to stop ?

:rockon:

 

[Phyzzle]

I just don't get it because if I'm not attracted to someone, I am not flattered by their attention ..... if sixteen people call me and only 1, I want to talk to that's 15 people I have to send to voice mail and that's a pain in the ass
..maybe it's just me

Yeah, AW's are more common among the female gender, but there are definitely extrovert guys. We can't all be the strong, silent type.

 

[Play the Game]

Yes, please explain how to get around this "hard to get" game.

I've been at a WWI-style-trench-warfare-deadlock with so many women because of this.

The saddest part is, they talk about how hot i am behind my back... and i actually would go out with a majority of them if they didn't put

up this mask around me like it doesn't phase them.. much like the AFCs do on this board to try and game HB 10s.

They act so robotic and asexual. Like one girl made out with me but wouldn't even say that she liked me or anything.... very strange.

I almost had to force it out of her and at that point it was pretty obvious that she had some hidden agenda.

Don't even want to deal with her anymore because i know she's just an actress in her soft-core movie and i'm the chump who's supposed to fall for her.

 

[STR8UP]

As far as attention Ho's go ..

I just don't get it because if I'm not attracted to someone, I am not flattered by their attention ..... if sixteen people call me and only 1, I want to talk to that's 15 people I have to send to voice mail and that's a pain in the ass
..maybe it's just me

You underestimate the baseline need that all women have for attention and validation.

Take a typical woman, add in a dose of extroversion, and top it off with a some insecurity, and there ya go....an attention wh0re.

I have been friends with one for 8 or so years. It has become a case study for me to analyze her behavior in different situations.

Last weekend she called me up, wanted to stop by my condo and asked me to join her and some friends downtown. Turns out that night some guy she was seeing wasn't returning her calls, etc.

She KNOWS I am seeing one of her best friends. Ever since I hooked up with her friend she has been a little different around me than she usually is. Less touchy feely/flirty stuff in particular.

Well that night it all came back. She even amped it up a bit. She turned on the flirtatious behavior before we left my place. And she carried it on through the night. Pinching my nipples, grabbing my d!ck (and making a big deal of it all).

If this was a random chick off the street and I didn't know who I was dealing with my d!ck would have been standing at attention in anticipation of laying some pipe at the end of the night. But i know her by now, and I know it's all an act to prop up her fragile ego.

I was just like "yea, yea, you got dissed and you need some male attention....I'll play along" and pretty much just smiled and played back with her for the rest of the night.

Basically, an attention wh0re is a caricature of a woman. All of her characteristics are exaggerated. She has a greater need to feel "wanted".

You just have to learn to recognize them for what they are and make sure you don't fall into their trap.

 

[Fuglydude]

I don't personally understand what's "bad" or "offensive" about women talking about other guys. Me and my girl talk about other people we've been with...I think a person's past shapes who they are today, so what's wrong with talking about other guys that she's been with?

I've been with considerably more women than she has with guys...and I know it bothers her a little when I talk about them. I've asked her about it, and she says its ok because she knows I don't bring up other chics to make her jealous or anything like that.

Seriously...what's up with guys being jealous???? Accept that she's been with other guys in the past...it happened and its not gonna go away just by not talking about it. She's with you now, and if you're the kinda guy that women are naturally attracted to then you have nothing to worry about because she'll stay with you...if she doesn't you won't really have any real issues meeting other women to replace her. I don't get why guys and people in general are so jealous. Its like if you're jealous and insecure with yourself identify areas of your life that you're not happy with and do the best you can to improve yourself. To me that's what this site is all about: self improvement.

Sorry about the rant.

 

[Last Man Standing]

WOW!! Str8up, use the word "hor" twice in one post! I thought there was no such thing as a hor, according to you? Surely they are not hors because they want attention?

 

[ketostix]

1. They want to make you jealous Why?
2. They want to see if you care Why? You care then what?
3. They had a DUH moment

Depends on the situation, but its normally one of those three.




Definately. In both the female and male "species". hghggh
No it's predominately a female phenomenon



To create value. To sustain mystery. To keep up the dance. Also, It is the female equivalent of push/pull.

Most men do the same to raise the woman's interest level and because being direct and honest doesn't work. It just gets annoying when women do it incessantly, and doesn't really raise a man's interest level in her

 

[squirrels]

Don't feed the trolls.

 

[mrRuckus]

The jealousy thing I don't get ...it just pisses me off and if it's meant to bring me closer it has the opposite effect ...........

Haha, it turns into an arms race

or

I realize what she's doing and just ignore it but then she takes it as "he's not into me since he didn't get worked up" and then she loses interest in trying for me since she thinks she lost.

Depends on her initial self esteem level and how awesome she thinks i am.

once again women fvck themselves over

 

[STR8UP]

WOW!! Str8up, use the word "hor" twice in one post! I thought there was no such thing as a hor, according to you? Surely they are not hors because they want attention?

They are all "hors" in the sense that they aren't the innocent little bunny rabbits guys make them out to be, even the "innocent" ones. And none of them are "hors" because if they are all that way there can be no distinction. I don't judge, I don't try to draw the line with how many sex partners is too many, blah, blah, I simply accept them for what they are and live my life accordingly.

 

[Interceptor]

If men only knew how deeply insecure and unconfident many women are deep inside they would be flabbergasted,
If only men knew how BADLY women want to be approached, they would be shocked.
If only Men knew how hungry Women are for a real, strong masculine men , they wouldn't believe it.
If only men knew how frustrated Women are at seeing guys act like scared little boys and chumps who clearly don't "get it", they would be amazed.
If men only knew how women don't really care for flowers, but instead want you to nail them into the wall and make them moan with pleasure, their jaw would drop to the floor........


Every action you see from women is in some way rooted in insecurity.
And in some way, their need for you to make them "feel like a woman."


Why do you think women desire so badly a mature masculine man with bullet resistant emotional strength???!

So the men can stop the self destruction of the woman, the relationship, and her man.............


Take her where she needs to go, fellas.

You have NO IDEA just how badly women want you.

You have no idea, gentlemen.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Take a typical woman, add in a dose of extroversion, and top it off with a some insecurity, and there ya go....an attention wh0re.

Poetry.

:rock:

 

[STR8UP]

If men only knew how deeply insecure and unconfident many women are deep inside they would be flabbergasted,
If only men knew how BADLY women want to be approached, they would be shocked.
If only Men knew how hungry Women are for a real, strong masculine men , they wouldn't believe it.
If only men knew how frustrated Women are at seeing guys act like scared little boys and chumps who clearly don't "get it", they would be amazed.
If men only knew how women don't really care for flowers, but instead want you to nail them into the wall and make them moan with pleasure, their jaw would drop to the floor........

Why do you think women desire so badly a mature masculine man with bullet resistant emotional strength???!

So the men can stop the self destruction of the woman, the relationship, and her man.............


Take her where she needs to go, fellas.

You have NO IDEA just how badly women want you.

You have no idea, gentlemen.

Reminds me of that quote that goes something like "If men knew what women think they would be 20 times more bold"

Excellent insight.

 

[STR8UP]

Poetry.

:rock:

I have a Phd in AW's.

You have to meet my friend one day and you will understand why

 

[John-467]

Intecerptor said this,

"If only men knew how frustrated Women are at seeing guys act like scared little boys and chumps who clearly don't "get it", they would be amazed.
If men only knew how women don't really care for flowers, but instead want you to nail them into the wall and make them moan with pleasure, their jaw would drop to the floor........You have NO IDEA just how badly women want you.....You have no idea, gentlemen."

No they don't, lol. But the reason they don't is because MEN have turned the ENTIRE altercation with women to:

>> scientific projects

>> mass researches

>> calcuation and tricks and gimmicks

I get up here and tell a guy lol, to just relax, give the woman an enjoyable experience mind, body, and soul....and I get ALLLL of these 30 plus year old guys who have been POSTING HERE FOR YEARS....flaming me lol?

See the thing is, WHAT I SAID, is SIMPLE....not scientific, not based on mass research, not based on some biogolical based calculation......it's just some simple and stupid shyt like: FVCK THE WOMAN'S MIND, BODY, AND SOUL like NO ONE has done before.

That takes skill
That takes talent
That takes work

My point is that if these guys would FOCUS on improving THESE SKILLS, they won't HAVEEEE any problems with women.

But it's the guys like keno, Str8up (and I have no idea what's Str8up's problem, hell I thought we were cool ) these guys try and BEAT IT into these guys head that:

> women will choose guys based on their abilities to PROVIDE

The FACT is that's just NOT TRUE, but no I don't have any BIOLOGICAL/scientific information to BACK UP THAT STATEMENT, hell you don't need it.....just go and look out in the real world.

Most of the guys here KNOW TONS OF HOT CHICKS who are hooked up with guys who have NO ABILITY TO PROVIDE SHYT...so to get up here and say MOST WOMEN look for guys like that, is just WRONG.

Again, lol, I'm not trying to step on anybody's "Sosuave Fame" lol, it's just if your not right you are just not right.

LMAO.

 

[iqqi]

I have a Phd in AW's.

You should've studied something else.

 

[Interceptor]

Good post, johhny.

:rockon:

 

[Interceptor]

John, I will bring up that in Str8ups's case, he has often stated that he posts to help him think things through, and help him organize his views.
We all pretty much collaborate and add our own insght as well.
It does often come off as overly cerebral, but it's kind of like a man's Think Tank, in a way.
We're trying to figure things out here. It IS a forum, after all.
We're talking thinsg over, that's all. At least thats the way I see it.

I wouldn't get oo uptight about it, or defensive, john.

But , yeah, man..you DO have a point when people get overly analytical.

If more men would just put their Ego aside and just interact with women, and observe things in person more often a lot of guys would have more stuff figured out.

Keep doing what you're doing, johnny. but please remember ,were all in the same boat. If youre gonna help, then do so, if youre gonna flame, dont do it to your brothers in arms, john.
Be cool.

Keep rockin, dudes:rockon: