A fish is pulling on my line....HELP

[WhatdoyoumeanAIDS]

Brothers,
I need your help with this. I'm 23, in my final year of college. Broke up with my 3 year gf, and have just been busy 24/7 working on my career. It's been two long months of no action ever since.

Skip to 6 nights ago. I was studying in the library when the fire alarm went off, and all 1,000 of us were forced out into the cold at night. Out of nowhere, I noticed this gorgeous 10/10 from one of my classes freezing outside, and I just struck up a random conversation. I wasn't trying to hit on her, I just wanted to talk to her about the test we had next day and had been cramming for.

She was nervous as hell about the test, but very relaxed with me. Whenever she laughed she would grab my arm teasingly. I could tell she was obviously interested. So as the conversation was almost over, I said "Ok I've gotta go eat and study," and then she asked me if I wanted to go get a quick dinner with her before, and ever since then we just stuck together. We talked all night that night until 1 AM, and the next day before the test.

She randomly called me yesterday to ask about one of her classes and ask a BS question just to talk to me, but of course I acted like a nervous retard and just answered her question. (Yea make fun of me all you want, I'm rusty as hell).

Then today I was studying with a friend in the library, and she came over and pushed me on the shoulder and laughed and kept walking away.

Question: How do I take this to the next level? I want to play off of this good vibe we have going, and find subtle ways of asking her to hang out for BS things and make her think she's the one going after me. What are ways in which I can spend more time with her, without outright saying "What is your # come on this date with me" (I would never say that, and also, she asked me for my # on the first day we met)

the easy ones that come to mind are: getting food next time we're studying, getting coffee, getting BS crap like that.

Help!!!

PS: (I've had 9 gf's before, so not completely new, it's just I've been with the last girl for the last 3 years and so rusty it's not even funny)

 

[Tovansky]

hey man, let me guess a bit. You must be pretty good looking or physically attractive. I mean, your gf is HB9 and now this HB10 (assuming that your story is accurate) is also interested in you.

Basically, shape up, be chill, and ask for her number (if you haven't). Strike BS convo if you want since it doesn't matter, but make it fun and interesting. Yea, you can have lunch or dinner or whatever with her. She could ask you to have dinner with her before studying and you can do the same right?

something like this:
you: (afternoon, in library, spotting her) hey wassup
HB10: hey...

bla bla bla convo convo laugh laugh kino kino

you: I am hungry now. Let's get some lunch (assumed sale, don't ask, assume that she would agree, don't give her an option to reject it).
HB10: oh sure, where? (I am 99% sure she would respond yes).

This is already easy man. just be confident, chill, be fun, and you will get her

 

[blueline]

I would've ****ed her by now, ahaha.

 

[WhatdoyoumeanAIDS]

I would've ****ed her by now, ahaha.

you probably would have; show me your tricks gypsy.


tovansky: eh I'm pretty average, which is why I'm surprised she's so into me for some reason. Maybe I'm misinterpreting her signals, although she seems very flirty, and very fine.

 

[ARrocket]

You need to move faster. She's gonna lose interest if you keep stalling like this. Getting lunch with her isn't gonna get you too far...you ALREADY have her interested. What's lunch gonna do? Make her more interested? No, it's not.

You have her number, since she called you. So, use it! Get her over to your place. There are multiple ways to do this...you could have her come over to study instead of going to the library! You could invite her over after studying ("hey, wanna watch this movie I have?"). Before studying. You could just invite her over (movie, Mario Kart, etc). The thing is, you need to isolate, and you need to escalate. She's into you, you're into her, it can only go downhill if you wait. Strike while the iron is hot.

 

[Falcon25]

Ask her for drinks. Then kiss her. Then take her back to your place. Put the condom on. Perform. Pee after sex. Go to sleep. Go to class. Repeat.


Anything else I can help you with?

 

[WhatdoyoumeanAIDS]

You need to move faster. She's gonna lose interest if you keep stalling like this. Getting lunch with her isn't gonna get you too far...you ALREADY have her interested. What's lunch gonna do? Make her more interested? No, it's not.

You have her number, since she called you. So, use it! Get her over to your place. There are multiple ways to do this...you could have her come over to study instead of going to the library! You could invite her over after studying ("hey, wanna watch this movie I have?"). Before studying. You could just invite her over (movie, Mario Kart, etc). The thing is, you need to isolate, and you need to escalate. She's into you, you're into her, it can only go downhill if you wait. Strike while the iron is hot.

yesss, this is gold. I will come back with good news.

 

[Masculinity]

Brothers,
Out of nowhere, I noticed this gorgeous 10/10 from one of my classes freezing outside, and I just struck up a random conversation.

-She was nervous as hell about the test, but very relaxed with me.
-Whenever she laughed she would grab my arm teasingly.
-I could tell she was obviously interested.
-So as the conversation was almost over, I said "Ok I've gotta go eat and study," and then she asked me if I wanted to go get a quick dinner with her before, and ever since then we just stuck together.
-We talked all night that night until 1 AM, and the next day before the test.
-She randomly called me yesterday to ask about one of her classes and ask a BS question just to talk to me.
-Today I was studying with a friend in the library, and she came over and pushed me on the shoulder and laughed and kept walking away.
-Also, she asked me for my # on the first day we met)

Duuude, the words above came directly from you - agree?
I edited the text a little to enhance my point, but I didn't change any words.
I want to make sure you see this so I'm gonna put it in red AND bold:She gave you EIGHT signs of clear interest; these signals resemble 80 traffic lights giving you the green signal!!! In man words: she is interested in you and she's suuure showing it. At this point, it is completely your fault if she loses interest.

What else do you freaking want??? For her to come to your room and get herself naked and then get you naked and ask you to do her?!?! C'mon man, don't make me come and slap you, brother haha. You are digging yourself a hole if you aren't already escalating by doing 2 steps forward and one step back. Dimes(hb10's) are in extremely high demand. If you doubt yourself, as little as it may be, next thing you know she'll be running away.

Do not come back to this thread unless it is to tell us a success story!
*manly butt smack* Go get her now.

 

[WhatdoyoumeanAIDS]

good things coming, ill keep you posted

 

[Tovansky]

hahaha.. you heard all the men here. basically, step your game up. She is interested, you are too! Be interesting, BE FUN, be the man. Just do it! I like the studying in your place idea. Then go to bar, to drink (better than convo on a lunch in McD I guess) and go for it!

 

[WhatdoyoumeanAIDS]

thanks guys. As I write this, I'm just walking back to my place after I ****ed the **** out of her last night, 3 or 4 times. I went with ARocket's idea of watching a movie together. At first she said no (which she literally told me later she just wanted to see how I would react), but I was relentless in wanting to **** her. I made it pretty clear what I was after (we had serious mutual kino all week), and then stopped responding to her calls for a bit (to make her think '****, I almost hooked up with this guy',) and lo and behold I called it when midnight came around and she wanted me to come over.

I don't think there's a better feeling than getting with a HB10 you've had your eye on for a while, but never had the guts to talk to or cold approach. Such a nice feeling, I don't care if anything happens after this, just so nice to **** her once. Cloud 9 or something hahahah.

So thanks guys, I wouldn't of hooked up with her if it wasn't for you. ROund of beers on me.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

Man, I can't remember how many times I ran this little number in college.

The interest is there, but cavemanning is hit or miss, especially in a spot like this. So don't try a "let's go screw" approach, more often than not that dog ain't gonna hunt.

This is where you get together on the verbal pretense of studying, but you both know what's going down. As long as you don't come out and say it, she gets to pretend like it "just happened".

Edit: Ahh, I see I spoke too soon.

 

[Masculinity]

As I write this, I'm just walking back to my place after I ****ed the **** out of her last night, 3 or 4 times.

I don't think there's a better feeling than getting with a HB10 you've had your eye on for a while, but never had the guts to talk to or cold approach. Such a nice feeling, I don't care if anything happens after this, just so nice to **** her once. Cloud 9 or something hahahah.

So thanks guys, I wouldn't of hooked up with her if it wasn't for you. ROund of beers on me.

:cheer: :crazy: Woohoo!!! You are the MAN for getting that hb10. It must be as sweet as licking honey off a beehive in which the bees are your friends. Was she what you expected from a hb10 - wild?

At first she said no (which she literally told me later she just wanted to see how I would react), but I was relentless in wanting to **** her. I made it pretty clear what I was after (we had serious mutual kino all week), and then stopped responding to her calls for a bit (to make her think '****, I almost hooked up with this guy',) and lo and behold I called it when midnight came around and she wanted me to come over.

Okay so now that you got the chick and all of her curves, it's time to brake it down and explain to us in detail how you made it happen. After all, we are here to learn from each other; we may know things you have no clue about and vise versa. I'm all ears!

 

[WhatdoyoumeanAIDS]

Was she what you expected from a hb10 - wild?
!

u bet! she was a total freak, I can't even begin to explain....

....she's literally texting me right now as I type this to hang out tonight lmao

So basically, we had been bumping into each other all throughout the week, and everytime I did she was really excited to see me and would touch my arm etc. Before that, I had been pretty smooth in light kino, then escalating more kino, and left her really reacting to me and wanting to do it back.(keep in mind she had just been a total stranger a few days back). I cut things off early here after talking to her for maybe 5 min and told her maybe I'd see her around (during break), and left.

So, friday rolls around, and I'm bored and hornier than ron jeremy. I decide that afternoon that I'm ****ing her, and that's all there is to it.

I call her up around 6, tell her I'm in her neck of the woods visiting a friend, and want to see if she wants to get a drink w me later around 9 (so she has a little time to get ready). She says she'd love to come but she is so tired from the night before, she didn't sleep because she was up really late, she was just going to hang around her apt. I don't take it personally, and I say ok go have fun being boring.

I go get a drink with my friends at the bar, and around 9 I text her "want some company? I've got a good movie. haha jk have fun hanging out by yourself." She sends me back this text in which I can tell she's riled up, and she asks me where I'm going to be. No reply from me for 3 hours, I'm drinking (push pull no?).

It gets to be around 12, I'm a little tipsy but trying to stay straight because I KNOW she's going to text me back, and voila, at 12 she texts me bak "Ok you can come over and watch this movie with me, but you don't have to since your out and if you don't ill talk to you later ." LOL. and the rest was history.

Ok, excuse me, gotta reply to her text, round 2 tonight? :yes:

(ps. she told me she said no at first "to see what my reaction would be.") This is a lesson for all you out there, if there's something that catches your eye, then go out and get it, don't listen to anyone else, including her.

 

[ARrocket]

Congrats man! It's great to see guys learning on here...now that you've unleashed the beast, you're good to go!! Glad I could help! :rockon:

 

[kingxxxman]

CONGRATS!! now question, after she invited you over, did you even have a video with you or did you just like start making out with her once you were inside the door and just started goin rambo on her? or did you have to escalate more?

 

[WhatdoyoumeanAIDS]

CONGRATS!! now question, after she invited you over, did you even have a video with you or did you just like start making out with her once you were inside the door and just started goin rambo on her? or did you have to escalate more?

no i didn't have a movie lol, that was just to get me in, I told her I forgot it. We ended up watching something on netflix. Definitely escalated once there, it was pretty clear what my intention was by coming over to this girl's apt to chill way late at night (even though I never explicitly said we were going to hook up), but I skipped all the light kino for more 'hands on' stuff. Made sure to give her a big bear hug at the door, got comfortable on the couch with my arm over, touching her a little at first, then a lot, then started making out....

she wore black little panties

 

[Tovansky]

good for you man. lol.

 

[zekko]

Congratulations, WhatdoyoumeanAIDS. I don't believe this girl was a 10 though. I don't believe in 10s.
Sounds like she did most of the work, or in other words she was the one who initiated and made the interaction happen really. Face it, women know how to game. It's great for your ego to be approached!

Also, remember this formula. I bet 90% of hookups happen in this way:
youth + alcohol + hormones = what we had here.

 

[Masculinity]

u bet! she was a total freak, I can't even begin to explain....

....she's literally texting me right now as I type this to hang out tonight lmao

Thanks on the details; they really help. Dude, I cannot wait until I transfer to a university and live there! Hah. Anyway, it sounds like she was the one who was really interested in you. Nothing homo, but I what's your rating from 1-10--are you pretty good-looking?

I'm trying to figure out what to change to get girls to do this with me and how much looks matter.:wave: