maphive
Don Juan
There are a few things you need to do to get your inner, and outer game, calibrated for going out in the field and picking up women, but also for living a healthy life in general.
First order of business: Get everything clean and nice looking
There's no excuse... You should keep your house, or if you live with your parents… your rooms in the house, clean. It provides better aesthetics which leaves you with a better frame of mind and it improves your overall health.
Go through your room and throw out all the junk you don't need. Vacuum everything, change your sheets. If your room looks ugly, go buy some nice posters, some cool statues and figurines, or whatever else would look good in your room. If you're going to be bringing chicks back to your bed… and you damn well should, you need to have the right ambience; get some stuff with warm colors, have a CD player and some nice speakers that you can play some good music to (Nightmares on Wax, Barry White, etc…) Your room should look nice, clean, and stylish.
Other rooms of the house need to be clean to. Whatever room people chill in, make sure you have lots of places to sit, a TV to watch, random things to fool around with (Spencers is a good place for that kind of stuff). Also make sure you keep this place clean as well.
The hangout room and your bedroom are the most important rooms in your house, so treat them the best: Make them cool and clean.
Second order of business: Get a suave wardrobe
Wardrobes aren't cheap, so I suggest you save up about a nice chunk of money (I saved up $800 personally) and go buy some nice clothes. Get yourself some nice pairs of jeans and some other pants. Get some cool clean shirts from places like Buckle or other higher end designer stores (no Abercrombie & Fitch guys, aim higher and cooler than that). Get yourself some watches, some good necklaces, and maybe some rings if you like that kind of stuff like I do... Just make sure it matches your style! Get a few pimp items! if you can pull off a tophat, do that. Maybe you can get a belt with a spinner on it. I personally wear a blazer a lot when I go out to places. Just get an item or two that draw attention, you need some peacocked gear (but god, don't overdo it).
Third order of buinsess: Get the important stuff done first
Alphas don't have stress, they don't worry about things. What's the easiest way to not worry about things? Get rid of stuff that worries you. That means stuff like schoolwork and jobwork comes first. You need to get that schoolwork and those projects done fast. With those out of the way, you'll feel damn good about yourself and you'll have a lot less stress. Responsibility like this can be hard to get used to, but damn think of the rewards you'll get from dropping your stress like that: Longer lifespan, more punani, a lot of things really… After I stopped procrastinating, I never looked back.
Fourth Order of Business: Eat Right
Diet affects more than how you look, it affects your mood too. Bad diet = bad mood. Bad mood = no chicks, unhappiness, crappy life in general. Do you want that? No.
If you think about it, it's really not that hard to start eating right. Add some fruits into your meals, everybody likes at least one fruit. Stop drinking carbonated stuff; you might think that's the hardest thing imaginable to do, but really it's quite easy. Take vitamins every day… Just keep your body healthy.
Fifth order of business: Maintain proper hygiene
Hygiene is important, VERY important. Shower daily, shower before you go out to an event. That's a minimum one shower a day, two on days you're doing things. Make sure you put some deodorant on before you go out, keep yourself clean shaven and make sure you keep your balls trimmed and washed too.
Go get some nice cologne, something that suits you, and wear it EVERY DAY. That Old Spice commercial wasn't lying when they said scent is the strongest sense tied to memory; it makes life a lot better when people remember you as smelling well. I personally use Chrome by Azzaro, it's got a nice clean scent and I got complimented on it all the time. Just go to the mall and try some cologne on, wear the scents around the mall and just ask people what they honestly think of it. You'll get some feedback and you'll get to see if the cologne fits you.
Also don't forget to FUCKING BRUSH YOUR TEETH. And if your teeth are yellow, I recommend using those crest whitening strips EVERY DAY. It's crucial that you have nice white teeth, yellow teeth are a massive turnoff. And never, ever, go out without gum or breath freshener on you. I buy a 16 stack of eclipse at Costco to make sure I don't run out.
Sixth order of business: Get in Shape
Big muscles are nice. Some nice hard abs are great. There's nothing bad about having these things, so why not work out? Lazy? Well get off your ass and make a schedule to lift. Buy some barbells for your house at least so you don't have to go far to work out. Working out also reduces stress, so why not do it?
Seventh order of business: Get out in the field and start gaming.
There you have it, how to get yourself in gear to get out in the field properly.
Edit: Edited for syntax, grammar, censors.
First order of business: Get everything clean and nice looking
There's no excuse... You should keep your house, or if you live with your parents… your rooms in the house, clean. It provides better aesthetics which leaves you with a better frame of mind and it improves your overall health.
Go through your room and throw out all the junk you don't need. Vacuum everything, change your sheets. If your room looks ugly, go buy some nice posters, some cool statues and figurines, or whatever else would look good in your room. If you're going to be bringing chicks back to your bed… and you damn well should, you need to have the right ambience; get some stuff with warm colors, have a CD player and some nice speakers that you can play some good music to (Nightmares on Wax, Barry White, etc…) Your room should look nice, clean, and stylish.
Other rooms of the house need to be clean to. Whatever room people chill in, make sure you have lots of places to sit, a TV to watch, random things to fool around with (Spencers is a good place for that kind of stuff). Also make sure you keep this place clean as well.
The hangout room and your bedroom are the most important rooms in your house, so treat them the best: Make them cool and clean.
Second order of business: Get a suave wardrobe
Wardrobes aren't cheap, so I suggest you save up about a nice chunk of money (I saved up $800 personally) and go buy some nice clothes. Get yourself some nice pairs of jeans and some other pants. Get some cool clean shirts from places like Buckle or other higher end designer stores (no Abercrombie & Fitch guys, aim higher and cooler than that). Get yourself some watches, some good necklaces, and maybe some rings if you like that kind of stuff like I do... Just make sure it matches your style! Get a few pimp items! if you can pull off a tophat, do that. Maybe you can get a belt with a spinner on it. I personally wear a blazer a lot when I go out to places. Just get an item or two that draw attention, you need some peacocked gear (but god, don't overdo it).
Third order of buinsess: Get the important stuff done first
Alphas don't have stress, they don't worry about things. What's the easiest way to not worry about things? Get rid of stuff that worries you. That means stuff like schoolwork and jobwork comes first. You need to get that schoolwork and those projects done fast. With those out of the way, you'll feel damn good about yourself and you'll have a lot less stress. Responsibility like this can be hard to get used to, but damn think of the rewards you'll get from dropping your stress like that: Longer lifespan, more punani, a lot of things really… After I stopped procrastinating, I never looked back.
Fourth Order of Business: Eat Right
Diet affects more than how you look, it affects your mood too. Bad diet = bad mood. Bad mood = no chicks, unhappiness, crappy life in general. Do you want that? No.
If you think about it, it's really not that hard to start eating right. Add some fruits into your meals, everybody likes at least one fruit. Stop drinking carbonated stuff; you might think that's the hardest thing imaginable to do, but really it's quite easy. Take vitamins every day… Just keep your body healthy.
Fifth order of business: Maintain proper hygiene
Hygiene is important, VERY important. Shower daily, shower before you go out to an event. That's a minimum one shower a day, two on days you're doing things. Make sure you put some deodorant on before you go out, keep yourself clean shaven and make sure you keep your balls trimmed and washed too.
Go get some nice cologne, something that suits you, and wear it EVERY DAY. That Old Spice commercial wasn't lying when they said scent is the strongest sense tied to memory; it makes life a lot better when people remember you as smelling well. I personally use Chrome by Azzaro, it's got a nice clean scent and I got complimented on it all the time. Just go to the mall and try some cologne on, wear the scents around the mall and just ask people what they honestly think of it. You'll get some feedback and you'll get to see if the cologne fits you.
Also don't forget to FUCKING BRUSH YOUR TEETH. And if your teeth are yellow, I recommend using those crest whitening strips EVERY DAY. It's crucial that you have nice white teeth, yellow teeth are a massive turnoff. And never, ever, go out without gum or breath freshener on you. I buy a 16 stack of eclipse at Costco to make sure I don't run out.
Sixth order of business: Get in Shape
Big muscles are nice. Some nice hard abs are great. There's nothing bad about having these things, so why not work out? Lazy? Well get off your ass and make a schedule to lift. Buy some barbells for your house at least so you don't have to go far to work out. Working out also reduces stress, so why not do it?
Seventh order of business: Get out in the field and start gaming.
There you have it, how to get yourself in gear to get out in the field properly.
Edit: Edited for syntax, grammar, censors.
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