Broham
Senior Don Juan
Alright men and boys,
I just wanted to discuss a few scenarios where you don't need to apply C&F to be successful with women.
You rarely have to use C&F if:
-The girl is already into you
This one is self-explanatory. If a girl blatantly digs you b/c of your looks, personality or a combo of both, you don't need to be a ****y jerk. This will send her a mixed message. Show her a great time and she'll give you a great time later on
-The girl lacks self-esteem/confidence
Guys, if she doesn't possess these traits you aren't going to make yourself look special by cracking jokes about her. She may be extremely hot to you, but in her mind she's not that special. Therefore, there's no pedestal to knock her off. Focus on having fun and she'll be in your pants in no time.
-The girl lacks intelligence
With the dummies, you need to keep it simple. Alot of C&F comes from a quick witted mind, and alot of hotties just don't have this. You will just confuse her. It's better to focus on having a good time and laughing about (you guessed it) stupid things.
I'm speaking through experience here. I have scared off a few girls who were intially into me by being a ****y jerk when I didn't need to be. You need to qualify the girl here, feel her out and see if its necessarily. The 9s and 10s almost always require C&F and a sound DJ mindset. However, I'm willing to say there are alot of cases where you can just be yourself, apply the basic principles like not being needy, giving each other space, etc... and you'll do fine. Most importantly, HAVE FUN. I think most guys on here are so anti-AFC that they forget that having fun is probably the most attractive quality out there. I girl can be the hottest thing alive but if she sits there and does nothing, I'm out.
I just wanted to discuss a few scenarios where you don't need to apply C&F to be successful with women.
You rarely have to use C&F if:
-The girl is already into you
This one is self-explanatory. If a girl blatantly digs you b/c of your looks, personality or a combo of both, you don't need to be a ****y jerk. This will send her a mixed message. Show her a great time and she'll give you a great time later on
-The girl lacks self-esteem/confidence
Guys, if she doesn't possess these traits you aren't going to make yourself look special by cracking jokes about her. She may be extremely hot to you, but in her mind she's not that special. Therefore, there's no pedestal to knock her off. Focus on having fun and she'll be in your pants in no time.
-The girl lacks intelligence
With the dummies, you need to keep it simple. Alot of C&F comes from a quick witted mind, and alot of hotties just don't have this. You will just confuse her. It's better to focus on having a good time and laughing about (you guessed it) stupid things.
I'm speaking through experience here. I have scared off a few girls who were intially into me by being a ****y jerk when I didn't need to be. You need to qualify the girl here, feel her out and see if its necessarily. The 9s and 10s almost always require C&F and a sound DJ mindset. However, I'm willing to say there are alot of cases where you can just be yourself, apply the basic principles like not being needy, giving each other space, etc... and you'll do fine. Most importantly, HAVE FUN. I think most guys on here are so anti-AFC that they forget that having fun is probably the most attractive quality out there. I girl can be the hottest thing alive but if she sits there and does nothing, I'm out.