pikachu_69
Don Juan
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This girl I have had to NC who I really like and care about but have been having trouble getting close to is interested in my friend who i'm not that close to. I asked him advice before about dealing with girls from his country cos they're from the same country but I think he might be pulling wool over my eyes about his interactions with her.
When I asked him advice again a couple weeks ago, he failed to mention that he went partying with her 1 night a few weeks ago and made it seem as if he was talking to her a bit for 5mins and danced with her. At the time we were still going out, but when things went bad she got her friend to ask a mutual friend to get his number. He says she's beautiful which makes me suspicious about his intentions. He doesn't want to fall in love with a girl from his country while he's abroad because he'll go back home and she'll still be here and also for me he won't go out with her, but that doesn't mean sh1t, cos if he wants to bang her and shes up for it.. why would he deny himself that?
I think i've been gullible in this situation and believing too much BS, he knew 2 weeks ago that she was interested in him, so why didn't he tell me?
This week while I was NC'ing her and it seemed to be working, she got tragic news that her mother is really ill and had to go to hospital, they were in a cafe together while she was bookiing her ticket online to go home and she invited him to sit down and join her. she left her number for him. She knows I know him, so is that any reason why she's trying to get with him?
Also yesterday before she left and was at the airport she texted him 'hey good looking, im at the airport leaving now, why didn't u text me? '
It was translated from their language and I don't know if he replied to her I didn't ask him, but it seems the interaction from Wednesday involved him telling her he'd text her.
This happened on Wednesday and I don't know why he didn't tell me any of this until today when he saw me. Is it cos he just sees her as a new potential bang and isn't going to jeopardise that by telling me?
He's a bit of a player, he's a challenge he has lots of social proof, loads of girls are interested in him he's playful. Everything I should have done. So I can understand why she's interested in him. He didn't show her much interest.
Is she just trying to get back at me or is she genuinely interested in him?
The thing is timeline wise she seemed interested him 2 weeks before I made her jealous and her mom being ill puts me in an iffy situation where I feel bad cos I do care for her but she told me to leave her alone.
When I asked him advice again a couple weeks ago, he failed to mention that he went partying with her 1 night a few weeks ago and made it seem as if he was talking to her a bit for 5mins and danced with her. At the time we were still going out, but when things went bad she got her friend to ask a mutual friend to get his number. He says she's beautiful which makes me suspicious about his intentions. He doesn't want to fall in love with a girl from his country while he's abroad because he'll go back home and she'll still be here and also for me he won't go out with her, but that doesn't mean sh1t, cos if he wants to bang her and shes up for it.. why would he deny himself that?
I think i've been gullible in this situation and believing too much BS, he knew 2 weeks ago that she was interested in him, so why didn't he tell me?
This week while I was NC'ing her and it seemed to be working, she got tragic news that her mother is really ill and had to go to hospital, they were in a cafe together while she was bookiing her ticket online to go home and she invited him to sit down and join her. she left her number for him. She knows I know him, so is that any reason why she's trying to get with him?
Also yesterday before she left and was at the airport she texted him 'hey good looking, im at the airport leaving now, why didn't u text me? '
It was translated from their language and I don't know if he replied to her I didn't ask him, but it seems the interaction from Wednesday involved him telling her he'd text her.
This happened on Wednesday and I don't know why he didn't tell me any of this until today when he saw me. Is it cos he just sees her as a new potential bang and isn't going to jeopardise that by telling me?
He's a bit of a player, he's a challenge he has lots of social proof, loads of girls are interested in him he's playful. Everything I should have done. So I can understand why she's interested in him. He didn't show her much interest.
Is she just trying to get back at me or is she genuinely interested in him?
The thing is timeline wise she seemed interested him 2 weeks before I made her jealous and her mom being ill puts me in an iffy situation where I feel bad cos I do care for her but she told me to leave her alone.